u/whateveryaknowww

hey all! i’m currently rebuilding my clientele after moving cross country! i’m a hairdresser who specializes in lived in colors and razor cutting! i do pretty much everything though behind the chair! i was looking to maybe find some other pink collar friends who’d want to trade services with one another. you get your hair done in exchange for whatever cool service you provide. also not opposed to things not in the pink collar realm if you’ve got a cool trade or service you provide. also give people a space to maybe find trades they’ve been looking for! i work in carmel myself! we’d also be able to help with advertising for each other, since if i was ie getting my lashes done with you, of course im telling ALL the women in my chair to go to you!

anyway, just looking for some girlie pop solutions for us all in this shitty economy and well, all of it rn.

have been wearing a 34DD for years now. use to wear a 32D before 30-40lb weight gain. my 34DD is very uncomfortable through the cups so i’m not totally surprised. i’m all smooshed and smashed. got a 34DDD as well, is maybe a tiny bit more comfortable but not much. any insights would be appreciated. it’s taken me a long time to measure myself as i hate my chest.

she is in perfect health to start. nothing wrong with her in any regard. clean bill of health. she’s done this before. she’s honestly just a snob and every time i’m told she’s just picky.

the issue is she cannot have grain based foods. she cannot have dry foods. she can only eat grain free wet food or she vomits. my husband stupidly let her sniff the kittens wet food (she loves the kitten. she was eating fine before this. introductions went perfectly. that baby is her entire world) and she somehow got into the kittens dry food that should have been 100% inaccessible to her. but seeing as she vomited up a greedy amount of the kittens kibble, we know she did get into it.

now she’s refusing to eat anything. she gets excited for meal times but sniffs at it and probably calls me all sorts of slurs with her glare after. she’ll eat a churu. but that’s about it. we’ve got so many foods and textures and toppers. she is refusing it all. and i just know it’s because the kitten is getting something different and it’s what she wants. but 1. she’ll become a fat ass 2. SHE LITERALLY CANNOT HAVE IT.

i am at my wits end. she does this once a year minimum to us. and now my husband is fed up as well.

she is in perfect health to start. nothing wrong with her in any regard. clean bill of health. she’s done this before. she’s honestly just a snob and every time i’m told she’s just picky.

the issue is she cannot have grain based foods. she cannot have dry foods. she can only eat grain free wet food or she vomits. my husband stupidly let her sniff the kittens wet food (she loves the kitten. she was eating fine before this. introductions went perfectly. that baby is her entire world) and she somehow got into the kittens dry food that should have been 100% inaccessible to her. but seeing as she vomited up a greedy amount of the kittens kibble, we know she did get into it.

now she’s refusing to eat anything. she gets excited for meal times but sniffs at it and probably calls me all sorts of slurs with her glare after. she’ll eat a churu. but that’s about it. we’ve got so many foods and textures and toppers. she is refusing it all. and i just know it’s because the kitten is getting something different and it’s what she wants. but 1. she’ll become a fat ass 2. SHE LITERALLY CANNOT HAVE IT.

i am at my wits end. she does this once a year minimum to us. and now my husband is fed up as well.

hey all! i’m about to hit the road with my husband for a long haul move from california to indiana. we’ll be in westfield come this weekend. our u-haul boxes are scheduled to be delivered around june 7th (im not 100% on date yet) im assuming we’ll need moving help either june 8th or june 9th. we have two full u-haul u pods. it’s almost all plastic containers, a few tv boxes, a vacuum sealed queen mattress, 2 hockey bags, and a 3 piece couch.

we’ll be needing movers to unload our pods at the nobelsville u-haul location, into a moving truck. then unload them at our new address in westfield. looking for reputable, local moving companies. we’ve always hired family owned where the owners are involved from start to finish. i also don’t want to give my money to large companies who sell their moving bids.

so we’re looking to hire a moving team with truck preferably for what i’m guessing will equate to roughly 3 hours of work. our movers here between two men and stairs (our new place doesn’t have any stairs!) did it in 2.5 hours. so im guessing we’ll need about 3 hours total.

please reference any local and honest moving companies! i’m going to scroll yelp and google too, but maybe someone here owns a business themselves and can get the chance to speak up for the work! i’d love to keep it local to help small businesses in the community(:

thank you!

Really not sure what more to say besides the title. I’m a cosmetologist I know this isn’t protocol or acceptable. My provider saw I got the $300 chemical peel for the $70 sale price the medspa gave for their “tax return sale” and started treating me grotesquely different. She sent me into the buildings shared bathroom with a bottle of face wash and made me wash my own face. This is a $300 luxury service, my paid price or not, and i’m being sent to do the work? I wrote an extensive email to corporate customer contact. I’m just looking for validation that this is so wrong and unprofessional.

I’m glad it was my last visit as i’m moving out of the area, but i’ve gone to this medspa for nearly 2 years now consistently. I get botox every 3 months, and do big spends 2x a year as well. I wasn’t a one off customer (still wouldn’t have been acceptable). For the entire time I’ve been a patient there I’ve done nothing but rave about my experiences. all of my estheticians have been amazing and knowledgeable as well as my injectors. i’m just in such shock right now.

Hey all! My move countdown is at 2 weeks for a big cross country move. My health has been a very draining and painful rollercoaster my whole life, but since fall of 2020 it’s been next level. part of my husband and my own reasoning for the big move we’re doing is my health. we can’t afford for me to go to the doctors to even attempt to figure out what i’ve actually got going on. so our goal is to get me figured out with a lower cost of living plus family around who actually support us. and knowing i might have to go on disability in the sooner the farther future.

i know it’s something chronic, as i have more bad days than good. with that being said, im hoping to find some chronically ill friends in the indianapolis area. as my flare says ill be in westfield. making new friends can be hard for me due to the fact that im almost always in some sort of pain and spend alot of my time suffering through flare ups. people who understand the pain and the emotional and mental turmoils would definitely be easier to connect with.

a little about me; 33F, cat mom. HUGE reader. i love cozy games. zoos. baking. anime. i’ve always loved working out but can’t really do too much these days with the health struggles. i love the ren faire. i’m wanting to start sobriety to help with my anxiety and histamines.

so yeah i guess any other women who struggle with not only chronic health issues and pain, but also friendships due to it who like to start building friendships and maybe a little community?