r/AutisticPride

Found an anti-Autistic hate subreddit.

Recently came across a disgusting, hateful subreddit r/raisedbyautistics , which promotes hate against Autistic parents, stereotypes Autistic people and traits, and implies that Autistic people cause trauma. Some people even draw lines between autism and narcissism.

In reality, of course, Autistic people can make great and loving family members and parents, and "communities" like this only serve to spread vitriol and discourage some of us who might want to be parents.

Let's sound the alarm and report it to reddit and get it taken down.

EDIT: you can report a subreddit through this form. https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/requests/new?ticket_form_id=360001103212

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u/comradeautie — 6 hours ago

My mom wants me to stop my meds and that she will kick me out if I don’t. Any advice on how to handle this?

Not related to autism but I am deciding to post on here because I’ve posted on other subreddits and I’ve gotten very rude comments invalidating me, insinuating I’m severely mentally ill, and criticizing me for being an adult who’s dependent on my family.

So I’m 26 years old and I live with my mother. I currently have temporary physical disabilities that prevent me from working, going to school, driving, and doing a bunch of other things. This started after I took a lot of antibiotics in December. This caused my first set of health problems. I had to drop out of school, leave my job, and move out of the room I was renting and live with my mother.

On April 26, the 50lb shutters on my window collapsed and fell on me. I developed concussion symptoms after that. I’ve gone to so many doctors (fyi, my mom doesn’t drive me to appointments or to pick up meds, I use non-emergency medical transportation which is covered by my insurance) none of them can find anything wrong with me.

I’m going to see a new PCP and hopefully get a referral to a neurologist. My symptoms have gotten better over time, which is why I don’t believe my meds are causing these problems. What I need is time to recover from my health problems. My plan is to allow myself to recover and to go back to school, get a part time job, and move into university housing when I am well enough to go to school. On Monday, I’m going to look into getting SSDI.

My mother is an emotionally abusive and controlling woman. I do want to get out of her house but I don’t have any family or friends who will let me live with them except for 1 friend. But this friend lives in an apartment with 3 other people and I’m concerned one of them would take issue with me living there and potentially report me.

My mother thinks that I am purposefully taking advantage of her and choosing to live my life like this. I am not- I told her this and my plans to move out and be independent. I want to fully recover and be independent. I am looking into case management services, transitional housing, and a shelter. My grandfather said he could pay the rent for the transitional housing. But it’s almost impossible to get into a shelter in my county if you’re single with no children, not pregnant, and not fleeing from intimate partner violence.

She thinks I’m not doing everything to recover and that I’m severely mentally ill, which is not true. I take 42 mg of caplyta and 12.5 mg of seroquel once a day (I am not bipolar or schizophrenic. These are just the meds that help me). She developed this ridiculous idea that my meds are causing my health problems. I started my meds months before my health problems even started.

My health problems are attributed to heavy antibiotic usage and the accident regarding my shutters. She has used ChatGPT and whatever her aunt (who’s a retired psychiatrist) said to justify her beliefs. I saw a psychiatric NP and a PA who told me that my meds were likely not causing these problems and my mother refused to believe this.

I asked her if a letter from a psychiatrist explaining that my meds are not the problem would suffice and she said no. I told her that no doctor I’ve seen (and I’ve seen a lot) believes my meds are causing my problems and this is still not enough justification for her.

I got her to agree to go to an appointment with me and a psychiatrist (Not a PA or NP) to discuss my meds. She agreed. Now I just need to ensure the psychiatrist is on board with this and prepare this person for how my mother is going to act. I’m also going to ask my grandfather if he would do a trial run of me living with him.

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u/squishmallow2399 — 9 hours ago

Autistic people of Reddit, do these actually help?

I can’t sit still in my seat, my classmates recommended me one of these, but do they work or are they just a nuisance?

u/teddy_205 — 1 day ago

Autistic Barbie is Awesome & I don't understand why people bashed it.

For my 37th Birthday on Canada Day I got the most sentimental Barbie. I got the Autistic Barbie, growing up I loved playing with Barbies until I was 14 & my dog ate the majority of them haha. I don't use an AAC device, but I do use stim toys and ear defenders or loops when needed and have noise cancelling headphones.

u/LisKozCatMeow — 1 day ago
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Alejandro Ripley

Alejandro Ripley was nine years old his mother is convicted for drowing him in May of 2020. She said two black men had taken him. That gave me Susan Smith vibes. Poor kid never stood a chance. There is really too much evil in this world. I saw an older post here which is why I thought I would talk about the case. He seemed like a sweet boy.

I understand special needs kids can be hard but killing them isn't the answer.

u/Sudden_Quality_9001 — 1 day ago

I'm a trans autistic woman. I write science fiction and fantasy books and comics. Please check out this slideshow of my work, and see if any of them interest you. I have links in the body.

My name is Bijhan Agha. I'm a trans Muslim Uruguayan of Iranian descent with autism. My nonbinary spouse, RaeRae, is my editor. The comics are alternately illustrated by SwapTrap, a cis man from India; and Pallet, a trans man from Australia. The books' covers are illustrated by either Duende, a queer woman from the Philipines; or Ceci, a cis Uruguayan woman.

At no point was AI ever used to generate text or art.

What is Time Wars
I've created a fictional universe where Humanity and Vampirekind have been eternally locked in a shadow war across every culture and in every era of history. In the deep future, time travel is invented, and both sides send agents into the past to recruit "temporal natives" to change the course of history. While the Vampires recruit the influential and powerful, Humanity empowers the marginalized and ostracized, fighting for a future beyond bigotry.

If you'd like to join our community for news and updates, we have a free tier on Patreon. Higher tier levels include free digital copies of our stories.
http://www.Patreon.com/JamsheedStudios

NOVELS

All of the novels are available exclusively in digital formats: PDF, EPUB, and DOCX.

The Undying Queen and the Dragon's Son
I wanted to tell a gothic horror story, and have the magic of the universe rooted in real history. Artemisia of Halicarnassus has always been fascinating to me: a woman who inherited her father's regency due to her unparalleled skill as a warrior and sailor, and the first woman to be a naval admiral in recorded history. I'm also intrigued by the historical figure of Vlad Dracula, made famous by the novel Dracula, but whose real legacy is much more devastating and brutal. I decided to make them both just as immortal as their legacies by giving them X-Crystals, powerful magical artifacts in the Time Wars universe, which allow the users to manifest their emotions as physical and elemental powers. I did thorough research into both Artemisia's time and culture, as well as 15th century Wallachia, including maps of the capital city of Tagoviste. The story I told here is at once loving and upsetting, a center of hope surrounded by a patina of despair. I hope it thrills, terrifies, and inspires you.
https://jamsheedstudios.itch.io/time-wars-the-undying-queen-and-the-dragons-son

Legends of the Order
In much the same ways that some civilizations lionize their historical figures - such as Heracles of Thebes, Arthur Pendragon, and Julius Caesar - assigning them magical properties or even worshipping them as gods, I thought it would be a wonderful thing to re-imagine the heroes of America as such. The story is about Harriet Tubman and John Brown being given alien technology by agents from the future, so they can wage a broader and more devastating campaign against the Vampires who are behind the insititution of slavery and machinations of war. When a treasure trove of alien technology is discovered under the Nevada desert, Tubman and Brown must assemble a team to heroes to race the Vampires to the buried starship. It include an ensemble cast include a gay tans man who uses a mysterious stone to teleport, a free Black cis man who worships the Olympians and uses robotic limbs to fight, a trans Muslim Persian woman who has an X-Crystal and hunts Vampires on her own terms, and a gay Chinese-American former coolie who has become the sheriff of Rock Hen, Nevada due to this amazing gunslinging - among many others. The story is told alinearly, except for the climax, challenging the reader to piece together the timeline.
https://jamsheedstudios.itch.io/loto-eng

The Phantom Revolution
Realizing most of my stories are from the perspective of those interacting with time travelers, this story follows a Time Corps Agent of the Human Republic from the 161st Century. She is a shape shifter, able to take any form, as she conducts a series of missions across history. However, her rival, Nadira Adona, is a Vampire who can also shape shift, and who seeks to upend our hero's journey. The story is told linearly through history, though each of the two time travelers experiences the events in totally different orders. The interweaving time lines, use of extraordinary technology from the future, and the mysterious ways they interact with the "temporal natives" is at once thrilling and puzzling. Though the emotional core of a woman trying to win a war against a deadly foe is clear, the order of events challenges you to read context clues and put together a clearer picture of how the characters experience events.
https://jamsheedstudios.itch.io/pr-eng

Starship Tatanka - Border of Terror
I wanted to model a future which is simultaneously aspirational in how society has overcome concepts like racism and queerphobia, but also pinned in by the Vampires' insidious efforts to perpetuate classism, capitalism, and hegemony. Inspired by the Star Trek's vision of scientists and explorers being a driving force in civilization of the future, I developed a delicate social network of unusual people from disperate cultureal backgrounds and of various neurodivergent natures who are working hard to form a crew for an isolate starship on a mission to map the nebulae on the border of the Galactic Human Republic. All queer by modern standards, they live in newly-formed polycules, managing their romantic relationships in addition to their professional ones. All of that is thrown into chaos, however, when a Time Corps Agents from the 161st Century arrives and announces that not only is there a vast Vampire conspiracy on a nearby world to initiate war with the enigmatic Ongol Empire... but one of the crew is a Vampire themself. The story that follows is full of puzzling mystery, brutal violence, daring escapes, political intrigue, and even starship battles. For fans of queer literature, and/or classic science fiction.
https://jamsheedstudios.itch.io/stbot-eng

Comics

All comics are available in both PDF and physical formats.

The Adventures of Kobra Olympus
Inspired by Golden Age classics, especially the original run of Wonder Woman, Kobra Olympus is a young trans Muslim woman in 2015 Seattle who has to balance her life as a tech professional with her duties as Agent Tha, a superhero empowered by a high tech cellphone that transforms her and gives her access to a series of tools and weapons. Her crusade against the Vampires is complicated when she begins a relationship with Dorothy Diamond, a much more outspoken and confident woman who finds Kobra's soft sweetness charming. Now the balancing act is more complicated, as Dorothy has become at risk just due to knowing Kobra.

We are currently having a Kickstarter for Issue #4, which includes both digital and phyiscal options to get back issues and catch up with the story!
https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/jamsheedstudios/kobra-olympus-issue-4-giant-armadillo-attack?ref=2p8cw1

The Adventures of the Legendary X-Knights
This time drawing from Japanese superheroes, the X-Knights are a team of queer martial artists in thr 22nd Century who have been brought together by agents from the future to form an unlikely team. Lilly McGann is a half-Irish half-Chinese lesbian woman and retired Air Force colonel in her 60s. Rocky Anoa'i is an aro/ace Samoan Prince and former professional longboarder in his 50s. And DeShaun Oliver is a nonbinary Black American in his 20s who has spent most of his adult life as a hairdresser in Fresno. Despite Lilly's temper, Rocky's refusal to take things too seriously, and DeShaun's lack of life experience, they must somehow learn to live, work, and fight together now that they've been given X-Crystals: magic alien objects which fuse with their body, allow them to summon physical armor and weapons manifested from their emotions, and control different elements with their minds. Their mission: dismantle a vast Vampire conspiracy which seeks to use the American military industrial complex to create weapons of horrific power, and proliferate them to battlefields across the world.
https://jamsheedstudios.com/lxk.html

The Adventures of Ash Grey & Saturn Olympus
A spin-off of the novel Legends of the Order, the character of Ash and Saturn are focused on in more detail. Ash Grey is a white Christian trans man who has stolen an alien artifact which allows him to teleport. Saturn Olympus is a Black cis man who worships the Olympians, and who uses robotic prosthetics for his arms and legs. They are the 19th Century's greatest Vampire hunters, having annihilated most of the monsters in Washington Territory, a region controlled by the Vampire Warlord Leonard Victor. Ash and Saturn are also two men in love, regarding themselves as husbands in an interracial, interfaith, gay marriage. However, at the same time that Victor sends the cyborg bounty hunter, Alice Hayweather, to kill them, Ash discovers he's pregnant! Now they have less than 10 months to hunt down to evade Alice, and hunt down and kill Victor. They'll need help, though - and so they begin the task of assembling a team of heroes to wage war.
https://jamsheedstudios.com/agso.html

The Adventures of Zero & One
With inspiration from "magical friends" anime and manga, like Digimon and Pokemon, I wanted to make something where both halves of the team were equal, and immerse the hero in a world totally unknown. Set in the distant future, Zero of Mars is a nonbinary youth of an ethnicity that does not yet exist in our time, who crash-lands on a planet called Elentia full of living sentient robots called Elemorphs. The Elemorphs come in all shapes and sizes, each drawing from different elemental power sources. Despite a language barrier, Zero makes friends with an Elemorph named One, who looks like a small deer and has nature-based powers. Together they discover a series of clues left behind hundreds of years ago by Time Corps Agents from the deep future, putting them at the center of a mystery which spans the ages. Soon they discover they're being pursued by a Vampire agent and their Elemorph collaborator, who seek to conquer the Elemorphs and bring them as enslaved living weapons into the Time Wars.
https://jamsheedstudios.com/zo.html

I really hope you find something in here which appeals to you. Me and my spouse have worked really hard to try and make stories which inspire, dazzle, and entertain. We struggle often to survive, and any help you want to give us by supporting our work would mean the world to us.

u/bijhan — 1 day ago
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Fight for your existence, fight for autism

Let's push back against eugenicist talking points, anti-autistic sentiment and ableism. We must do it.

u/Proud_Aspie — 3 days ago

How to prepare for a child moving in

My seven year old cousin is coming to live with me and my mother and I was wondering if anyone in this sub had any advice or tips on how to prepare for when a child enters your space. My biggest concern if she becomes loud or unruly. She’s been living in a foster home for months now and who knows what kind of behaviors she’s picking up there.

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u/theeviloneisyou — 3 days ago

Richard Gadd is one of us!!

I had no idea until today that Richard Gadd was open about being autistic!! I loved Baby Reindeer and Half Man, and love to see an autistic creative thriving, to rave reviews. Between the tism and the fact that trauma is a major theme for him, it's no wonder the work felt so immersive and relatable to me. It also makes sense thinking about how he had his hand in the writing, directing, and acting pots. When we want something just so, we want it just so 😅

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u/EveryReaction3179 — 3 days ago
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Hi y'all I made a free benefits tool for Canadians and newcomers. 2 minutes of questions and you'll find out what you're eligible for. Your current benefits might unlock other benefits so worth checking. MyEligible.ca (no third party, no sign in). Made this in my spare time.

I hope this is helpful for many. myeligible.ca

u/noTextOnly — 4 days ago

I’m 17 and with little understanding of money, so I’m very proud of this!

Dolls are my special interest but I often impulse buy, so I made it visual!

u/sectretly-a-shark — 4 days ago

Does anyone else have their tone of voice misread?

I feel like this happens so often to me, people think that I’m mad or that I’m sad or a lot of different emotions that they think I’m trying to express when sometimes I feel the opposite of how I am being interpreted.

u/retrophiliac — 4 days ago

Friendship Struggles

I’m an autistic founder building something around neurodivergent social connection because honestly, I’ve struggled with masking and feeling misunderstood myself.

One thing I’m tryna understand:
What makes friendship or connection hardest for you?

I mean I've heard things like:
masking
small talk
fear of rejection
not knowing how words come across
feeling drained

But I’m trying to figure out what actually matters most and what people would genuinely want from something like that.

Honest thoughts also welcome

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u/Bilal-h4679 — 4 days ago

J'ai l'impression de perdre ma vie sociale

Okay, avant tout, salut à tous,

En ce moment, ça va pas du tout... je me sens super déprimée, mais le pire, c'est que je veux rester toute seule. Tout le temps. Je ne veux pas voir mes amis, mais je veux les garder quand-même... je ne réponds pas à leurs messages pendant plusieurs jours et après je pense qu'ils m'en veuillent, ce qui est normal... Le truc c'est que je préfère m'isoler plutôt que de devoir supporter les interactions sociales etc... je ne sais plus quoi faire ou quoi dire à mes amis 😭 aidez moi s'il vous plaît je ne veux pas les perdre..... :(

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u/astro_lou — 5 days ago
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My pin collection tour

these aren’t all the pins I have but there was confusion on my last lanyard tour that I was a klepto because of the formatting of the pin but I am not I promise

u/retrophiliac — 7 days ago
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Wide Lanyard Pin Tour

some of my identities have changed since and I definitely could add more pins

u/retrophiliac — 7 days ago

Remember, the parts they love at work are your autism, too.

Revolution is refusing to try to suppress the parts of you that make them uncomfortable.

For example, efficiency snd excellent pattern recognition are not separate from nervous system sensitivity. It's ableist AF for anybody to expect you to perform well while your nervous system is screaming internally.

So, for example, the next time you get a meeting invitation that you know could be an email, and the organizers cannot provide your role and responsibilities relevant to that meeting, decline the invite.

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u/LateDxOldLady — 6 days ago