u/zeehun

So there are some hot days coming up and I hate this humid heat , can't stand it.

First time I will be working and sometimes it just means sitting for hours waiting to pump out of a well or pumpstations.

I hate the high Vis trousers work gave me, horrible hard material. I got a pair of combat trousers that are a little bit better but they are still thick and just hot.

Any lightweight trousers out there that are better for hot days or you guys just put up with it??

Answers from fellow ladies would be appreciated but take suggestions from guys too.

I am 40 he is 38. We met in January. We talked every day, through the day. Sometimes deep conversations sometimes just a check in. Sometimes it took 6 hours to reply, sometimes one hour. It was fine.

He was re assuring, he was not dismissive, he planned when he wanted to see me next, he seemed interested in me and he said he found me interesting and all that. We were together.

My only thing was I really wished to have more dates.

He left his job to learn to become a plumber and used his savings. He said this week he had some money taken from his account so he was really stressed about his bills. I offered to help him get his money back I didn't offer to give him money cause we met in January and I'm not a fool. Lol

He went into cold, emotionless one a day, one line texts. I told him he can't focus on me I understand I leave him he but I'm here. All he said is "thanks". That pissed me off so a day later I asked him to give me clarity if he don't have the capacity right now for us then just tell me.

He said he don't appreciates this pressure and he will talk to me when he can. Total dismissal.

This ALWAYS happens to me. I'm dating someone, they get stressed, they ghost me, weeks/months /or even a year later they try to come back " I had a lot going on" .

I do like this guy but I just cannot accept this withdrawal cause I know what this means. I am getting ghosted and left after everything he was saying to me.

My friends are saying to give him grace and to stop leaving men when things get a bit hard. But people choose who they keep in contact with no matter the stress or troubles. I don't leave cause things are hard, I leave because I cannot accept the whole let me withdraw cause I am stressed excuse then having the audacity to try come back like nothing happened

My friends say I am an dismissive avoidant and I have no room for error. They don't understand how many times this happened to me already and I cannot build back the same level of intimacy and commitment after this.

Would I be an asshole for leaving a man when he's down or am I protecting myself as I should? .

Hey all,

I am having a short break in Málaga, from a Monday morning till Friday afternoon.

So 2.5 days in Málaga with Monday afternoon counting. Probably landing, get to my hotel, leave my luggage and have a short walk around the old city as hotel is nearby. Go back, check in then probs check out the beach and area , find dinner around 8pm...if not that's too early, let me know🙃. Want to find a local place with local food , not too touristy.

Then Tuesday I want to travel for a day to Cordoba or maybe Seville.

I love architecture, history, museums, palaces, castles. Easily walkable, not too much need for public transport. Maybe a nice park to rest.

So I know Seville is bigger and I don't like to rush. Cordoba is a pretty town from what I've seen online and doable in a day.

Are there any other towns I should visit maybe? Or which one out of the 2?

Wednesday, Thursday to stay in Málaga, little bit of beach and a lot of walking and sightseeing 🌞.

Thanks for suggestions.

Hi All,

Anyone struggled to connect their watch 7 to Google pixel 10? I did all the fixes Gemini told me to. It was telling me to get into the developer option of the pixel. I can't even do that. Because the About phone THEN Android version THEN BUILD VERSION option are greyed out. So I cannot tap on it to activate the developer system. So I am stuck. I got the phone today, any other Bluetooth devices like my car connects fine. Anyone had this particular problem?