Gallbladder out yesterday – DETAILED recovery update (much better than expected)

9:13 - I’ve seen the surgeon, anaesthetist and nurse . All forms filled out. Peed in a cup. In dressing gown and hospital gown, stocking and slippers. I’m going in at about 11 or 12. Maybe ever so slightly getting nervous. Had to remind surgeon about the endoscopy at the end of the removal.

Got told I can’t have the gallstones, they’ve not done it for 10 years.

Was talking to another patient in for something else, but she’s been called now. Another GB removal patient didn’t know some things, so I said she should ask who is picking her up to bring a pillow, so she told him to do that.

23:53 - late update:

I talked to a nurse, the surgeon (i liked her a bit after this - said pictures yes but it’s been years since they let people take the stones home), and anaesthetist. Was in my robe, dressing gown, slippers and stockings by 8. Was told I was last of the three so prob around 11/12. Sorry, I already said that, didn’t I? Talking and reading my book helped pass the time. At 11:10 I put my book away and got ready in case I was called between 11 and 12.

Heard them say my name in relation to “changing the order of the list” earlier but then “what about the last patient, ABitRuff?” So I was still last. That’s fine, only a few hours.

I was told I could have sips of water if I wanted but best if I didn’t, so I didn’t. My lips were dry.

I was called for surgery about 11:40. Asked if I wanted the toilet. Got asked if I wanted to walk or wheelchair, I chose walk.

In the anaesthetist room, they bagged up my dressing gown and slippers, undid the back of my robe, checked some consent forms, put the monitoring stickers on me, arranged the leads, and gave me an oxygen mask that I had to take deep breaths on. This is when my normal nerves set in. This is also when I found out it was not the surgeon I’d been dealing with who would do it, but a male surgeon. I had no problem with that, maybe the usual one had an emergency.

The anaesthetists were friendly and funny. I asked if it had to be my hand she tried further up my arm but didn’t work so hand it was. I appreciated her trying. They gave me morphine and fentanyl. After a few minutes, she said she was giving me the sleepy stuff. I waved and saved goodbye, she said goodnight not goodbye. I liked them.

My fears of exposure were kind of gone. Told by a few doctors/nurses they see it every day and don’t really care.

Didn’t get the chance to count down before I was waking up. Don’t remember the first recovery room but I remember giving a thumbs up so maybe that was to be moved to the ward. I was very sleepy and slept for probably 1-2 hours. I had an IV and a blood pressure sleeve thing when I woke up. I was drifting in and out, waking up when someone said my name in order to give me information or ask me stuff.

I think they put the three GB removals all in a line, separated by a curtain, as I saw the woman I’d given advice to on her left side asleep. There was also another woman with a jar/bottle and a drain to collect her bile.

When I was a bit more awake, maybe about 3/4, I asked to be sat up. Then I dozed again. I took sips of water and chose a cheese sandwich, which took me ages to eat -about 2 hours - even with little bites, it just sat in my mouth as mush before I could swallow it.

Oh, and they didn’t take pictures. Apparently, the gallstones were small so they couldn’t see them.

Got taken to the toilet, I felt bad for being much taller than the nurse as, though I was walking, I was slightly off balance. She said don’t lock the door. Sat there for 20 mins - could feel the pee but it just wasn’t coming out.

Gave up and told her this but I think she thought I meant that I had peed and ticked it off. I know I should’ve corrected her but didn’t.

When we got back to the bed, she left me to get dressed. I had no bra, a purposefully brought moomoo and work shoes, so I kept the leggings and slippers on.

Both my original surgeon and nurse told me I wouldn’t need the binder and they were right.

OH RIGHT, pain!

Pain wise I had NO Gas pain, I was expecting it and this was one of my biggest worries. My incisions hurt, to be expected.

The nurse (who I really liked) said I could call my mum and husband to come and get me. So 20 mins later, they wheeled me out to the car. They’d forgotten the pillow so I used my fluffy dressing gown which worked fine.

When I got home, the stairs weren’t too bad. Got home at 6, slept til 9. Slept upright but a bit slouchy on my stomach, so my lower torso was kind of flat ish on the bed if that makes sense. Very sore throat so I had a Strepsil. Sipped water. Went to the toilet - still had the problem. Next time I tried, it came out slowly and just a trickle. Everytime was better. No poop yet.

I slept fine through the night, 7 hours.

Now the day after, peeing almost back to normal. No gas pain still, I can get myself out of bed and to the toilet though my husband is there if I need (yes, there’s of course incision pain constantly, worse when getting up/down). A spot of blood came through one of the bandages. I have 4 bandages. I got lots of instructions. I’ll follow them.

An hour ago I had two pieces of dry toast and a small glass of semi skimmed milk. No side effects yet.

I feel extremely lucky and pleased that I’m having such a smooth time of it (so far). YMMV but just thought I’d share. Let me know if you want updates if my status changes.

EDIT:going to have a 3 minute walk with my husband outside tomorrow

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u/Abitruff — 8 days ago

Hibiwash before surgery

Anyone have to shower/bath with this the night before and morning of surgery?

My leaflet says do hair, face and body, but I have to be at the hospital at 7.30, so getting my hair washed and dried in the morning would mean a very early wake up call.

I’ve seen in my research some people told to just do neck down, or that they could wash hair normally the night before, do face and body with it, dry shampoo morning of and face and body with it again.

The bottle says to avoid eyes, but shampoo normally goes in my eyes.

But none for gallbladder removal, so I thought I’d ask.

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u/Abitruff — 11 days ago

Just finished, great start

So, I binged it. I was with it until the pregnant Anne/Lexi thing.

I’m a published author.

Just felt so rushed and forced and like it was meant to be fleshed out over 2/3 seasons, but crammed into the episodes.

I literally thought that was the point that the show jumped the shark. She turned into a nothing burger by the end.

I didn’t care about their emotional ties to her as it just felt so rushed. From then on it was eh. Just felt rushed and forced.

Shame, because I generally loved the show!

EDIT: oh and making Pope bald and go all bond villian….no. Felt like they just needed a bad guy for some reason so forced this. IMO this wasn’t his character at all.

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u/Abitruff — 13 days ago

Relaxing tumbleweed

Had a dream where everyone, when you needed to relax, would watch/VR this show called Relaxed Tumbleweed. It was just a tumbleweed rolling across a desert - the same one. Never stopping.

The only sounds were wind and occasionally something plinky like the twinkle twinkle little star music. Then this man’s voice, echoey and slow, would say “Relaxing………….Tumbleweed” every now and again.

Could even be Matt Rose, no idea.

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u/Abitruff — 15 days ago
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I’m on a 1000 calorie a day pre-op diet for the next two weeks. Here’s my lunch and dinner

u/Abitruff — 22 days ago

Day 1 of the 14-day liver shrinkage diet (NHS) – live updates

Day 1 breakfast - 2 weetabix with semi-skimmed milk
First 90% tasted horrible. But, I mean, it’s bland. I’m sure I’ll get used to it.

Lunch - slice of bread, 50g of lean chicken (cut up and cooked breast then weighed; I cooked three so I have some for the next few days) and two “trees” of a broccoli.
Not bad, I made a little chicken sandwich so that made it better. Next time I’ll cook the broccoli but wasn’t terrible.

During the day, I kept hydrated with my unlimited drink of Tango Zero. This was a great help. Felt hungry? Drank.

I had done an experiment before I started and found out that , as long as I keep hydrated, I can go six hours without having to eat.

An hour or two before dinner, I had jelly/jello (sugar free). This was an approved snack and unlimited. I ate 80% of it but found I didn’t like it much - maybe because o accidentally mixed flavours when I put two packets in 😂

I decided to have dinner when I felt really bored by everything. Gaming, TV, YouTube, Netflix? Bored.

Dinner - another chicken sandwich and 80g of baby tomatoes. Not bad, baby tomatoes are my normal favourite snack so I chose that over the salad.
Best meal of the day.

I’m not really feeling it yet. I felt some chills this morning and a little sadness but that’s it. I expect it to kick in over the next few days.

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u/Abitruff — 22 days ago

I start my Liver Shrinkage diet tomorrow, op in 2 weeks!

It looks like a lot of food, with unlimited jelly and Tango, so doesn’t seem too bad. I’m sure I’ll feel it but hopefully can power through.

My attacks have always been mild, but stopped except 2 mins once a week. Suddenly, I can’t drink full skimmed milk and fatty foods may be so sweaty.

Bloods to be drawn 5 days before.

As for the surgery, I have I guess normal surgery nerves? A sometimes present pit in my stomach.

Anyway!

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u/Abitruff — 23 days ago

Liver Shrinkage Diet (NHS) – starting in a few days

I’ve been put on the 14-day liver shrinkage diet before my laparoscopic cholecystectomy.

Thought I’d share what the booklet says in case it helps anyone else.

Why they’re making me do it
BMI-related – they want the liver smaller so the keyhole surgery is easier/safer.

Length
Exactly 14 days before surgery only. Very strict – one rich meal can undo the benefit.

I’m sticking to Option 3 (food-based) as it seems the most doable:

Breakfast
• 45g low-sugar cereal (<10g sugar per 100g) + semi-skimmed milk
or
• 1 medium slice toast with a scraping of low-fat spread
Lunch
• 1 medium slice bread or 2 crispbreads (no spread)
• Plus 50g cooked lean meat/chicken/fish or 30g low-fat cheese or 2 eggs (not fried)
• Plus green salad or tomatoes (tomatoes max 80g)
Dinner
• 50g cooked lean meat/chicken/fish or 30g low-fat cheese or 2 eggs or single portion Quorn/tofu
• Plus 50g potato or 2 tbsp rice/pasta or 1 medium slice bread
• Plus allowed vegetables
Daily extras allowed
• 200ml semi-skimmed/soy milk
• 2 portions fruit (~80g each)
• 1 low-fat, low-sugar yoghurt
• Sugar-free jelly (no real limit, keep reasonable)
• Herbs, spices, lemon/lime juice
• Unlimited black tea/coffee with sweetener (no sugar)
Fluids
At least 4 pints (2.3 litres) a day.
Allowed: water, black tea/coffee, sugar-free squash, diet/zero fizzy drinks (Diet Coke, Pepsi Max, Fanta Zero, etc.).

No alcohol, no regular sugary drinks, no fruit juice.

Must do every day
One A-Z multivitamin.
Allowed vegetables (basically non-starchy)
Asparagus, beansprouts, broccoli, brussels sprouts, cabbage, cauliflower, celery, courgette, cucumber, green beans, leeks, lettuce, mushrooms, onions, spinach, peppers, tomatoes (80g max), etc.

Avoid: peas, sweetcorn, pulses, parsnips, sweet potato, etc.

The booklet also has fully liquid options (soups + yoghurts, or just milk + Bovril, or meal replacement shakes) but Option 3 feels more sustainable for me.

Anyone else had to do this diet? How did you find it / any tips for not going crazy with the tiny portions?

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u/Abitruff — 28 days ago

Liver shrinkage diet - did you WFH/take time off?

So, my surgery is finally booked for next month after 11 months.

Did you take time off or WFH during the diet?

I’m hybrid, two days in office, but I have to use public transport, so wondering if I should just WFH from when I start the diet to when I finish recovery?

Manager already ok with 4 weeks WFH after surgery.

As I believe you lose most energy during the diet.

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u/Abitruff — 1 month ago

Pre - op appointment in two days! (NHS)

Final checklist

(Already on cancellation list - I believe they call you up after this, when they have a slot)

Questions -

  1. With the extra quick endoscopy planned at the end of the gallbladder operation, how much longer will the whole procedure take?
  2. What can I realistically expect for pain after surgery (levels, main locations like gas/shoulder pain, how long it lasts)? Is there anything specific that helps with gas/shoulder pain?
  3. How much should I walk around in the first few days? Are there any lifting restrictions and for how long? (I have pets including dogs I may need to walk and lift occasionally)
  4. When can I shower after surgery? When can I eat and drink normally? (I have a high bath I have to step into)
  5. Can I have a fit note for my records covering the recovery period?
  6. Can I keep my gallstones afterwards? Can the team take photos of my gallbladder and stones for me?

(I know some already but doesn’t hurt to ask!)

Any experiences of the pre-op/timeline/questions would be great

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u/Abitruff — 1 month ago

Jumping spider?

We’ve had a jumping spider a few months ago, but this one is coloured differently.

Size was probably my smallest finger’s nail, including legs.

England, thanks

u/Abitruff — 2 months ago

Anyone constantly warm no matter the weather?

I’ve felt cold once in maybe 4 months.

I mean warm to the point of sweating.

It’s dropped 10 degrees and I still feel the same. I don’t feel the difference.

Even with tower fans, an air con unit and just wearing underwear.

I am on Fluoxetine and a PPI but this started way before I started those.

I have 7 gallstones and an inflamed oesophagus.

Thanks!

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u/Abitruff — 2 months ago