u/20cabbages

i’m not deleting a 6-y/o vent page just bc of some loser tho, i have too many subreddits i like and i love posting here bc someone needs to see my food and i am a yapper.

if you’re reading this, linkedin message me like a man instead of stalking me like a pussy.

lamb chops, sweet potato, and spinach.

tldr: unblocked my ex out of impulse/curiosity and he's going out again with the girl i had a bad feeling about.

my ex (23m) dumped me (22f) about two months ago. we were long distance, and he hooked up with this girl in his area on and off before me. he took her off all his socials while we were together, but my stomach was still churning all the time and i constantly felt "off" even though he assured me they were no longer talking.

unblocked him on IG tonight just to see what was going on and turns out he's following her again. he liked all her pictures going back to ~ a week after he dumped me and they're flirting in the comments for all of them. i don't know if i got cheated on and flirting in the comments could mean nothing but it sure feels like it.

i feel bad because i'm still a mess after the breakup and it looks like he's just moved on in a week, perhaps even less than that. i know that i dodged a bullet but it doesn't make me feel any better. consciously i’ll be fine but i’m really annoyed emotionally.

my ex of two months tried to start some drama/get back into my life, but in the process made me remember how much he drained my energy. our history deserves its own post tbh but is secondary to how i feel FREE FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MONTHS!!!!!!!!! breakfast from earlier — ginger + lemon tea, chobani peach yogurt, blueberries, sourdough with smoked salmon

no makeup in any of these! any feedback on how to style myself would be helpful since i’m trying to figure out my look/makeup style. just trying to look my best :) will prob delete later

hi everyone! i don’t pluck my eyebrows from the bottom at all, but i think they are a little higher than id like them compared to the top of my eyes. any tips on how to reduce the distance between the two with makeup?

hi all! basically what the title says. no makeup in any of these photos! i’ve never really used makeup beyond a little concealer for acne scars and mascara, so i feel a bit lost on what would actually enhance my face instead of just copying random tutorials.

i really like my eye color — it’s a lighter brown/amber in person, though i’m not sure how well that comes through in photos (photo 3 is probably closest to IRL) — and i also like my lip shape, so i’d love any advice on how to play those up. i’m less sure about my eyebrows and whether they’re actually working for me right now.

i also have a somewhat rounder face / smaller chin, and from the front i feel like my nose can look a little broader too, though i’m not sure how much of that is actually real versus me overthinking it. i’m not sure whether i should lean into a softer/cuter look or if there are makeup choices that would add a little more structure without looking too heavy or if i’m just fixating on my face lol

i’d really appreciate any suggestions on brows, eye makeup, blush/contour placement, lip colors, or just the overall kind of makeup style that seems like it would fit my features best. if you have unrelated advice, i'm also happy to hear it (please be honest but kind lol.) i’m very much a beginner, so practical advice is especially welcome

on tretinoin 0.05% for around 1.5 months and have been on lower doses since around november. very happy with results for active acne but wanted to ask if i can do anything about the remaining scars. thanks!

hi all! basically what the title says. no makeup in any of these photos! i’ve never really used makeup beyond a little concealer for acne scars and mascara, so i feel a bit lost on what would actually enhance my face instead of just copying random tutorials.

i really like my eye color — it’s a lighter brown/amber in person, though i’m not sure how well that comes through in photos (photo 2 is probably closest to IRL) — and i also like my lip shape, so i’d love any advice on how to play those up. i’m less sure about my eyebrows and whether they’re actually working for me right now.

i also have a somewhat rounder face / smaller chin, and from the front i feel like my nose can look a little broader too, though i’m not sure how much of that is actually real versus me overthinking it. i’m not sure whether i should lean into a softer/cuter look or if there are makeup choices that would add a little more structure without looking too heavy.

i’d really appreciate any suggestions on brows, eye makeup, blush/contour placement, lip colors, or just the overall kind of makeup style that seems like it would fit my features best. i’m very much a beginner, so practical advice is especially welcome.

hi all! basically what the title says. no makeup in any of these photos! i’ve never really used makeup beyond a little concealer for acne scars and mascara, so i feel a bit lost on what would actually enhance my face instead of just copying random tutorials.

i really like my eye color — it’s a lighter brown/amber in person, though i’m not sure how well that comes through in photos (photo 3 is probably closest to IRL) — and i also like my lip shape, so i’d love any advice on how to play those up. i’m less sure about my eyebrows and whether they’re actually working for me right now.

i also have a somewhat rounder face / smaller chin, and from the front i feel like my nose can look a little broader too, though i’m not sure how much of that is actually real versus me overthinking it. i’m not sure whether i should lean into a softer/cuter look or if there are makeup choices that would add a little more structure without looking too heavy.

i’d really appreciate any suggestions on brows, eye makeup, blush/contour placement, lip colors, or just the overall kind of makeup style that seems like it would fit my features best. i’m very much a beginner, so practical advice is especially welcome.

what the title says! super new to makeup. i think i have a somewhat rounder face and softer features but am wondering if i should lean into those more instead of trying to hide them. any advice would be helpful bc i know very little outside of basic foundation to hide acne

got stressed and fell back into some bad habits … any advice on how to get back on track + heal quickly would be helpful. i’m on tretinoin 0.05% in evenings and azelaic acid in the mornings if that would help!