Nån transkille som har bytt om i killarnas i gymmasiet och i såfall hur bemötes det, i högstadiet hade jag eget men eftersom att jag byter om i herrarnas överallt annars så känns det som att det ska gå bra i skolan också.
Min remiss till Uppsalas mottagning skickades 2022
Dear all,
I'm from the east of Germany, quit my job recently and want to settle and recover myself a bit after some years of narcistic and transphobic abuse at work (especially after coming out) before I start a new job. Due to being fixed to my notice period in my job, I will be ready, travelling to the north by train and bus in the middle or end of September.
I will start riding through Lapland (initial point might be Gällivare (SWE), if I take the train - not 100% sure yet). From there I will travel south to Helsinki taking a detour through Lapland along the way. Everything depends on weather of course.
My question to you is, how safe is it as a trans woman to bike through the landscape of Lapland and Finland alone? I read in other threads, it is considered to be quite safe?
What should I take care of, especially wild camping alone.
(I'm experienced, being outdoors (winter and summer); e. g . I have been living in Iceland for a while, and have been in south Greenland just this summer. So I think, I'm safe from that side of experience so to say. (: )
I would be keen about meeting one or the other along my travel in autumn.
Best wishes and stay safe
Hej!
Jag har ett problem. Jag är svensk men har bott i Storbritannien sedan 2015. Här har jag blivit utredd och fått diagnosen könsinkongruens och varit på hormonbehandling med testosteron i ca 3 år (och haft mastektomi). Allt har skett via NHS.
I november flyttar jag tillbaka till Sverige och behöver då fortsätta min behandling där. Har blivit tillsagd att kontakta ANOVA om hur jag ska gå tillväga och det är här problemet sker.
ANOVA har bara ett telefonnummer och pga funktionsnedsättning kan jag inte ringa eller ta emot telefonsamtal. Det verkar som att man kan kontakta de via "alltid öppet", men för att registrera mig där behövs ett svenskt telefonnummer, vilket jag inte har längre.
Finns det något annat sätt att kontakta dem? Behöver få veta hur jag ska gå tillväga och hur mycket T jag ska söka dispens för att få föra in i landet medan jag väntar. Privata vägar är inte ett alternativ för mig.
EDIT: fick just veta att jag kan testa att skaffa ett svenskt eSim och på så sätt komma åt "alltid öppet". Om det inte funkar får jag be min "flatmate" ringa åt mig när hon kan.
Like if im in a different country than imago, should I write my country’s code for the pharmacy fax?
Im asking cause my pharmacy didn’t receive anything
hi guys im 16 and i just started vgs (16-19yr old school) and I'm fully stealth. It's fine except I don't know how to talk about my (hypothetical) penis. I told some people I have had sex one time before but I said that she had a panic attack and started crying so we stopped. One of the guys laughed and said "What did you do then, like pull out and say sorry sorry sorry" and that was the end of it. But for a moment there I realised I have no idea how to describe the functions of a penis or how to talk about it. Help I don't really have specific questions other than how to describe having sex with a penis sensations wise and also what happens with my dick, how fast should i cum, how many times a day do i jerk off, and how should i talk about it. Yep thats all thanks.
Since I got the prescription from transpoli and not Imago or GenderGP, if I printed out the prescription and went to a Swedish pharmacy, would they still deny me?
Or would I have to take the ferry/flight to Åland and take it out there? And would I only legally be allowed to bring 2 weeks with me? How likely is it they would check and what would happen if I were to get caught?
Just want to see my options here, I study in Sweden and haven't yet bothered to move my care from transpoli to the Swedish healthcare system.
Det går bra att svara på svenska också, eller finska för den delen ☺️
Jeg skal til å begynne på FHS, og jeg er trans. Jeg har sagt fra til skolen, og foreldrene mine vet litt og vennene mine har vist i 2 år, men ellers er jeg ikke ute verken til søsken eller tidligere skole.
Foreldrene mine mener at jeg bør prøve å leve som den gamle meg på FHS, siden de mener at når man først har kommet ut, kan man ikke gå inn i skapet igjen og at det er vanskelig å bli kjent emd folk hvis du er anerledes og de er rede for at dette kommer til å gjøre at jeg ikke får et like bra år eller kommer til å stoppe halveis gjenom året. Jeg er fortsatt ikke helt sikker på meg selv, og derfor mener de at jeg heller bør fortsette å være «meg selv» og bruke tiden på å finne ut av hva jeg egentlig vil.
Hva er deres erfaringer med dette? Spesielt dere som er trans og har valgt å ikke være ute på hele eller deler av skoleåret. Hvordan fungerte det for dere, og hvordan føltes det å eventuelt vente med å komme ut og hvor aksepterende var folk?
I've been on testosterone through Imago for about half a year now. While I am grateful to finally feel a bit more like myself, my goal is still to get access to a more local alternative for prescriptions, but I don't think Riksen is going to become more welcoming to me (I'm autistic)
DIY used to be on my mind but Idk if that's a risk I want to take just yet, entirely because my family loves to snoop around
But are there actually any alternatives? Are there still private doctors etc who specialize in that kind of thing? I'd try HKS but I'm not fortunate enough to live in Oslo, just in the vicinity..
On the website it says there are no available time slots to book a first meeting with a doctor and customer support hasnt answered me in two weeks :(( I already payed the entrance fee. are they just unreachable during summer or what? pls help!
Did they require them to be taken early in the morning, or would it be okay if I got them at midday as long as I completed the fast and had recently-ish woken up?
I am looking into getting top surgery in Helsinki at sairaala KL, and I’m wondering on what others experience with the first consultations have been? What kinds of questions are asked and what kind of environment is it? I am also reallly hoping to about the VAT extra so is there any questions regarding that during the talk?
Any feedback is very welcome :)
Is this normal in Nordic countries? They Said its cause they are from outside Europe or something like that, and I havn’t gotten anything back from imago after asking them.
I have asked my family foxtrot to Maybe send them the imago prescription for them, but havn’t received anything yet. Is this a normal issue or should I be worried? Im from Denmark btw.
Anyone from Nordic countries also have similar issue getting hrt from the pharmacies?
Does clynxx digital perscription from gendergp work in apteekkis in finland or do i have to wait for the paper perscription
undrar hur man skickar in nya blodtest och får kontakt att få nytt utskrivet
(imago svarar inte så jag frågar här också)
I'm wondering if anyone can tell me from experience how long it takes to get access to HRT and/or surgery in Estonia if I went through the healthcare system?
Is it worth the wait or should I just start considering alternative ways to access it or like move to a different country (I also have citizenship in Spain)?
Enliglish ⬇️
Så länge jag kan minnas har jag varit attraherad av kvinnor och sett mig själv som heterosexuell. Jag känner fortfarande attraktion till kvinnor som inte är trans. De senaste två åren har jag däremot märkt att jag också känner en starkare attraktion till transkvinnor (male-to-female).
Jag frågade en person som själv är HBTQ+, som sa att jag i så fall skulle kunna vara bisexuell. Samtidigt känner jag ingen form av attraktion till män. En annan person jag pratade med sa att det kanske snarare handlar om att jag attraheras av det feminina.
Jag har också läst att det finns forskning som visar att heterosexuella män kan känna attraktion till transkvinnor utan att för den skull identifiera sig som bisexuella eller homosexuella.
Det här är inte någon form av identitetskris för mig, och jag känner inget behov av att sätta en viss etikett på mig själv. Jag är helt bekväm med vem jag är, men tycker att det är intressant och vill bättre förstå hur andra ser på det.
Därför undrar jag:
- Går det att vara heterosexuell och samtidigt känna attraktion till transkvinnor (MtF)?
- Finns det någon här som har varit i en liknande situation? Hur tänkte eller resonerade ni kring er sexualitet, och hur hanterade ni det?
Jag är främst nyfiken på andras perspektiv och erfarenheter.
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As long as I can remember, I’ve been attracted to women and have considered myself heterosexual. I’m still attracted to women who are not trans. However, over the past two years, I’ve noticed that I’ve also developed a stronger attraction to transgender women (male-to-female).
I asked someone who is part of the LGBTQ+ community, and they said that I could therefore be bisexual. At the same time, I don’t feel any form of attraction to men. Someone else I talked to suggested that it might instead be that I’m attracted to femininity.
I’ve also read that there is research suggesting that heterosexual men can be attracted to transgender women without necessarily identifying as bisexual or gay.
This isn’t some kind of identity crisis for me, and I don’t feel any need to put a specific label on myself. I’m completely comfortable with who I am, but I find this interesting and would like to better understand how others view it.
So I’m wondering:
- Is it possible to be heterosexual and still feel attracted to transgender women (MtF)?
- Has anyone here been in a similar situation? How did you think about or understand your sexuality, and how did you deal with it?
I’m mainly interested in hearing other people’s perspectives and experiences.
Hi, does anyone know when to expecting to be able to Pick up her from a pharmacy after imago has confirmed it has been faxed to the local pharmacy?
I live in Denmark and went there today to ask about starting up on estrogen, but they Said nothing was there yet, even though I Got a mail by imago saying they had sent the prescription and all.
Do I have to wait next week for the pharmacy themselves to text/email, or should I be worried that it light not work where im from?
moii!! oon aikavarmasti ftm ja oon miettinyt että jos ikinä transioidunkaan, se ei todellakaan tapahdu transpolin kautta :D ikä ja terveys itellä siinä varmaan menisi. jos ootte hormoneilla imagon kautta, haluisin kysellä vaan infoa esim. paljon rahaa hoitoihin menee? lääkkeet, verikokeet, reseptit yms. ja kuinka kauan reseptin saamissa kesti, ja onko ongelmia saada testot apteekista :)
Jag är 15 nu och har haft möten hos ungdomsmottagning om att jag vill leva som kvinna och mer. Jag ska nu ha ett till möte där min mamma ska vara med och så ska jag med hjälp av min kurator förklara det vi har gått igenom och hur jag känner mig och sen få hjälp av henne att skicka en remiss till bup. Men enda sen jag har vetat att jag är trans och kollat upp saker om hur det funkar har jag varit så orolig för att efter utredningen ska dom tycka att jag inte är trans nog eller inte tro på mig att jag behöver det här jag tror inte att det kommer hända men jag är fortfarande väldigt stressad över det.