u/youfxckinsuck

I’m at a point where I’m gonna do the same tbh. I’m a flex but I main support. I hate the point system because I always lose so many points and I barely get any. It doesn’t matter how many plays I do no matter how much damage or healing I do as a support it literally doesn’t matter. I had two throwers and I had to solo heal one game in the same game. I lost 24 points. Did the most healing in the match,Did a lot of damage had a lot of final hits ….22 points. Nothing is rewarded for support. This is gm btw. I’m not familiar with playing DPS that much but the way that I’ve done mediocre DPS and I got so many more points is ridiculous. The healing nerfs and support ult nerfs show so much now. The carrying capabilities on support doesn’t exist. The only support I would say could carry is Deadpool and that’s a pretty hot take.

During free shipping ended and even before free shipping I’ve had pretty good traction with likes and bagged items in my shop but after it completely fell off soon as free shipping ended. The only thing I changed was making the thumbnail photo a mannequin wearing the item. I know many new people joined for free shipping but I didn’t know it was going to be that much. Is this happening to anyone else?

It honestly feels like torture. Being reminded that they are able to do better with other children or their partner but your own flesh and blood doesn’t get that. Then later in life they try to give the food that gave you life when you were younger now it’s spoiled. I feel terrible how uncomfortable and how irate I get seeing them try to be interested in my life. They didn’t care when I was young when I needed it now I don’t need parental guidance now being an adult. I wanted to feel needed and wanted back then now when I have no point of putting up with the behavior now they are remorseful now they want to do better. It’s a load of shit with a gold plaque on it. It’s disgusting. A wolf in sheep’s clothing. I’m mean I have to. I don’t lie I don’t hide from it. As you can see my early adulthood is hitting me hard. Let me know your thoughts

Puberty hit me hard. Big boobs, big butt the whole shabang but I hate how other people notices too. For me being curvy it felt like it couldn’t be cute or just pretty I had to be an object of sexual attraction. I know it’s a part of misogyny how women are treated as object objects, but my thin friends couldn’t relate to what I was saying. Anything I wore was sexual. My thin friends would confide in me wanting to be sexy or to have big boobs. I told them the truth about how everyone sees your curves first before they see you. Plus, going to predominantly white school and being a person of color I was seen as fat and it completely changed how I look at myself. I don’t know if anyone else has experienced this. I just wanna know if I’m not alone on this.

My mother does this quite frequently even when I was a child now I’m an adult. It’s so triggering to me. Like I take time to listen to her and come up with the responses that make the conversation flow and show genuine interest and it’s like she doesn’t for me. I have to repeat myself 3 to 4 times. I’m always saying that’s what I said earlier. Or she like never responds to what I’m saying. It gets to a point during the day. I’m almost about to explode with frustration if I have to deal with it for one more minute. It’s like she could remember all the conversations she had with her coworkers or her husband, but not me her child that has been there before him. I’ve gotten past a lot of things that she used to do that would trigger me, but this one really takes the cake. It’s like reliving neglect every day. I don’t know if anyone else deals with it. I would like to hear if anyone has some coping mechanisms or if they also deal with it as well. Thank you for your time.

I struggled with emotional neglect my whole life and realizing it more and more in my 20s. I was talking about how mean people have been to me and how I did nothing to them to deserve it and he said this thing that was so remarkable to me in that moment. “Maybe you didn’t do anything at all maybe they’re just bad people.” Changed my life honestly. I always thought that people being mean to me was my fault and how I was somehow responsible. Yea sure you can say for some situations but some people aren’t nice people. Maybe some people need to hear this but i definitely did. Thank you all.

After the free shipping update I haven’t gotten to access drafts anymore. Even if I save a couple recently I don’t get any drafts or saying I have none. I never deleted the app this has never happened before so I’m a little lost. Anyone else?

I’m in college and the way that most of my male peers expect us to lead the conversations,do most of the work for group projects it’s ridiculous. I’m not your mom! I stopped doing it all together. It was like pulling teeth. The only other peers that wanted to get stuff done was other girls! So we all only interact with eachother and my male peers? Still silence. I would totally help them if they asked but they just don’t. Just expect you to guide them along. Has anyone else dealt with this before?