You can understand trauma and still not like a character
This is not an anti-Nesta take. This is a weird discussion to have on Reddit of all places but it needs to be said because it is prevalent in this fandom. And at this point, I think mods in certain places need to stop allowing certain comments.
We do not owe the internet our life stories to have an opinion on a book character.
We do not need to list our mental health diagnosis to have an opinion on a book character.
Ww don't need to discuss why you "relate" to a character. These characters are not real. We can tell people our story, your traumas, whatever-if we want to. But we shouldn't feel forced to explain our stories to strangers on the internet why we may not like a book character. These characters are not real.
None of us are Nesta. Or Elain. Or Feyre. We can understand PTSD. We can understand depression. We can understand why characters do certain things. But we've never died UTM. We've never been thrown into a cauldron and turned into faeries.
I am so so so sick of comments from people telling anyone that if they don't like a book character that it "must be nice to not understand trauma".
Just shut up.