Are Passengers on Fat Cruises More Entitled?
Okay, before you come at me, let me preface first. I saw a posting on a Facebook group for a Fat cruise. The lady had a disabled daughter that she wanted to take the cruise with, but also have vocal tics. The girl is wheelchair bound and just enjoys sitting on the deck and taking in the sights.
She also mentioned how the large cruiselines overwhelmed her daughter because of the number of people, noise and too much activity. So honestly, it would make sense for her to look into smaller, quieter cruiselines for her and her daughter. She asked if this "fat cruise" passengers would be welcoming and understanding towards her daughter. I
I was very disappointed in many (not all) of the responses. Most people said this would not be a good cruise for her, and said how should would disturb passengers in the restaurants and other places on the ship.
Do we really live in an age where people are put off by a disabled person with vocal tics?!?! We can't be disturbed by their disabilities on our vacations?!?! Really?!?! And, I'm just going to add that a surprising number of the dismissive comments seemed to come from the older (boomers) passengers, while the younger generational people that piped up seemed more receptive to her daughter's needs. Obviously that's not everyone in either generation, but the difference in tone was noticeable.
I'm just going to ask this since I have a fat cruise for next summer booked, I'm genuinely wondering about the culture onboard.
Do people on these cruises really feel that entitled since they're paying for a premium experience? I know assholes live everywhere, but is the asshole-to-nice-person ratio heavily skewed toward the entitled assholes on these cruises?
At the end of the day, no matter how much we paid for our cabins, we're still sharing a ship with other human beings. A premium vacation doesn't mean we're entitled to a perfectly controlled environment where nobody else's disability, child, personality, or mere existence ever inconveniences us. If that is the case, then rent a private yacht.
There's a huge difference between genuinely disruptive behavior and a disabled person simply existing in a shared space with symptoms they cannot control. I would hope that most people, regardless of what they paid for their vacation, can recognize that difference.