u/wonderlust-vibes

Desculpem a ignorância, não conheço muito da religião. Ouvi uma história hoje e queria saber se é normal uma entidade (no caso, uma Padilha) dar um prazo pra uma pessoa (que frequenta a religião há muitos anos mas não é feita) se iniciar (não sei se é assim que fala) e assumir obrigações. Entendi pela história que teve um tom de ameaça, tipo “ou venha de vez ou vá embora de vez”.

Em resumo, na pandemia eu fiquei sem trabalho e acabei me endividando no cartão e entrando no Desenrola Brasil. Com isso, perdi meus 2 cartões de crédito nos 2 bancos que tenho conta (Santander e NuBank). Depois me reergui e tal mas ainda muito instável, só nos últimos 2 anos voltei a um patamar financeiro legal e ainda não reconstruí meu dinheiro guardado. Com isso, meu crédito acabou totalmente.

Há uns 2 anos consegui fazer um cartão pelo Mercado Pago, que me serve ok, apesar do limite não ser muito alto - por exemplo, não daria pra parcelar uma passagem. Eu tenho interesse em manter esse cartão quase zerado justamente pra ter sempre limite nele pra esses casos onde eu precise parcelar algo de valor alto. Porém ele está parcialmente comprometido com a soma de coisinhas pequenas - assinaturas, seguro do celular, espaço na nuvem, etc. Já tentei ter essas coisas no débito automático, mas nem todas aceitam e também às vezes eu esqueço de botar dinheiro na conta de onde debita e acaba caducando algo, é um saco.

Por isso, queria um cartão de crédito de fácil aprovação e não precisa ter tanto limite, só pra eu botar esse tipo de despesa lá e liberar o meu do Mercado Pago. O que recomendam?

Falo português nativo e ingles fluente desde muito nova, mas não estudo outra língua há anos. Vivi uma curta temporada no Chile e já viajei muito a América Latina, o que me fez ter bastante conhecimento de espanhol. Considero que pro cotidiano eu entendo praticamente tudo, e me comunico suficientemente, mas não dá pra dizer que “falo” porque não sei conjugar os verbos, por exemplo. Não escrevo nada, leio menos do que entendo quando falado. Não seria capaz de ler um livro.

Meu interesse é ficar fluente ao menos na fala, em castelhano, mas os métodos que tentei até agora não funcionaram pra mim. Duolingo não fez nenhuma diferença, nunca consegui chegar num nível onde me sentisse aprendendo algo que não sabia. O método da repetição acho que não rola pra mim. Tentei podcasts e cursos online, mas o podcast vira uma coisa embaralhada na minha cabeça e a aula online eu tenho extrema dificuldade de acompanhar, além de parecer muito elementar mesmo no nível intermediário. Sempre tive dificuldade de aprendizado em aula formal - eu aprendo muito melhor já praticando, por isso tudo que sei de espanhol veio das viagens.

Que métodos recomendariam pra eu aprender, especialmente a coisa da conjugação de verbos, considerando que não tenho como viver a língua no dia a dia agora?

When reading about it in mundane astrology, it seems we’re all bracing for impact. But I just read a horoscope by an astrologer I respect and she was pretty optimistic about it - on a personal level. Maybe it‘ll be good for specific risings or aspects, I‘m not sure. How are you seeing possibilities for this conjunction in our personal lives?

Estou passando um mês na casa dos meus pais enquanto meu apartamento está em obras. Tenho 41 anos, há mais de década não vivo a dinâmica deles (que já achava doentia quando morava aqui). Hoje estou aqui vendo as coisas com uma clareza de quem saiu fora, vendo exatamente as neuroses de cada um que os levam a ter comportamentos tóxicos um com o outro.

Não me envolvo, aprendi a colocar o limite no comportamento tóxico deles comigo. Mas meu deus, como é desgastante assistir eles se destruindo dessa forma nas pequenas atitudes. Não é caso de violência ou coisa extrema que eu tenha que intervir, são os pequenos maus tratos do dia a dia, a falta de paciência, a encheção de saco, a carência, as disputas de poder... Sei que se eles estão casados até hoje é porque de alguma forma pra eles isso está funcionando, sei que não posso "salvá-los". Mas é muito duro de assistir, porque "funcionar" não é o mesmo que ser feliz.

Como vocês lidam com isso?

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To make this objective: I lose a lot of opportunities in life by playing small and being afraid to shine. It's not conscious / I actually feel like I'm trying really hard to get the things I want and/or deserve, but I'm always undercut and come to the conclusion that I'm the one who's afraid to own my full potential. Why am I so afraid to shine?

Can 4th house transits or natal placements affect romantic relationships / partnerships? Would a marriage or committed partnership at some point become “family” and therefore part of the 4th house themes? Or does the 4th house rule specifically over family you were born in?

9 years ago I bought a great apartment - beautiful place, recently renewed, street was silent and person who lived here before is alive and well. Great neighbors too.

It's never been quite normal though. I have broken around 8 mirrors since moving here (as opposed to maybe 1 or 2 in the 30 years prior), 2 of them fell off the wall while I wasn't even in the room. Lots of unusual broken glass as well - for instance I broke two light bulbs just last month while changing them. When I moved, I had about 3 years of a severe cockroach infestation - they were coming from outside, from the roof of the building so nothing I did inside the apartment helped. Most importantly, I have on several occasions seen figures (spirits or whatnot) in the apartment. That kind of mediumship runs in my family but I do not have it fully developed. My mediumship mostly happens in dreams and I have dreamt of someone unaliving themselves in the apartment, which I did not investigate to find out if it happened in real life. I have cleansed the apartment many times with different methods since moving here and keep some things running full time like turmaline at the door etc. Despite what I described, I deal fairly well with all of this and have had happy moments while living here.

Lately however it feels like the apartment is kicking me out in more mundane ways. In the past 2 or 3 years the street has become increasingly noisy, to a point where it interrupts my work calls because I have to shut the mike (and I live on the 8th floor) and obviously affects my sleep. One of my floor neighbors passed and in her apartment now lives a family with problems they are broadcasting to the entire building through constant screaming, day or night. My downstairs neighbor has also decided to take up smoking - several times a day right below my windows, so I have been waking up smelling the smoke.

I do have a desire to move, but am unable to for financial reasons right now. I am looking for ways to make living here more bearable. I'm not looking to make my neighbors move, I really just wanted some peace, silence and fresh air. TIA

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9 years ago I bought a great apartment - beautiful place, recently renewed, street was silent and person who lived here before is alive and well. Great neighbors too.

It's never been quite normal though. I have broken around 8 mirrors since moving here (as opposed to maybe 1 or 2 in the 30 years prior), 2 of them fell off the wall while I wasn't even in the room. Lots of unusual broken glass as well - for instance I broke two light bulbs just last month while changing them. When I moved, I had about 3 years of a severe cockroach infestation - they were coming from outside, from the roof of the building so nothing I did inside the apartment helped. Most importantly, I have on several occasions seen figures (spirits or whatnot) in the apartment. That kind of mediumship runs in my family but I do not have it fully developed. My mediumship mostly happens in dreams and I have dreamt of someone unaliving themselves in the apartment, which I did not investigate to find out if it happened in real life. I have cleansed the apartment many times with different methods since moving here and keep some things running full time like turmaline at the door etc. Despite what I described, I deal fairly well with all of this and have had happy moments while living here.

Lately however it feels like the apartment is kicking me out in more mundane ways. In the past 2 or 3 years the street has become increasingly noisy, to a point where it interrupts my work calls because I have to shut the mike (and I live on the 8th floor) and obviously affects my sleep. One of my floor neighbors passed and in her apartment now lives a family with problems they are broadcasting to the entire building through constant screaming, day or night. My downstairs neighbor has also decided to take up smoking - several times a day right below my windows, so I have been waking up smelling the smoke.

I do have a desire to move, but am unable to for financial reasons right now. I am looking for ways to make living here more bearable. I'm not looking to make my neighbors move, I really just wanted some peace, silence and fresh air. TIA

I'm new to HI so still trying to figure out my situation. As a general rule, I haven't had sustained long-term symptoms, or symptoms so specific that couldn't be caused by other factors such as estrogen dominance, so it's hard to tell if I even have HI. I have, however, experienced some temporary symptoms on separate occasions.

Yesterday I had a routine day, ate at home (same food I had eaten on the previous two days, which I prepared myself - yogurt and granola in the morning + rice, lentils and ground beef; + a ham and cheese sandwich with a glass of milk at night - pretty much what I eat most of the time). The only thing I put on my skin was Cetaphil moisturizer, which I've used for years now. Sheets were 4 days old, washed by me in my own home like the rest of my clothes. No pets, live alone.

Woke up this morning and my legs were entirely covered in dimples, looking like heavy cellulite (orange-peel like). No redness, no itching, but very noticeable and entirely covered - not spots. Only the "fatty" part of my arms (the batwing, if you will) was the same. Nothing on my belly or other parts of the body. Took a Bilastine, it went away fast.

Is this how HI works? I wasn't exposed to anything new and have never had lipedema symptoms either. Could I have developed an allergy to something I ate in a matter of days?