My cat Eddie is booked in for surgery tomorrow and I truly can't thank everyone enough for donating and helping me when everything else in my life had gone to sh*t.
Words can't express how grateful I am for these donations, I have been sick with worry and now I know he is going to feel a lot better very soon and I wish I could express how much this means to me.
Bless you all. Truly. I will never forget this.
I honestly never thought I'd be in a position where I'd have to ask strangers for help but I'm completely out of options and desperate.
My cat urgently needs surgery, and the thought of him being in pain is killing me every day. I'm doing absolutely everything I can, but I just don't have the money.
I recently left a relationship that ended violently, my rent has doubled, and everything has kind of fallen apart at once. I've been selling my belongings on Marketplace, asking old employers if they have any work for additional income, and applying for every job I can find but it's still not enough and I dont know what to do.
I'm so sorry to even be asking this, but if anyone is able to spare anything at all i would be so incredibly grateful. Every cent will go towards his surgery and getting him out of pain. If you can't donate, sharing my fundraiser would mean the world
The vet said its $800AUD (around ,$530US) to put him under and clean his teeth and then remove the infected fang and for his medicine to take home after the surgery.
I wouldn't be doing this unless I genuinely had no other choice. Thank you so much for reading.
He is my baby boy and the only good thing in my life right now and I feel like a complete failure.
I have read that getting seed samples from successful local trees means a better chance of survival- would anyone be willing to share a spare orange, mandarin, tangerine, apple, tomato or berry or anything else that grows well in your garden so we can try to start our own? We would be forever grateful!
He claims he was asking his friend (a younger coworker he had described as slutty) about her perspective on cheating and says nothing happened - even though he continues to say he is trying to find someone to hook up with.
there's a 2am message from her later the same night asking for help for her uber home... they had each others numbers and he was texting me that he missed me while also texting her this stuff. even if nothing happened to me its pretty clear he is fishing to see if she would hook up with him and that hurts so bad.
He is quite angry telling me I am delusional and overreacting and keeps making me feel insane and like I am abusing him for having being upset or not believing him.
There were "wyd" messages to her every day we werent together since that date too but he claims he is like that with all his friends, but I think its all because he is upset and embarrassed I found the messages and is trying to spin stuff now to save face.
i feel like my heart has been ripped out of my chest
edit
Im female, I worded it confusingly.
I saw the messages because he was using an older phone of mine while his was broken.
We have broken up but he has been trying to tell me it was innocent and he was naive - but he has also been insulting my intelligence for saying I cant trust him anymore and claiming I am being cruel by not wanting to try to figure things out because nothing came of it.
He is very convincing and I do love him a lot but this couldn't be clearer to me, so I just need some 3rd part perspectives to make sure I am not somehow crazy and that this is as devastating as jt comes across. I havent slept or eaten much so it's difficult for me not to mix between rage and pure grief over losing him and losing trust in people in general