r/Nicegirls

So I knew this girl for a while we were like mutuals and we agreed to go on a date after bonding on crazy exes. The very next day she accuses me of having snap chat (I don’t but I once had a account and therefore it still showed I had one) the next date was her pretty just making me drive her around l. Everytime I checked my phone got a text she’d perk up and demand I tell her who it was need I remind you this was our second date. I get a text I open my phone and my fingers open my flash light she asks me why it’s going off. She doesn’t believe me and has me leave the store. Bullet fucking dodged

So we match, wanted to see her after a few days, she made a request for a date, I plan a date, and somehow I offended her ? OK CHARLIE 💀

Edit: to the people saying “when can I see your fine ass” was unpleasant, I could see that. However we’re both African American and it’s AAVE. Also she clearly didn’t mind to still ask for a date after that comment so… but I get the point!

Ugh, I’m so close to deleting all my dating apps and throwing my phone into the ocean. I almost got completely fooled by a match last week that turned out to be an incredibly realistic catfish… or maybe even a sophisticated bot. I honestly couldn’t tell.

It’s getting scary out there, ladies. The old ways of checking someone just aren’t enough anymore. What’s your actual routine before you agree to meet for a drink or coffee?

What’s actually working for you right now? Are you still doing the “hold up three fingers” selfie thing, or have you found a better way to make sure you’re not walking into a trap?

She dmed me first out of the blue threw instagram and tried to gaslight me like im attracted to her lol o thought she was talking to me because she wanted to be my friend wtf she always told me I was more than just a client, mind you she gave me her personal number on instagram 😭

so i went to my doctor to get out on birth, when i went she didn’t pay attention to my labs to see my 1800 estrogen levels (mine are always that high) but i got on the pill for like a week then my period came around and it was killing me like sick to death then i was put in the patch same thing happened. but now my period is late and im freaking tf out

Her bio reads like satire, but I actually work with her. She's in her mid-40s, posts things like this multiple times a day, and all she talks about in person is her dating problems and how much money she spends on weed.

• For CONTEXT- New to this. Haven’t dated or done the new conversations with strangers in a while.

Literally trying out FB dating first conversation this happens? I mean. I literally just said she’s good at it. If it sounded backhanded, let me know?

Side note the year and timestamp is weird. Idk what happened but eh

Hi, I'm 18f, so i have an opportunity to join a really good girls college for undergrad, and it's near my home, good reputation and everything, but the issue is that it's a girls college.
I've grown up in co- ed atmosphere schools, particularly bad experience with girl groups
i was bullied as a kid by a group of these toxic girls, changed schools- not toxic anymore, just 2 friends. Post COVID, high school started, and girl drama again spread rumours about me and whatnot. i got one female best friend in 9th grade
i got into a serious relationship in mid-10th grade. 11th grade- still my female bsf and my bf. It wasn't until the end of 11th grade when i stopped caring about others and just focused on enjoying my life and hanging out with people i enjoyed, so i was in a friend group of mostly guys with only 2 girls [me and my bsf], and i have zero complaints, i had the best senior year I could've asked for.
Jump to present- high school has ended, and I'm still friends with my female bsf and with my bf [gonna finish 3 years next month]
btw, before this whole thing, I wasn't in guy groups as it was considered pick me for the girls who hung out with guys more. Now I will admit, these guys were actually the best, and i had matured and gotten confident.
Now you get the idea that I've had a bad past with girl groups so how can i voluntarily put myself in an all-girls atmosphere for the next 4 years bruh? but the problem is that college is really good... the best i can get with my score. Do I sacrifice co-ed for a better college, or do I sacrifice better college for co-ed?
what do you guys think? Was it a girl group issue or the classic trajectory of growing up and maturing?
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I’m 17m and my ex boyfriend said this. An argument which started with me not wanting to take his work shift.

I usually ignore what he says, but js damn.

Edit: posting this on my throwaway account cuz I don’t need my Reddit friends seeing ts

Why do i always end up with these weirdos