Is anyone else a little tired of the Facebook group?
The big one. There's a few different groups, but there's one that's the "authority" on this condition.
It's gotten a little cult-like with the Top Doc stuff. A new member comes in asking questions about providers or symptoms and you get half a dozen responses in minutes referring them to the "Top Docs" list "Did you check the files?" It's very dismissive.
These documents are not official either btw. It's just some pdfs created by current and former members. It's people's recommendations. That's. It. It's not some formal ranking endorsed by medical professionals.
Of course there are some doctors more renowned for this than others, but don't even think about going to one not on the list.
Do people really think everyone can travel 4, 6, or more hours to another state for a doctor's appointment? It's so arrogant to blindly respond, "Just go to Lum (orvwhoever). They're only a few hours away."
I've seen success stories in that group that AREN'T from one of their beloved top docs. I had a conversation with one woman specifically because we lived in the same area and I'd never heard of her doctor (and she had good results).
Hell, I've seen them shut off comments CRITICIZING top docs. One woman recently shared her experience with one of the biggest names in TOS circles and the admin posts something like, "I've decided to shut the comments off, but will leave the original for educational purposes."
Something changed in that group. Particularly since one specific admin took over. I've been in those groups for a very long time, but when one individual became an admin, the group's tone changed. She's a know-it-all. Bossy and controlling.
I've been a member of that group for years. It used to be a great outlet. People could compare stories, trade info, vent, or share a laugh over our predicament. But it's just different now and I find myself wincing whenever I get a notification from that group.