short trip europe

hello everyone! me and my bf plan to have a little vacation next week around europe. we thought about amsterdam but its kinda pricey because we would drive there by car and gas prices are crazy atm. we also thought about prague which would be way closer but were not sure yet.

does anyone have any vacation experience with the countrys surrounding austria?

thanks!

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u/Accurate-Estate-9129 — 2 days ago

My dog killed a pregnant hedgehog and I can't get the images out of my head

I honestly just need to get this off my chest because I can't stop thinking about it.

On Saturday night, my boyfriend and I had one of the most disturbing experiences of our lives.

We were looking after a pit bull/Staffy mix. Before bed, he was let into the garden for a quick toilet break. He was wearing a muzzle. Suddenly he started barking, which immediately made us think something was wrong.

My boyfriend ran outside and found that the dog had cornered a hedgehog. While trying to restrain him, the muzzle somehow came off. The second it did, the dog grabbed the hedgehog and took off running around the garden. It was pitch black outside and complete chaos.

My boyfriend tried everything he could think of. He even called his father for advice because he'd dealt with hedgehogs before. Eventually he managed to lure the dog into the house, hoping to get control of the situation. Instead, things got so much worse.

The dog went into a complete frenzy. He was shaking, throwing and biting the hedgehog, running through the house while we desperately tried to get him to let go. Food didn't work. Distractions didn't work. Nothing worked.

There was blood everywhere. And I mean everywhere.

The floor, the walls, the furniture, even the ceiling. It genuinely looked like a crime scene. My boyfriend got blood splashed onto his face while trying to stop it. I've never seen him that desperate before. He's usually the type of person who always finds a solution, but this completely overwhelmed him.

I was terrified and could only watch from a distance.

After what felt like forever, probably around 20 minutes, my boyfriend managed to get the dog back outside and eventually got him to drop the hedgehog.

The dog, who is normally brown, was almost entirely red from blood.

While cleaning up, we noticed several strange pink objects on the ground. At first we didn't understand what we were looking at.

Then we realized the hedgehog had been pregnant.

There were 4 or 5 unborn baby hedgehogs lying among the blood and remains.

I can't get that image out of my head.

I feel awful for that poor hedgehog and her babies. The whole thing felt like something out of a horror movie. Days later I'm still replaying it in my head. The blood, the panic, my boyfriend desperately trying to stop it, and then discovering the babies afterwards.

Before anyone judges us, please know that this wasn't actually 'our' dog. He belongs to my boyfriend's father, and we were looking after him. We followed the instructions we had been given and tried everything we could think of in a situation that spiraled out of control very quickly. We know the outcome was horrific, and we already feel terrible about it.

I don't know what I'm looking for by posting this. Maybe I just needed to tell someone because I can't stop seeing it every time I close my eyes.

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u/Accurate-Estate-9129 — 3 days ago

Still traumatised after what happened between our dog and a hedgehog

TW blood!!!!

I honestly don't know how to process what happened this weekend and I think I just need to talk about it.

My boyfriends parents have a pit bull/Staffy mix. On Saturday night we let him into the garden for a quick toilet break before bed. He was wearing a muzzle. Suddenly he started barking, which is never a good sign. My boyfriend ran outside and found that our dog had discovered a hedgehog.

At first the muzzle was still on, but while my boyfriend was trying to grab and restrain him, it somehow slipped off. The moment it came off, our dog grabbed the hedgehog and started running around the garden with it. It was completely dark outside and chaos started almost immediately.

My boyfriend tried everything. He even called his father for advice because he's dealt with hedgehog situations before. Eventually he managed to lure the dog into the house, but that turned out to be even worse.

The dog went into a complete frenzy. He was shaking, throwing and biting the hedgehog, running around the house with it, and there was no way to get near him safely. Food trades didn't work. Nothing worked. He seemed completely locked onto the hedgehog.

There was blood everywhere. And I mean everywhere. The floor, walls, furniture, even the ceiling. It genuinely looked like a crime scene. My boyfriend got blood splashed onto his face while trying to stop everything. I've never seen him so desperate and overwhelmed in my life. He's normally the person who always finds a solution, but this completely broke him.

After about 20 minutes of trying everything, he finally managed to get the dog back outside and used a hose. At some point the dog dropped the hedgehog and we were able to secure him.

The dog, who is normally brown, was practically red from blood.

We then had to clean up everything. While doing that, we noticed several small pink objects on the ground. At first we had no idea what they were.

Then we realized the hedgehog had been pregnant.

There were 4 or 5 unborn baby hedgehogs among the remains.

That image has been stuck in my head ever since. The whole experience felt like something out of a horror movie. I feel terrible for the hedgehog and her babies, and honestly I'm still shocked days later. My boyfriend is struggling with it as well and keeps replaying the whole thing in his mind.

Has anyone else ever experienced something this graphic involving their dog and wildlife? How did you cope with it afterwards? I feel like I can't stop thinking about it.

Before anyone jumps to conclusions, please understand that this is not 'our' dog. He belongs to my boyfriend's father, and we were following the advice and instructions we were given. We know the outcome was horrific, especially for the hedgehog and her unborn babies. We already feel terrible about it and are not looking for judgment. I'm simply trying to talk about a very traumatic experience and hear from people who may have gone through something similar. I still freeze when i think about it. I have not been able to sleep, think or eat well since then.

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u/Accurate-Estate-9129 — 3 days ago

f23, need help with oily skin!

hello everyone! i was never into skincare so i dont know anything at all but i need help. i have very very oily skin and big pores. ive had those since i can remember and ive never really used anything for it. i bought the blue and green bottles from cerave but i never saw any results so i stopped using them. i also have a very very uneven skin tone so basically i am often red around my cheeks and it looks so bad. i want a simple, short routine so please let me know what products i can use. i'm not sure about the price range. please no judgement ^^

https://preview.redd.it/3bh2vsdvhreh1.png?width=532&format=png&auto=webp&s=52f5cd8bcb3fc4af6eeb808b5edc2ca2b47994e0

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u/Accurate-Estate-9129 — 29 days ago
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Welches Glätteisen?

Hallo zusammen! Ich hab sehr langes (bis zur Hüfte) und dickes Haar. Ich benutze ein altes Glätteisen und möchte mir jetzt bald ein neues besorgen. Welchen könnt ihr mir empfehlen? Gerne von jeder price-range. Danke!

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u/Accurate-Estate-9129 — 1 month ago

Wie komme ich mit den Schuldgefühlen klar?

Ich (w23) habe als Kind viel Gewalt erlebt, darunter auch sexuelle Gewalt. Schon damals wusste ich, dass ich eines Tages abhauen würde. Die Gelegenheit dazu kam dann ziemlich spontan, und ich habe sie genutzt.

Bevor ich gegangen bin, habe ich meiner Mutter eine WhatsApp-Nachricht geschrieben. Darin habe ich gesagt, dass es mir gut geht, ich aber keinen weiteren Kontakt möchte und man mich bitte in Ruhe lassen soll. Daraufhin hat sie mir zwei Sprachnachrichten geschickt. Bis heute habe ich sie nicht angehört. Ich kenne meine Mutter gut genug, um ungefähr zu ahnen, was darin gesagt wird.

Seitdem bin ich eigentlich glücklich. Zum ersten Mal in meinem Leben fühle ich mich frei. Trotzdem habe ich starke Schuldgefühle. In den ersten vier Monaten nach meinem Weggang hatte ich jede einzelne Nacht Albträume. Wirklich jede Nacht. Entweder wurde ich von meiner Familie gefunden oder ich war plötzlich wieder zuhause und musste erneut fliehen. Ich hatte viele schlaflose Nächte, Angst rauszugehen und ständig das Gefühl, nicht sicher zu sein oder beobachtet zu werden.

Irgendwann wurde ich sogar von der Polizei kontaktiert, weil meine Eltern nach mir gesucht hatten. Ich habe die Situation erklärt und danach war die Sache für die Polizei geklärt. Sie haben sogar nachts um 3 Uhr bei meiner Freundin (die einzige die davon Bescheid wusste) sturmgeklingelt und gefragt wo ich sei. Sie hatte richtig Angst und hat (wahrscheinlich aus Angst) verraten wo ich lebe.

Bis heute bekomme ich manchmal anonyme Anrufe. Jedes Mal kommen die Ängste und Albträume wieder hoch.

Ich habe schon darüber nachgedacht, mir therapeutische Hilfe zu suchen, weiß aber ehrlich gesagt nicht, wie man damit anfängt oder wie man einen Therapieplatz bekommt. Mein Freund unterstützt mich so gut er kann, und dafür bin ich unglaublich dankbar. Er gibt sich wirklich Mühe und manchmal hilft es auch sehr. Trotzdem kann er natürlich nicht vollständig nachvollziehen, wie sich das alles anfühlt.

Was mir am meisten zu schaffen macht, sind die Schuldgefühle.

Ich frage mich oft, was zuhause über mich erzählt wird. In meiner Kultur gilt das, was ich getan habe, wahrscheinlich für viele als etwas Unvorstellbares. Ich weiß auch, dass über mich gelogen wird, denn das war schon immer so in meiner Familie.

Deshalb habe ich manchmal immer noch Angst, obwohl ich gleichzeitig so glücklich über meine Freiheit bin.

Zum ersten Mal kann ich anziehen, was ich möchte. Ich kann sagen, was ich denke. Ich kann rausgehen, wann ich will. Ich kann duschen, essen und leben, ohne jemanden um Erlaubnis fragen zu müssen.

Trotzdem begleitet mich diese Angst bis heute.

Hat jemand etwas Ähnliches erlebt? Werden diese Schuldgefühle irgendwann weniger? Hört die Angst irgendwann auf?

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u/Accurate-Estate-9129 — 1 month ago

w23, suche nette menschen zum quatschen

hi zusammen! ich bin 23 und autistin, deshalb fällt mir das kennenlernen von neuen leuten manchmal etwas schwer, vor allem im echten leben. ich bin vergeben, also schreibt mir bitte nicht, wenn ihr nach irgendwas romantischem oder komischem sucht. :/ ich zocke gerne minecraft, fortnite, roblox und verschiedene kleinere indie games. außerdem liebe ich alles rund um make-up und bin ziemlich gut darin falls ihr tipps oderso braucht lol. ich bin ein riesiger katzenfan, auch wenn ich selbst leider keine habe. falls ihr eine katze habt, müsst ihr mir unbedingt fotos zeigen!!(˃ᆺ˂) außerdem baue ich total gerne lego und bin aktuell an der orangefarbenen lego-katze dran. dank meinem freund bin ich auch großer star wars fan :3 ich liebe serien und filme also könnten wir gerne auch zusammen welche anschauen! ich bin sehr offen und laut meinen online freunden auch ziemlich lustig, sobald ich ein bisschen aufgetaut bin. bitte schreibt mir nur, wenn ihr ungefähr in meinem alter seid und auf der suche nach normalen freundschaften seid. ich habe mich schon mehrmals mit online-freunden getroffen und nehme das ganze hier deshalb ernst. ich freue mich!!!! (=^・ω・^=)

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u/Accurate-Estate-9129 — 1 month ago

f23, looking for genuine people ^^

hello everyone. i'm an introverted 23 year old and i am looking for some people to talk to. i have a bf so don't be weird please. my interests are: makeup, kpop, anime, lego, movies and cats. i love to doomscroll and send u insta reels. i would love to have genuine female friends (no weird jealousy, seeing everything as a competition, no judgement) but gender doesn't matter. i won't reply if youre much older, sorry. if you want a friend you can talk to everyday - i'm here!!

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u/Accurate-Estate-9129 — 1 month ago

f23, looking for friends and genuine connections

hi everyone! ♡

i'm a pretty introverted person at first, and making friends has never been super easy for me, mostly because i'm autistic. i've had some really genuine and longlasting friendships over the years, but unfortunately we lost touch or life just happened.

a little bit about me: i love anime, k-pop, doing my makeup, and gaming! i mostly play minecraft, fortnite, and random indie games. i'm also a huge cat lover and honestly wish i had one myself t-t i'm also from austria!! i'm looking for friends all over the world tho!

i have a boyfriend, so i'm only looking for platonic friendships with both guys and girls! ♡ i'm very open-minded, love having random conversations, and can yap for hours once i'm comfortable. i'm also a good listener and have been told i'm pretty funny ^^

i'd love to meet some kind and genuine people here, so don't be afraid to reach out!

insta: pani.pono ✧ hmu :3

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u/Accurate-Estate-9129 — 1 month ago

Suche einfache Wander-/Spazierwege in Salzburg & Umgebung

Hi zusammen, kennt jemand schöne Wanderwege oder Spazierstrecken in Salzburg bzw. der näheren Umgebung, die auch für Anfänger geeignet sind?

Ich suche eher entspannte Routen ohne große Steigungen oder schwierige Passagen also einfach zum Spazierengehen, Natur genießen und etwas Bewegung bekommen.

Gerne auch Empfehlungen für Seen oder schöne Aussichtspunkte, die leicht erreichbar sind.

Danke schon mal für eure Tipps! :)

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u/Accurate-Estate-9129 — 1 month ago