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This post is based on a real life scenario but I want to understand how a man thinks. These are all three girls that my guy friend (M26) has been in relationships and he’s the only male I’ve had around long term and I just need to know if the way he thinks is something I can expect from most men.

if you were in a position where you had to choose between 3 girls/relationships and doing so would mean the other 2 walk out of your life forever. Which are you choosing ?

The kind girl - this is the kindest most genuine woman you have ever met. She loves deeply and unconditionally. She has seen the worst parts of you and even though she can’t relate completely she has accepted you and will stay by your side through whatever downfalls occur in your life. She is almost too good for you and sometimes it’s like you’re not deserving to of her.

The girl with the perfect body - whenever you would see woman on tv or commercials or even porn. It was woman that looked like her where you would say “this is the type of woman I’m going to marry.” The other woman are attractive, but this girl there is not one thing you could say that you didn’t like about her physically. However, she is immature and likes to play games and gets incredibly jealous. She’s cool and funny but she always wants to set expectations on you she doesn’t necessarily keep for herself. She also makes so effort to understand you but when you guys are “together” it is always so much fun.

The soul bonded one - the first day you met her you started dating. She is just like you in every way both the good and the bad. You both love with conditions, when one has hurt you it feels good to see that they’ve also been hurt either by you or something someone else did. You do not trust each other because you both lack impulse control and micro cheat (if not both cheat just never find out). You fight every day but you are bonded through shared trauma and she can relate to you on a deeper level and you love the way she shows her love to you.

I know Lego recently released an update for new cars in Fortnite. I didn’t think they were going to be a limited time and I just haven’t been able to play in a while. Is there anyway to still get them or have I just lost out completely.

I need the anarchy from this raid. I had a friend who was helping me with it but they were getting frustrated because the teams we were getting there was always at least one person who didn’t know the raid and kept messing it up and in like 4 hours we would probably complete it like 3 times.

He’s not doing it anymore but I have a check point I just can’t find people to join and tbh I don’t like the idea of leading the raid.

I know how to do everything in the raid excluding reading the map and the tank. We do CAP on the green building and do the number call outs for dunking.

Is there someone who can help me with this I promise I’m not useless and I have mic and discord

My guy best friend is about to be out of his probational period for this amazing job he got so we wanted to go celebrate with him and my family.

I was thinking of taking him to a burlesque show because he’s never gone and I’ve gone to a few but as a girl what I think was best may not be what he liked best.

I went to the X one at flamingo and the zombie burlesque. I SWEAR by the zombie burlesque because it’s fun and artsy and like a carnival and funny. My cousin who is a guy but gay also really liked it for the performance. The other ones I thought were alright but I’m not into woman so it was just cool for me.

So I instinctively want to take him to the zombie one, but I want to know the opinion of a straight guy which ones is probably preferable since I imagine we would enjoy the shows for different reasons.

I’ve been considering doing something with sex work. I primarily wanted to do something with my voice, I take voice notes of myself cumming and have been told when I send voice notes telling a guy what i want to do it’s in a porn level.

I also don’t mind selling my nudes. I’m pretty creative with my nudes because it’s more then just a mirror selfie, I’ve taken videos for guys in my car, spitting, at work, etc and I think I could sell them. I don’t mind showing my face but I don’t want to promote with my face and I wouldn’t want to show my face unless it’s to the people who buy.

I understand that there is a possibly people could post my nudes, I’m okay with that but I just want to be more selective with my face if I can I’ve just never done anything like this and wanted to know if someone experienced can provide any tips or advice.

I’m (F28) looking for a fuck buddy and to be honest I don’t even really want fwb or situationship. I’m okay with that but I’m introverted and don’t care to get to know people I just want to have sex on a consistent basis. If they want to be friends I won’t fight it but I’m really in it for one thing.

Anyway when I’m meeting with a potential guy I have 2 requirements:

1. ⁠Either be tested, or use a condom
2. ⁠I don’t have sex the first time we link, I just want to make sure we vibe and I’ll probably give head just to see

After that I don’t care if they know a thing about me. And like no that it matters but I’m not ugly, I’m naturally curvy I have pretty eyes I know how to dirty talk and I’ll try almost anything once. However, whenever I’m talking to a guy about meeting up their either always flake or after the first time we meet they are all over me kissing me and touching me but never link up a second time to have sex.

I don’t double text, I don’t call their phone blowing up, I don’t send 3 paragraph text. I don’t think I’m being too much but it happens all the time and I’m not understanding.

I am offering consistent sex with no strings attaches with someone who base instinct is to please. I’m just not understanding why after months I cannot find a guy to have consistent sex with. I’m starting to think maybe I’m too forward or too much, but I know what I want I’m tired of conversations beating around the bush.

Is there something I can do to find a good FB? I’ve never had one and one night stands are boring.

TLDR:
I am offering men consistent sex with no strings attached with an instinctual pleaser, so why have I never been able to find a consistent fb?

I know you can pick blast powder up but is there a better way to farm it or craft it? I haven’t found anyway to craft it yet?

I recently started a new world and started working on star wars island this weekend, I was using one of the lightsabers I picked up but when the durability was depleted it completed deleted from my inventory.

Is that no longer a feature since we can build them now ?

AITA for overreacting

My guy best friend and I have a complicated situationship. We met on Tinder and used to hook up, but we haven’t in over a year. I still stay over sometimes out of convenience, but nothing happens.

We’ve been friends for almost two years and spend a lot of time together. He struggles with depression and PTSD from his past, which can lead to intense emotional outbursts. Usually it’s verbal, but a few fights have escalated more than that.

Outside of those moments, he can be really selfish. He had a rough upbringing and wasn’t taught to consider other people, which I understand—but it still affects me. He’s tried to improve and even went to therapy, but I’m often told I’m “too sensitive” or “too much.”

When he’s in a bad state, he’s told me he doesn’t like when I talk and that he’s only friends with me because he has no one else. During arguments, he’s body-shamed me, which really hurts because I’ve lost over 100 pounds and I’m still very insecure.

To be fair, when he’s in a good mindset, he can be caring—he cooks for me, makes sure I’m comfortable, offers to help when I’m stressed, and does small things to support me.

But when he switches, it’s like none of that matters. One time he asked me to stay over, then woke me up at 4am because of a booty call and kicked me out. When I try to explain why things hurt me, he’ll say “I’m not reading that” and ignore me.

The last couple months, he’s genuinely been trying to be better, which is why I’m conflicted. But I still have a lot of built-up hurt.

Today we were on a walk talking about body types, and when “apple-shaped” came up, he said I was one. I tried to brush it off, but he kept repeating it even after I said it bothered me. I stepped away to sit on a bench.

When he came back, he started calling me “Apple” instead of my usual nickname. I think he was trying to be playful, but it just made it worse. I eventually walked back to my car, and he texted “Apple, where’d you go?”

On the drive back, he stopped and tried to joke in other ways to make it better but I tried to say I don’t think we’re compatible as friends anymore—that I’m too sensitive for his humor and too hurt by past comments. But he kept cutting me off with “okay” and said he didn’t care what I had to say.

We sat in silence the rest of the drive. When he got out, he told me he loved me and to drive safe.

TL;DR: My best friend repeatedly called me “apple” (about my body) knowing it’s a major insecurity, and I told him I don’t think we should be friends anymore. Am I overreacting?

Am I wrong for being upset? I genuinely can’t tell if I’m overreacting anymore.

My guy best friend and I have kind of a weird situationship. We met on Tinder and used to hook up, but we haven’t done anything in over a year. I still sleep over sometimes out of convenience, but nothing happens.

We’ve been friends for almost two years and spend a lot of time together. We’ve had our share of fights. He struggles with depression and PTSD from his past, which can lead to intense emotional outbursts. Most of the time it’s verbal, but a few arguments have escalated more than that.

Outside of those moments, he can still be really selfish. He had a rough upbringing and wasn’t really taught to consider other people. I understand that, and I know it’s not an excuse—but it does affect how he treats me. He’s tried to improve, even going to therapy, but I’m often told I’m “too sensitive” or “too much.”

When he’s in a bad state, he’s told me he doesn’t like when I talk and that he’s only friends with me because he has no one else. He’s also body-shamed me during arguments, which hits hard because I’ve lost over 100 pounds and I’m still really self-conscious.

To be fair, when he’s in a better mindset, he can be very caring. He makes sure I’m comfortable, cooks for me when I’m upset, offers to help when I’m stressed about bills, and even helps me in games when I want to unlock things.

But when he shifts back into that selfish mindset, it’s like none of that matters. For example, one night he asked me to stay over, but at 4am he got a booty call, woke me up, and kicked me out. When I try to explain why things hurt me, he’ll say “I’m not reading that” and ignore my messages—even outside of arguments.

The last couple of months, I can tell he’s really been trying to do better. He’s been more considerate and responsive, but I still have a lot of built-up hurt from how he’s treated me.

Today, we went on a walk and were talking about body types. When “apple-shaped” came up, he immediately said I was one. I tried to brush it off, but he kept repeating it even after I told him it was bothering me. He told me I am too sensitive which really sent me over so I asked him to finish the walk without me and sat on a bench.

When he came back, he started calling me “Apple” instead of my usual nickname. I could tell he thought he was being playful, but it just made things worse. I eventually walked back to my car, and he texted “Apple, where’d you go?” By the time we got to the car, he stopped, but I was already upset.

On the drive back, I tried to explain that I don’t think we’re compatible as friends anymore—that I’m too sensitive for how he jokes, and I have too much hurt tied to the things he says. But he kept cutting me off with “okay” and said he didn’t care what I had to say.

We sat in silence the rest of the drive. When he got out, he told me he loved me and to drive safe.

And now I feel bad and like I over reacted. We obviously fought more than what I’m putting but I don’t know if I’m wrong for over reactions and being so upset for him calling me an apple and should apologize.

But I just don’t think we’re compatible anymore. If he wants someone he can joke with like that I don’t think I can be that person anymore. There’s so much trauma associated with negative things he says but also I just don’t think I’d want a friend whose way of joking is insulting me.

TL;DR: My best friend repeatedly called me “apple” (referring to my body shape), knowing it’s a major insecurity of mine. I got mad and I told him I don’t think we should be friends anymore. Am I overreacting?