u/Accomplished721

Anybody wants to chit chat. I am really scared about life right now. Want to talk to older folks only - 30 year olds

Absolutely no flirtatious chat

Hi folks,

I am flexible on location but I prefer central mysore. I am new to the place so please guide me on location as well.

1. Non negotiable: Looking for a good 2bhk with balcony and enough sunlight

2. Fairly Newer or atleast renovated building , not independent building. Apartments preferred with family friendly neighborhood. Not very secluded.

3. Only guidance/referral/direct owner contact. No brokerage

4. Prefer being closer to amenities and activities

I am a single woman vegetarian.

Can someone please tell me what I should look out for in terms of agreement in Mysore. General guidance and warnings are appropriated

Hi,

After many months of debilitating (yet again) depression, I am going to travel. Nothing fancy. There is a pit in my stomach. I wish I had someone to talk to. My mind is empty. I haven't packed. I don't know how many days I will stay and i don't have a plan. I am not sure what kind of fear this is but it makes me cry too. How to manage this?

I hate online connections but I am too embarrassed by my body to have IRL friends now. Besides even when my body was fine I tried with no luck whatsoever. Likely because I am picky 😕 I can't help myself if I tried.

Trying to get back to normalcy after almost a year of depressive thoughts.

I am pretty funny when I lament or when I talk about series or sports or history.

I really really want someone that is decently intelligent not because I am but because I like feeling dumb.

I won't feel like doxxing myself. I prefer someone that isn't racist towards my identity - South Indian. I also only like decent people that have sane social sense.

I might enjoy someone that is a bit contrasting to my personality which is calm to my chaotic mind. I would like someone to motivate me out of my ADHD tendencies. In return, I can help by making jokes or telling you one of my million embarrassing stories or listening to you lament about your coworker? Is that fair? 🙈

Ohh since it's sports season (I know it's ending), I love discussing sports mainly - football, tennis and very rarely cricket (even tho south Indian lost my interest over the years after the birth of commercial nonsense)

I also like discussing about the very few series I have watched but I talk passionately about them.

Hey folks,

I am trying to understand how exactly parivatana yoga works. I have many doubts

1. Does a dustana parivatana result in good before bad (like VRY). I read this somewhere

2. Is parivartan considered in D9 as well

3. The main question - does parivatan cancel in d9 if it is actually with a vargottma planet

4. Does the planet completely exchange signs or still partially hold the sign prior to exchange

Example: Learning only with this example. If mods request i will remove the example

Let's say Venus is in 1st house Capricorn and is in Capricorn in 8th house in D9 and it does a parivatan with 12th house Saturn in Tarus.

- is it considered for venus to still be VARGOTAM or is it partial vargotam considered parivartan where planets retain some effects of the sign prior to exchange. I really don't understand how to read this venus and Saturn

- I am guessing these planets behave as per the house in which they are in no change there

I am 30F. Never dated, Never had sex.

The reaction from men when I say this has been varied. But never fair.

Nobody really wants to hear your story. Men approach women as objects. It's still prevalent today. At the base of all their thinking, it's all about I need to know how much she was used. Very primitive thinking men categorise women as a 'used' or 'unwanted' even if they don't say it. Or worse, I like her because she a V. Even the most empathetic men at best have numerous conditions on how when and what her past was. While we have the same doubts, it's impossible they are honest about every single physical relationship they had.

Even tho I go crazy during ovulation esp craving so hard to be touched, I have controlled because of societal judgements.

I don't think there are too many men in my age that haven't done the deed or atleast the educated sane ones that aren't too shy. The only reason that has stopped men from having sex is shy, it's never morals. I havent come across a single man that abstained because of morals.

I feel like a bit of a rebel. I am ok dating a non-V man. I want to be connected emotionally find love etc. But if it is a non-V man i don't want to lose my V to him. I want to ask him if it would ok to lose to a different casual guy unemotionally before I start the relationship with him.

I dont see why this isnt fair. I don't want to be selected by a guy who likes me because I am a V and I will never trust his words and will forever hold the unfairness in my heart even if we get together. I really want this. I think this is completely fair. I would be asking permission and he can know the details but I refuse to lose my V to a non-V if it is a relationship. Is there any man in this wild reddit who finds this fair?

I am never a rebel but when I am one I am one. I might not even like the casual after his permission and run back to him saying i hated it but atleast i won't feel like a sloppy second for the rest of my life when he touches me

Is the waning moon good if it is a functional maraka for the horoscope.

For example, for capriccorn asc, moon is a functional malefic. Does it reverse the effect if it is a waning moon

I saw a chart like this. Cap asc waning moon in 10th house but the bad part is it has grahan dosha, kemadruma, atiganda and kaal sarp :(