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I’ve been separated for almost 7 years now I wonder what I can do to get my divorce settled because the avoidance has been so much worse than I could imagine. I was married in 2017 and since then he and I have lived apart. I’ve been through every way that I have been able to get my life back on solid ground but that just doesn’t happen. I’m told to do this or to do that as if it will actually help and it doesn’t. I know that you have to take action but I why do I feel that I can’t when I am that person. I go out get it . I need work I find a job . I needed a career I went to classes . I’ve done this more than once in my life and always felt like I could get up and do it again. But that isn’t like that anymore because things changed