u/AardvarkThis732

I am not sure if it makes sense to block someone you used to love or still having strong bond in your mind. He is attracted to me and I am too and he expects me to meet him during business trip to have sex with him even though being married and having kid. On top, he is emotionally unavailable and anytime can leave, entirely avoidant type of personality. Very opportunistic. And contacted me only when he is bored, he barely acknowledges my feelings for him. He happened to be the chosen one when I was in my 20s.

The bond is very strong, I feel from my end. How can I possibly get rid of this person from my mind? Blocking him in emails made me check my spam. Please help.

So I unblocked him .. but then also I check emails as if there is a hope that he would understand one day.

Please help me.

Anyone reading in English? I started today and I am loving it, really.

At what % of battery do you charge your phone? I am trying to develop a good habit so that battery lasts longer.

Is it 20% when you start charging?

Can I charge at 37% also, or it is not efficient and too early?

Hi all,

I am interested to learn Kung Fu for physical health and muscle mass gain. I looked up several schools in my town, but I am confused. I know of only Shaolin Kung Fu. Do all schools teach that Kung Fu or anything else? Before calling the school, I am interested to know what do I need to know beforehand to even enroll for the training.

I also saw something called Wushu .. but I cannot jump for my bad knee. What would you recommend?

I got the feedback that I speak in low volume. How to raise that and still continue to speak politely, and deliver the speech?

Do I need some other vocal training? New to TMC.

Must we use the same charging cable to charge the phone? Or I can use a different cable from a completely different product?

Hope to get some constructive discussions here.

The question is in the title. Having the intense insecurity and lack of job security, how do you keep yourself stable at work without worries? Especially, when you come from the country where job safety was present to some extent.

Do you keep plan B for earning? Would you like to share on that and some tips to overcome these worries? Thanks. New to this kind of environment. Industry : Software

Keeping it short.

- Where to gte google tagged questions if google removed leetcode's google tagged questions? Any other alternatives?

- Anyone else preparing also? We could share ideas.

For myself, not leetcoded since 4 years and need to brush up from zero.

- Is it better to start from Cracking the coding interview book, or leetcode 75 or 150 kind of bank of questions?

- Any kind fellow to share the list of system design preparation links? I am so much out of touch of all these over the years.

I promise to give back once I am back on track. Thank you.

Hey all,

I was checking the description of this tour and it looked so exciting. I only climbed some under 3000 meter peaks in the Alps. And would like to be fit for such tour actually. The fitness level requires of 10 hours of hiking for multiple days. This sounds over my limit.

Running is not for me.

How can I possibly get better to reach to that endurance level? I am located in central Europe.

Looking for preparation tips and guidance to make Spaghetti tour successfully happen in life. For me, reaching that fitness level to say I can do it would be absolutely a big achievement in life.

If you share your journey that would really help me. :) Thanks in advance.

Hi all,

I am genuinely curious if water is available in the huts in Berlin High Trail. I see that in the morning Marschtee can be taken which is of 1 liter. What does it mean?

The tea is hot and my lightweight plastic bottle may not hold that. So, hikers buy bottles? Looking for suggestions. If I recall, such tea can be useful if you do some training in the glacier, in chilly weather.

Apart from that, Marschtee to quench your thirst sounds a bit odd.

What do people do in those cases?

Hi all,

I am curious about the process of renewing my German Pass and Ausweis from Switzerland as I am on B permit here. Anyone went through the process? Which office to contact and how long ago before expiry? These information could be very helpful. Thank you so much.

Anyone faced negative emotions like anger, sadness right after finishing the Vipassana meditation when practicing at home? It seems like certain situations in life where you cannot do much appear in the mind almost at the end of meditation and takes you away .. even if you are observing, you feel those emotions as emotions.

Am I doing something as mentioned in Satipatthana Sutta?

General questions - Is there a way to prepare oneself during Saturn MD for the upcoming next Mecury MD? Looking for ideas. Does astrology give any recommendations around the preparation for any Dasha?

Hi, I got my "auf Probe" license converting my German to Swiss driving license. Can you share how difficult WAB training is? I am a bit worried about driving because I am a new driver (one year old) and have driven a car only once all by myself after passing my exam last year.

Could you give some practical advice to me so that I can become a confident driver here?

Should I contact some school for some driving trainings on Swiss streets just to gain confidence under the supervision? Also, any advice for WAB so that I can pass easily? Would normal driving trainings help for that as well?

I am sure many of you had given 10 days service in your being a Vipassana meditator journey. What had been your worst service experience? What have you learned from the Sankharas that arose, any AHA moment and how you overcame that, or corrected your reactions?

Let's use this forum to share our experience so that we refrain from making mistakes while giving service. Thank you so much.

Please help me with some ideas to cope with this heat. I am not able to sleep well. Also, waking up is unbearable. Sweating .. whole body is hot.

I have one fan. What are you doing in this heat, if you are working from home?

Any food, drinks - any recommendations?

I was reading Chapter 6, and I was thoroughly disappointed reading the Purport, where for every verse Bhakti Yoga concepts are chipped in. I mean this does not serve the purpose of reading the meaning of the verses, right?

On top, it is written that Bhakti Yoga is the best and even better than Gyan Yoga .. I was shocked. I read Sivananda's Bhagwad Gita as my first Gita, and I think I got a different idea.

Very little was stressed on the discussion of Meditation in Chapter 6 in Bhagwad Gita as it is by Swami Prabhupada. Should I stop reading this book and look for some other copy which is not super opinionated and provide the explanation as it truly is?

Hi all, I have my German driving license (automatic only). And I submitted my application two weeks ago, but I got a call after 10 days asking about many questions like if I can drive on manual, and why there is a Schlüsselnummer in my driving license, if I own a car here.

My license is only 1 year old. Anyone faced this kind of experiences while converting license in Swiss? I understand that in Germany there are different rules. I wonder what decision would be taken for me.

Hi all,

**check up **

I am curious if the blood test or full body annual checkup is free in CH like in Germany. I am new here and not sure .. I would like to get overview of my overall health status yearly to keep things in control. Any idea?