Should I break up with my PT or am I a baby?
I (35F) have been going to this boutique gym since February. Prior to that, my husband and I were doing 2in1 personal trainer with a local trainer who had a garage set up for 2+y(we moved so had to change places). I still consider myself between a beginner and an intermediate - and due to past injuries I've been wanting to work with a PT.
Here is my problem: we just don't connect at all. It's like she doesn't really listen or pay attention. Her program has been good so far (we've done 10sm sessions) and she does demonstrate/correct when needed. I have been telling her that I have a very busy work schedule but every week she asks me if I've done 2 to 3 hours of cardio (and I've told her I already come 3 times a week and it's the best I can do right now). I also travel for work, and when I came back last time she asked me how was my vacation and increase my load to push me even though I told her I was so tired from this trip (10+ hours a day of training+activities). She also knows I take some medication which can make me dizzy or nauseous, but keeps saying I need to eat before our session (we train at 7am) even though I told her it makes me feel sick. The last straw was last session where we did a new program and I told her that 1. One exercise (back extensions) felt weird in my back 2. Another (ball slams) was making me dizzy and she brushed both off saying I'd feel better in a few sessions of this program.
For additional context, I pay roughly 120$per hourly session. My husband also sees another trainer from the same gym and our experiences have been night and day (his trainer ask more often about me than my own)
I guess my question is: am I asking too much of her? Or my expectations are too high because our last trainer was great. I feel like I'm paying a lot of money for someone who is just checking boxes and I still have 30+ sessions ahead of me (prepaid to get a better hourly rate). I'm dreading to confront her, I've never had problems like this - but this is really bothering me now. Any advice?