u/AdCreepy8951

Marhay na banggi tabi sa gabos. Mahapot sana kin unan kan mas safe paglunadan pag banggi na (like 10-11pm) ta wara kaya ako kasabay mag-uli since night shift ako kina, kay solo lang po ako malakaw sa lunadan tricy which is about 1km ang layo kang lalakawon kin magdesidir ako mag tricy na sana. Dae ko pa kaya nattry mag grab ning solo kaya kikabahan ako lalo banggi ako magpa atod. Uno sa tingin nindo mas safe lunadan? Thank you po.

One Missu A Day 🥹😞

Nagising ako sa pagdadabog ng pinsan ko kasi mahina raw daloy ng kuryente kaya hindi magamit yung e-fan. Gets ko naman sobrang init talaga ngayon dito kahit sa gabi since walang AC kaya inoffer ko na gamitin niya na lang yung e-fan na gamit ko, kahit sa kanya na lang nakatapat kasi kaya ko naman tiisin yung init. Hindi ako pinansin. Pinatay ko na yung e-fan ko kasi baka makatulong pero wala, mahina talaga. Sinubukan ko tumulong pero sabi niya wag na sabay agaw sakin nung saksakan at extension, nadaplisan pa ako ng kuko niya, nasugatan ako slight. Ako pa yung napagbuntungan niya ng galit ngayon, di ko naman siguro kasalanan kung bakit humina bigla yung kuryente diba.

Ilang taon ko na pinagtitiisan ganto niyang ugali and it's becoming harder to live with it. I badly want to have my own space already. Told this to a relative yet ako pa rin nagmukhang may kasalanan sa huli. At this point, it just feels like I'm all alone, nawalan na talaga ako ng kakampi, ng masusumbungan ng nararamdaman ko. Life is already hard as it is and all I can do is cry (I know I'm weak). Tipong dami mo na iniisip at pinagdadaanan tapos may kasama ka pang ganito.

At least I woke up from a long ass nap. Still feels like I haven't rested though. Ubos na ubos na rin ako. I'm also trying my best to be understanding here.

Please I need your opinion on this one. I had unprotected sex from July 31 - August 2 and tonight (August 9) I had a bleeding that's light brownish in color which stained on my undies. Then I wiped using tissue after urinating and it showed a pinkish bleeding, I'm certain it's not bright red. The amount is not much, I can consider this as spotting because nothing has come out of me yet after that occurrence. I'm confused whether this is implantation bleeding or period bleeding because today is supposed to be my first period. Should I take a pregnancy test tomorrow first thing in the morning? Should I get the firststream or midstream pee? Also just in case more detail is needed, I had unprotected sex last July 4-7 and got my period the day after that lasted for 5 days. I'm still anxious that I might be pregnant today because of the unprotected sex that happened last month even though I got my period on time. Thank you.

I've been experiencing an unusual vaginal discharge with an unpleasant smell for a week now along with symptoms of painful burning urination, chills, back pain, and slight vaginal bleeding. Can someone tell me if this is a sign of a bacterial infection or a more serious complication? I haven't visited a doctor yet and would like to hear from you. Thanks.

Mahapot lang tabi ako kin sain na mga lugar tabi nagpupuon kan lubak pa Bicol? Dakol po kaya naghahapot sako kin malubak pa ba ang kalsada pa Bicol lalo bandang Quezon at Camsur. Thank you sa mga masimbag! 🙏🏻

Like most girls are often into older men while older men prefer girls their age or younger, sometimes older din. Bakit mas prefer niyo?

Problem/Goal: He lied about deactivating his intagram account when I said that I'll follow him.

Context: I'm recently talking to someone for 3 weeks now and I can say that we are not more than friends but less than lovers. I let him chose whether we exchange on ig or tg, until we decided to switch on tg instead. The more we talk, the more I feel comfortable with him. He made me feel that he's interested in getting to know me. Kapag di ako nakakapagreply within the day, magddouble msg siya at hahanapin niya ko. Nag-aaya rin siya mag-call just so we can talk about anything, it doesn't feel transactional at all. I thought of switching on ig na sana since tg has a bad reputation. Na-hurt lang ako nung sinabi niyang dineactivate niya yung ig niya in order for him to focus on his upcoming exams but when I asked a friend that is also his friend, hindi naman daw deactivated ang ig niya. I'm just wondering why he lied instead of just saying the truth? Kasi he wanted to switch on ig din naman noon, pero bakit ngayon ayaw niya na? Is he unsure about getting closer with me?

Previous Attempts: None. Although I'll go ghost if he doesn't have any plans on confessing that he lied to me.

I just found out today that my father has been cheating behind my mom’s back for years. Not only that, but he also has a child with his mistress who’s already in elementary school. Which means this has been going on for a long time while we all had no idea.

What’s also messing with my head right now is remembering something that happened before. One time, my dad fetched me from the mall and, completely out of the blue, started laughing while asking me what I would do if I found out he had a mistress. Tinarayan ko lang siya. I tried not to think too much about it back then, but now that I know the truth, that memory makes me feel sick. Was he trying to test my reaction?

What makes this even harder to accept is that my mom gave him everything she could. Despite him not having a stable job for years, he still got to live comfortably because of her sacrifices. He owns collections of luxury watches bought through my mom’s hard work. All the lot my mother purchased was even named after him. The vehicles we owned were all under his name too. He was never lacking in comfort or things he wanted. He always had the latest devices and whatever he wanted. Kahit hindi niya naman talaga kailangan at luho lang, binibigay pa rin. The list goes on.

But even with all of that, it still wasn’t enough for him to stay faithful.

He was poor, never finished school, and had nothing stable in his life—but he had a loving wife like my mom, a professional who worked hard and gave him a better life. In many ways, he had everything because of her.

She kept choosing him, providing for him, protecting his pride, and building a life for our family all while he was secretly building another family behind our back. That’s the part that breaks me the most. He had comfort, support, and a family that loved him dearly, yet he still CHOSE to betray my mom. Us.

Ang sakit. Nakakagalit. Nanggagalaiti ako sa sarili kong ama. I can’t stop thinking about how someone can watch another person sacrifice so much for them and still choose to hurt them like this.

I honestly just hope my mom eventually realizes that she’s wasting more years of her life if she continues staying in this marriage instead of finally calling it off. I'm tired of seeing her sacrifice so much for someone who could betray her this easily and still come home acting normal. And as painful as it is to admit, it’s humiliating to have a father like him. He was never a good father nor a good husband. Loser.

His behavior has shown me exactly what I never want in a partner, and I am certain I will never marry a man like my father.

EDIT: Also, what infuriates me too is that he does not want to get a vasectomy dahil mawawala raw ang pagkalalaki niya. Instead, she wants my mom to adjust through undergoing ligation. Hindi pa ba sapat yung paghihirap na pinagdaanan ng nanay ko? What a loser, right?