fear period advice? (8 months)
hi all! i’ve had my first dog (APBT x herding breed supermutt, intact M, 8 mo.) since he was ~2.5 months old. so, unfortunately, i adopted him post-first fear period. he’s always been more timid, struggled with dog reactivity (training has helped tremendously), and some anxiety issues. right now we are working with trainers and he goes to day training everyday (while i work) which has helped him learn how to settle, and provided decent dog exposure.
i now think he’s entering his second major fear period; he is suddenly now more scared of strangers than he was (cowering, growling, boofing) and i’m really working with him towards more neutral behaviors in his environment. i take him to parks and stores, and we people watch, don’t let everyone come up to pet him, and reward for correct behaviors.
and, something i’ve noticed with him, is that i feel like he feels better in a heel position; a lot of people say to extend the leash to let the dog be able to distance themselves from the trigger if they feel uncomfortable, but he is totally fine when he’s in a heel. when he has all the leash to move around, i think he feels like he’s more “on his own” and doesn’t know what to do/feels vulnerable, so he’s MORE reactive when he has more room to move. basically, he needs direction when he is conflicted and doesn’t know how to handle his big feelings. however, i also don’t want him to become dependent on me to handle his conflict, so how can i help my teenager learn how to handle his emotions in this formative period?