u/Able-Froyo9392

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This is probably going to sound like rambling so if you read through this and respond... thank you

Basically I'm a college freshman and I met this guy. From the get go i noticed he would look shy around me, look at me when I wasn't looking and get bashful if I caught him, once he froze when I started walking up to him etc. We see eachother normally bc we are in a club together but until that point he'd never approached me. At first I wasn't really interested in him, then idk I started feeling curious about him so I followed him on social media( my account is private).

Part of me was like maybe he's shy and needs an alternative so I thought that was opening up a door for him to approach me but still, he would watch my stories... every single one. But nothing else.

Fast forward we had an event for school and he approached me. All he did was walk up to me and greet me but it stood out as he'd never gone up to me before and I was beginning to feel feelings for him.

The next day I admit I was kind of giddy and was excited to see him at school. But nothing happened. He sat in the next chair over from me, and spent his time chatting and laughing with other girls in front of me.

Maybe I got my hopes up too much from the day before but I removed him from my social media account and just decided that it probably wasn't worth my time.

The only issue now is that I'm stuck wondering if I made the wrong move. We had just met maybe it was too early yk? Maybe he was nervous after what had happened the day before? Maybe I jumped too early? It's been a couple months since I removed him and I can't stop thinking about him. What should I do? Should I reach out? Should I leave it alone? Should I wait till I next see him in person after break?

To anyone who replies....it is very much appreciated.

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This is probably going to sound like rambling so if you read through this and respond... thank you

Basically I'm a college freshman and I met this guy. From the get go i noticed he would look shy around me, look at me when I wasn't looking and get bashful if I caught him, once he froze when I started walking up to him etc. We see eachother normally bc we are in a club together but until that point he'd never approached me. At first I wasn't really interested in him, then idk I started feeling curious about him so I followed him on social media( my account is private).

Part of me was like maybe he's shy and needs an alternative so I thought that was opening up a door for him to approach me but still, he would watch my stories... every single one. But nothing else.

Fast forward we had an event for school and he approached me. All he did was walk up to me and greet me but it stood out as he'd never gone up to me before and I was beginning to feel feelings for him.

The next day I admit I was kind of giddy and was excited to see him at school. But nothing happened. He sat in the next chair over from me, and spent his time chatting and laughing with other girls in front of me.

Maybe I got my hopes up too much from the day before but I removed him from my social media account and just decided that it probably wasn't worth my time.

The only issue now is that I'm stuck wondering if I made the wrong move. We had just met maybe it was too early yk? Maybe he was nervous after what had happened the day before? Maybe I jumped too early? It's been a couple months since I removed him and I can't stop thinking about him. What should I do? Should I reach out? Should I leave it alone? Should I wait till I next see him in person after break?

To anyone who replies....it is very much appreciated.

​

This is probably going to sound like rambling so if you read through this and respond... thank you

Basically I'm a college freshman and I met this guy. From the get go i noticed he would look shy around me, look at me when I wasn't looking and get bashful if I caught him, once he froze when I started walking up to him etc. We see eachother normally bc we are in a club together but until that point he'd never approached me. At first I wasn't really interested in him, then idk I started feeling curious about him so I followed him on social media( my account is private).

Part of me was like maybe he's shy and needs an alternative so I thought that was opening up a door for him to approach me but still, he would watch my stories... every single one. But nothing else.

Fast forward we had an event for school and he approached me. All he did was walk up to me and greet me but it stood out as he'd never gone up to me before and I was beginning to feel feelings for him.

The next day I admit I was kind of giddy and was excited to see him at school. But nothing happened. He sat in the next chair over from me, and spent his time chatting and laughing with other girls in front of me.

Maybe I got my hopes up too much from the day before but I removed him from my social media account and just decided that it probably wasn't worth my time.

The only issue now is that I'm stuck wondering if I made the wrong move. We had just met maybe it was too early yk? Maybe he was nervous after what had happened the day before? Maybe I jumped too early? It's been a couple months since I removed him and I can't stop thinking about him. What should I do? Should I reach out? Should I leave it alone? Should I wait till I next see him in person after break?

To anyone who replies....it is very much appreciated.

This is probably going to sound like rambling so if you read through this and respond... thank you

Basically I'm a college freshman and I met this guy. From the get go i noticed he would look shy around me, look at me when I wasn't looking and get bashful if I caught him, once he froze when I started walking up to him etc. We see eachother normally bc we are in a club together but until that point he'd never approached me. At first I wasn't really interested in him, then idk I started feeling curious about him so I followed him on social media( my account is private).

Part of me was like maybe he's shy and needs an alternative so I thought that was opening up a door for him to approach me but still, he would watch my stories... every single one. But nothing else.

Fast forward we had an event for school and he approached me. All he did was walk up to me and greet me but it stood out as he'd never gone up to me before and I was beginning to feel feelings for him.

The next day I admit I was kind of giddy and was excited to see him at school. But nothing happened. He sat in the next chair over from me, and spent his time chatting and laughing with other girls in front of me.

Maybe I got my hopes up too much from the day before but I removed him from my social media account and just decided that it probably wasn't worth my time.

The only issue now is that I'm stuck wondering if I made the wrong move. We had just met maybe it was too early yk? Maybe he was nervous after what had happened the day before? Maybe I jumped too early? It's been a couple months since I removed him and I can't stop thinking about him. What should I do? Should I reach out? Should I leave it alone? Should I wait till I next see him in person after break?

To anyone who replies....it is very much appreciated.