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☀️ Sunday Sunnies Social Hour

Hello everyone! Happy summer!

Welcome to our new weekly (weekendly?) discussion post on r/Assistance! This is a spot for casual conversation, sharing positive vibes, and getting to know the fellow members of our wonderful community.

What to post here:

  • Stories about yourself, your pets, your kids, etc.
  • Recipes, recommendations, and other fun things to do.
  • Positive stories about your experiences on r/Assistance.

What not to post here:

  • Direct requests for assistance.
  • Links of any kind -- for recipes just copy&paste or mention the name. (We may adjust our automoderator down the road)
  • Soft begs/doom and gloom stories about how broke you are.
  • Harassment to anyone.
  • Complaints about the sub, the rules, or the mods.

The mod team will be monitoring these threads carefully to make sure everyone is following the rules and no shenanigans occur. If things go well, we will probably be automating these threads every Sunday even beyond summer.

Have fun!

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u/uppercasemad — 7 hours ago

$124 short on car repair

Hi everyone! I'll keep it simple. The alternator in my vehicle went out. I had close to enough in my emergency savings, but the tow ended up being more than anticipated.

Have two jobs, no bus system within an hour and half walk of me and it's $50 to Uber into town! I'll also (eventually) be investing in a good solid bike to get to the nearest public bus, just in case lol

I'm asking for help with $124 to get the repair done so I can get back on the road and get that savings account built back up again

EDIT: someone pointed out having a detailed quote would be helpful here. I've never asked for help here with a car repair, so it didn't occur to me (plus, friends with a mechanic there so I trusted his quote lol). But duh. I'll get one in the morning.

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u/xxoxox33 — 4 hours ago

$25 for groceries? (Walmart store gift card?)

I’m a stay at home dad (disabled) and my wife works a job that relies on tips. Last week has been rough. Trying to buy dinner for us, including a specific brand of puree pouches that my autistic son can only eat. I said Walmart gift card so you’ll know I’m not spending the money on anything random. Thank you for your time.

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u/Key_Prize_1317 — 12 hours ago

Fundraising to help my mother

Hello everyone, I hope you are all well. I'm reaching out to you 🙏🏻 because I'm currently trying to raise funds on GoFundMe. A friend who lives in the United States created a GoFundMe for me to help me raise money to pay for my mother's medical appointments, tests, and medications. She was diagnosed with early-stage thyroid cancer and has a heart condition that has caused severe pulmonary hypertension. Here in Venezuela, the current situation is very difficult. The hospitals are overwhelmed, and the country is paralyzed by the tragedy of the two earthquakes. I want to help my mother, and for that reason, my friend in the United States also created a GoFundMe. Through this fundraising, I want to buy a basic laptop to start working remotely. I believe that this way I can take care of my mother at home and work at the same time to generate income and pay for part of her treatments. Her current health is stable, but there are days when her heart condition prevents her from even getting out of bed. I'm reaching out to you and the kindness of your hearts. If you would like to help me, you can do so through [the GoFundMe]. From a small donation or by sharing my GoFundMe on social media, thank you all so much 🥺🙏🏻Here is my GoFundMe link If you want to support me 🥺🙏🏻

u/Ricardo_RemotePath — 9 hours ago

Need help with rent €200

Had to pay medical bills for heart condition, now short to make rent tomorrow.
(Sorry if this post is against rules, stressed rn so maybe got it wrong).

I’m in the Netherlands, can use Revolut or PayPal.

Edit: thank you so much to Ezorde for helping me with this, I am so grateful.

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u/G_a_u_z_e — 11 hours ago

I need cat food

Hello, I am currently in need for some cat food, I just need £20/30 to buy enough to last until payday. I can take PayPal or GoFundMe donation.

Thank you all in advance x

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u/SingingWanderer1195 — 19 hours ago

Have a $100 visa gift card I don't need.

Don't have use for it. Giving to first comment with an actual need. Not responding to private messages

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u/Stacksmchenry — 2 days ago

Requesting 50 usd for summer stay

I am a college student here in Ethiopia and we have been dismissed from campus. My family are in a desperate state and i feel like a burden going back to them. We lodge a single 3 by 4 cell and live 4 people in it. I would love to stay with them, of course, they are family after all, but i had a plan to study and do projects this two months and with the conditions here, i simply can not. Not to mention all the shouting in the neighbourhood and the heat from the oven. I also get depressive episodes from it all.

If a kind stranger spared me 50 bucks, i could rent a cell nearby for a month and it would feed me for about a fortnight. That would give me time to see if i can figure out things for the next month. 110 usd will get me through summer with no stress whatsoever and focus on my projects and studies. But i don't want to push my luck. I would be greatful for anything really, i just had to get that out. Thank you.

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u/Dependent-Shower4955 — 24 hours ago

Need some financial assistance getting my dogs food this month. ($60)

Hi all, I'll try not to be too chatty here.

I recently moved just over 2 months ago and ive found myself in a sticky spot.

Moved into an old family home after someone passed and it was worse off than everyone thought it would be. While I am so so grateful for shelter, my bank account was not prepared for needing an electrician, a/c repairmen, and plumber in all of a couple weeks.

I have been able to ration my own food, but I just don't have anything left for my doggo. I am actively working on getting a second job. (My first job I only make enough to pay rent.) My partner is working on finding a second job, but having a hard time finding something close by in this small town. He's having to venture out further and that has increased our usage of gas by double.

Basically unexpected events keep happening and we're not able to catch up fast enough. I was able to afford a small bag of cheap dog food (My dog usually eats Hills Science Diet because she has such a sensitive stomach.). She has about a week or so left of the small bag but it makes her sick every day. I've been trying to mix in applesauce and pumpkin to ease her tummy, but she just needs her normal food.

If anybody is able and willing to help me get her the food she deserves while I can find something to bring in more income, we would be forever grateful and pay it forward as soon as we can.

I do have cashapp and PayPal. I have a deal at a local vet to get her food cheaper than on Chewy and at pet supply grocers a couple towns over. He will give us a 20 dollar discount on the big bag that should last her about 3 months. Plenty of time for my partner and I to get our stuff in order.

Thank you in advance for any assistance but also just for taking the time to read this. 🩷🐶

Edit: Closing post. I asked my friend for help sharing an Amazon list without sharing my location and she decided to help out.

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Help With Family Needs

Due to a series of unfortunate events these past 2 weeks, I'm left with very little financial help to get through this month. We're still waiting for an appointment with Social Security to get my disabled son on disability, my ex can no longer pay child support, and I'm scrambling to get things back to normal after our power was disconnected for 1.5 weeks (last 3 days we were back n forth at the hospital from the heat).... it's a lot.

My son desperately needs diapers, wipes, and replacement sippy cups. He only knows how to drink from one type of cup, and is particular about it being the same as his old ones. His current cups are starting to get moldy and the rubbery bit has some holes. He could also use a few pairs of shorts, as I've had to toss a lot of things at the house since they got nasty from cats and mold (power off meant the humidity inside went bonkers).

My daughter could really use some shorts, as she currently only owns 1 pair. She has sensory issues with clothes so it's a struggle to find things that work for her, but I know she likes these. There's also a small bag of cat food on the list for her kitties: after seeing what our house looks like after we were gone, she's agreed we need to rehome a few, so a smaller bag should feed them for the month.

And lastly, cleaning essentials and a few basic neccesities. Also allergy meds so I can actually function (I have allergies to pretty much every environmental thing you can have allergens for).

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1BVC1ZSY1WHAS?ref\_=wl\_share

Any assistance is greatly appreciated, thank you.

u/spadesage17 — 1 day ago

Help me keep my home! Desperately seeking assistance.

Early last month, I had what had been a best friend living with me. I'd just renewed the lease and we were on course for another year of living together. She'd recently went through some things and I had been trying to help her overcome them. But then she, kind of ghosted me in a sense. About a week later I got a text from her 3 days after rent was due saying 'for her mental health she needed to move' and she wouldn't be paying rent and already got a new place. At this point, she owed $600 for rent and about $400 for other shared bills. On top of this, I'd lost my job 2 days before she said this.

I was door dashing to make atleast bills to keep the power and water on. I wasn't getting much more beyond that. I was lucky and landed a job about 2 weeks ago making enough money that I could basically live off of. Surviving, not thriving but right now we need to focus on survival.

The landlord recently served me a notice to either pay or move. He wants 2 months of rent, last month and this month, and I'm short still. I'm about $500 off right now. Rent is $1200 a month here. Water varies anywhere from $80-120 and electric is around the same somehow.

I created a gofundme asking for the help.

https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-me-keep-my-home-4582

I've never done this before, and every little bit helps. I just need this little boost in comparison to what I have together to help me keep my home. After this I should be set. My new job is great. I'm just afraid it's too little too late with my landlord.

Thank you...

u/DallasDanielle — 1 day ago
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Asking for help for my beagles emergency splenectomy

I'm asking for help for my beagle's emergency splenectomy that happened back in February. I was able to make monthly payments on it, but it's getting a bit difficult with other living expenses. I've had to take the whole month of May off and June to take care of my dad as he is having surgeries and there's no one else to care for him as he recovers (his siblings live away and my mom passed away 2 years ago) I've been able to get the bill down some to around $1,200. Any help at all is greatly appreciated.

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https://gofund.me/79ad5ecd1

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u/lovely-hummingbird — 1 day ago

Ok try this again I need a lot of help votes are free

Ok soooo there is a karaoke contest I’m in names is Cas from Houston Tx, and could use a lot of votes. The other contestants messaged me saying they have 4 ppl voting for them all day and I won’t win On private servers so they can vote infinitel. Help if you can if you can’t it’s cool thank you any way here’s the link

https://animematsuri.com/main-events/karaoke-battle/?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio

u/Lilcasthegod — 1 day ago

Need help with Vet Bills for my cat Jax

Jax, my 11-year-old fur baby, suddenly became very sick just before the 4th of July, and the vet bills are overwhelming. We're hoping he pulls through, but we need help covering urgent care costs. If you’re able, please consider donating or sharing to help us get through this tough moment. Every bit of support means the world. https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-jaxs-urgent-vet-care-and-recovery?utm\_campaign=man\_today\_nba&utm\_content=amp20\_t1&utm\_medium=customer&utm\_source=instagram\_feed&lang=en\_US&ts=1783189039

u/SolCaelum — 1 day ago

Need 100$ to cover food and basic necessities until my client is able to pay me.

Hi everyone,

I'm a freelance video editor, and a client that was supposed to pay me so I can have enough until my other client comes through ghosted me. I tried texting them for a week and am looking for other clients as well, but I haven't had much success.

I have literally no one to ask for help. So I'm looking for 50-100$ to help me bridge the gap until my other client is able to pay me which is not for at least another week. I'm only asking for enough to pay for basic necessities for the week or so I'll need to wait.

I'm based in Serbia so unfortunately can't use Amazon. Paypal is my only option.

I know times are tough for everyone, so I really appreciate anyone who's able and willing to help out. I've been helped on here once before, so I appreciate everyone helping people out on here.

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u/yamatoeditsvideos — 1 day ago

Toothache and headache relief until appointment

One of my fillings came off and I think I have a deep cavity behind it. I can’t bite or touch my teeth together because it hurts so much,it’s also causing pain in my temple. I take painkillers but I can take them every 7 hours and they only give pain relief for about 3,5-4 hours.It keeps me from sleeping. I have an appointment in a few days but does anyone have any advice to make it less unbearable.
Orajel isn’t available in my country, I don’t have any access to cloves or clove oil.

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u/Zeyxxq — 1 day ago

Food money

Just paid my rent for the 1st. I’m hurting big time. Don’t get paid until another week. Just need help getting through for a couple days so I can figure something out. God bless.

Location: USA
Request: 40$
Cash App or Venmo

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u/Potential_Medium2278 — 2 days ago

Looking for a specific kind of gift

My buddy's birthday is coming up and he's a mechanical engineer and loves his job. I'd like to get him a sort of handheld to desktop sized "pointless machine" he can fidget with at work or free time. Maybe a puzzle box but more advanced? Any ideas would be appreciated I can't find the right words for Google Amazon or Etsy

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u/SuperSlimeGod — 1 day ago

Falling behind

Hi kind people of Reddit.

I just can’t seem to recover financially. Back in April my cat Ash got very sick and I did what I could to get him to the vet. $400 later he was diagnosed with diabetes, this did not include the insulins and other diabetic supplies associated with his diagnosis. First insulin was horrible for him and i chose to get him on a different insulin specifically for cats.

If anyone could help me with cat food, I would so greatly appreciate it. I put together “Ash’s diabetic” wish list from Amazon. These are just Fancy Feast pate flavors he really enjoys eating.

I will one day, when my financial situation gets better, pay this forward
Ash’s food wish list

Thank You kindly.
Ash’s Mom

u/Best_Advantage3938 — 2 days ago