r/Assistance

Homeless in my car that’s about to give out

I’ve been living in my car and this summer has been the worst by far, my car is 13 years old and everything’s is starting to go out, im really stressing out because it’s been making a bad noise for the last 4 days and I have no funds to cover it, I usually rent a car on Turo but I owe them a gas bill of $100 before I can even rent a car with them, if anyone can help with anything to pay off Turo or get a room until I figure this out it was be SO appreciated or even help out with what you can. I’m stuck in 90 degree weather with my dog and I can’t go without a car I use it to work and even sitting 10 minutes with the AC off is torture . I really need a little help until I figure something out. A rental car would allow me to work and save to fix my car and I won’t be out in the street, a room will also help in case it breaks down I have somewhere to go. I’m already on the access point list to get into a shelter but they are full, and I’m working with families together to get into a place but it’ll be 3-4 weeks before they can actually get me housed somewhere. Please if anyone can help I’d be so so grateful

My bill with Turo is $100 (can also provide screenshot proof)
A room per night ranges from $80-$100

A rental would be much more useful so I can still work and make money to fix my car and atleast I won’t be out in the street, but a room would also be helpful for a few nights. ❤️

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u/Due-Management8473 — 1 day ago

Just need one time help with food.

My electric company took my bill out of my account a week early and left me with literally 14 cents until I get paid Friday. I'm just looking for $25 to get enough to eat until I get paid. I have PayPal, no cashapp. I appreciate any of you who help out. I'm in upstate NY.

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u/KneelorFacetheWhip — 1 day ago

Food for my son

Hi, posting here to ask for some help needed for me and my son. I'm a Mom from near Lansing, Michigan. My son is 12 and is autistic and has other health conditions. Unfortunately, because of my son's conditions and health conditions of my own, I'm unable to work and we've been struggling greatly. We rely on social security survivor benefits and a small subsidy payment from the state. Our rent and bills have went up recently and my car is having issues with the battery or starter.

The only thing I care about is making sure my son has a roof over his head and food in his belly. He was born with extreme oral sensitivities, motor control issues and in simple terms, his brain never learned how to chew. We are working on desensitizing and learning how to chew right now which is exciting. It will be a long process with a lot of work but I'm so excited. His diet right now consists of Pediasures and pureed food. He is very rigid about which purees he will eat and will only do vanilla pediasures. It is very expensive because of grocery prices in general and he's getting bigger and eating more. My food is also expensive as I have celiacs disease. Most food pantries do not have much we are able to consume although we're thankful for anything they do have.

I've created an Amazon wishlist of the foods he eats and I included one thing that is gluten free. Thank you to anyone who helps, thank you to anyone who reads this, thank you to the mods who make this help possible. Wishlist

u/EwDavid999 — 1 day ago

Need gas to get to job interviews!

This is pretty much unprecedented for me but I’m in dire straits right now - I’m broke with no source of income. Recently I received a flurry of interview offers through a temp agency I applied to recently, so I believe there is light at the end of the tunnel! However some of these locations are quite out of the way and public transportation here is lacking.

Since I’m in WA state, gas runs about $5.40 per gallon. Thankfully I own a compact car, but it’s almost on E right now. Please - I would be deeply grateful to anyone who could be so generous as to help me stay mobile as I try to land a job, asap. I’m asking for $50 (for a full tank) or even up to $100 (for additional gas money needed while waiting for my first paycheck).

I have both Venmo and CashApp. Thank you!!

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u/ReturningMoonlight — 1 day ago

Assistance with BLS certification

Can anyone assist me with $75 for BLS certification? I have a new job offer and have to get certified before starting and the last class until Oct is Tuesday and I dont get paid until 9/2.. this job will allow me to quit the one im in due to toxic/hostile work environment at a slightly better pay.

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u/Jaebear_1996 — 1 day ago

My mom is homeless and I don’t know what to do

My (24) mom (53) had to move out of her apartment due to not paying on time (property management agreed not to put an eviction on her record). She had to move with her 65 year old fiancé and two small dogs into a hotel room while she looks for another place. A few days later, their car broke down and is 4k to fix (more than it is worth). She is currently using everything she had for a deposit on this hotel, and now has nothing. Her belongings and furniture are at a friends house and a lot of it is in the broken car. Shelters all have waiting lists and she is running out of options. She currently gets unemployment but needs to find a job. I am very worried about her. I talk to her on the phone and she does not sound the same at all. Every resource I call they say they are full or there is nothing they can do. She is located in Northern California. I can’t take her in and I am hesitant to help her financially, since I have already so many times before and it never helps in the long run. She has struggled with gambling and alcohol addiction in the past. It absolutely kills me to think about her being in a shelter or on the streets, and I am worried for the dogs. What do I do?

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u/raisedincali — 3 days ago

Need assistance with pet food and some groceries (Washington State, cashapp, Venmo)

I lost my job about a year ago, and have had a hard time catching up after getting a new job a few months ago. My car broke down and I can't afford to repair it, and can't get to a food bank. Any assistance would be sincerely appreciated. I have cash app and Venmo.

Thanks for taking the time to read this

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u/xx_elysium_xx — 2 days ago

Hi I'm Levi and ive been struggling with my health and the inability to work for years now with no clear diagnosis.

I have been having a plethora of health problems that have kept me out of work for years at this stage dating back to 2022 and it resulted in the loss of my apartment and the ending of 10 year relationship (still very close the stress was just too much for her and it was causing her health to tank as well). What finally broke the camels back so to speak is my vehicle no longer being driveable leaving me hoping for family assistance for my doctors appointments. Im hoping for any possible help whether it be donations or just sharing this but I also understand that life is extremely hard for everyone right now so thanks to anyone who is able to take a look at this.

gofund.me/c2f7e9d97

u/axle69 — 2 days ago

Requesting 10 or 20$. I haven't ate anything in 2 days my paycheck is in about a week. I only have Cashapp.

I couldn't get much groceries a few weeks ago cause I had to pay all my bills. If there's anybody that could lend a hand or anything at least I would really appreciate it. 🙏

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u/MlgChosen8 — 2 days ago

I know this is a long shot but I’m desperate.

Hello to anyone that’s reading this and thank you for taking the time. Unfortunately I need some major dental work because of having soft enamel and it’s just got progressively worse over the years obviously. My insurance only covers $2000 of a $10k+ procedure as I’m going to need to get the rest of my teeth pulled and some sort of implants or dentures.

I have 3 kids the oldest being 17 and while he doesn’t say any about my teeth I know it bothers him when I’m around his friends, the other 2 are younger and don’t seem to care much. I honestly don’t really know what to say as I’ve never done anything like this but I’m not here looking for cash I would be more than happy with just getting this procedure paid for. I know this is costing me promotions at work and I’m sick of feeling like an outcast because my teeth don’t look like everyone else’s. At this point I would be cool with becoming a tik tok add for some dental surgeon if that’s what it takes.

I’m more than happy to answer any questions and provide any proof or anything anyone would like to know. I’m located in Iowa and am looking for 10k.

Go fund me https://gofund.me/c35bf3414

u/Spmex7 — 2 days ago

HELP WIN PHOTO CONTEST TO PAY OFF DEBT! 🙏🏼✨

it would mean the absolute world if you could vote for this photo in the america’s favorite photo competition!
my husband and i are trying to pay off debt and winning the $10k would be a huge blessing for us! 🙏🏼

use the old spam email you never check & help us get to the final round!! ❤️

Please vote for my photo in the America’s Favorite Photos competition 🤩 https://AmericasFavoritePhotos.com/v/24tgzv

u/Purple_Lemon5930 — 3 days ago

Pain relief items

Hello friends! I'm seeking a small amount of help to get some pain relief items.

Earlier this month I was diagnosed with de quervains tensynovitis - my thumb tendon in my right hand is in excruciating pain. I am a disabled individual unable to work regularly and my enthusiasm with selling my art has potentially caused this condition, along with hereditary history.

I was able to purchase 2 braces/splints for my daily use, and that took all of my extra money for this month. And then my cats water fountain broke. I could use help with icing wrist packs, advil, and a new cat water fountain.

Wishlist:

https://www.amazon.ca/hz/wishlist/ls/55CYL7KW8IZ8?ref_=wl_share

Thank you so much for considering this!

u/disabledfemme — 3 days ago

Please help me with basic necessities to hold us over for the next few weeks (toddler/pets)

Hi everyone. I’m having a really difficult time financially right now and could use some help getting through the next few weeks.

I’m currently working retail and doing as much as I can while taking care of my now two-year-old while also preparing to start school again for my final year of being an undergrad. My baby’s father has been in jail for over a year and has an upcoming trial to prove his innocence, so financially I’ve been handling everything on my own from rent to bills to keeping my car running (my windshield wiper motor has been out for 8 months so I cant even drive in the rain anymore). My hours at work have also been cut sporadically, and it’s left me struggling to keep my head above water.

My rent was just withdrawn from my account and left my bank account negative. I haven’t been able to do laundry in about a month because I haven’t had the extra money, I’ve been without toilet paper for about a week, and I’ve now run out of wipes as well. At this point I feel like I’m constantly choosing between bills and basic necessities.

My next food bank appointment isn’t available for another week. I do receive help with diapers through a diaper bank, so thankfully we’re okay on those. I’m mostly asking for some food and basic household supplies to help bridge the gap for these next week/few weeks. I also have a senior dog and two cats, so I’ve included a couple of basic pet necessities on my wishlist as well.

I’m starting my final year of college soon (online) and expect my grants and student loans to be disbursed in about 4–5 weeks, which should alleviate a lot of the financial pressure I’m under. I’m just struggling to make it from where I am right now to that point.

I’ve made a small Amazon wishlist with things like easy meals, pantry staples, toilet paper, laundry detergent, wipes, dog/cat food, and cat litter. Anything would help, I’m not too worried about food because I will be able to go to the food bank in a week and they let us get 80 lbs of food per month. Still even one inexpensive item is one thing I don’t have to figure out how to pay for right now. I still need help with gas money, and my ridiculous light bill this month but I’ll find a way to make that happen. I always do. It’s stressful though, especially on top of my boyfriend’s upcoming trial, my upcoming difficult school year, all on top of being a mom.

Thank you to anyone who read this. I really really appreciate it. If you read my post history you’ll see my boyfriend was about to take a plea deal but decided to push it to trial. I also dont post anything about my baby on reddit for privacy reasons. I hope yall can respect that. Thank you so so much and I hope yall have a great day.

Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/29DVBUQGLZ5M3?ref_=wl_share

Thank you again, I genuinely appreciate anyone who is willing or able to help us get through this rough patch. ❤️

u/thedarkestshadow512 — 3 days ago

Just need a little help to get by

Hi everyone!

I've never used this before and I'm super uncomfortable, but desperate. I'm asking for $9 to get mg account out of the negative. That's all. I've exhausted all my resources and even after two jobs, I'm just barely scraping by. I haven't been able to work my second job lately, so I unfortunately put myself in this bind.

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

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u/TheDryadPrincess — 3 days ago

School supplies for my daughter

I'm a low income mom of 3, and struggling right now. I've experienced a lot of loss this year, and I'm burnt out. I was rejected for a transfer of responsibility last month, for my mental health, and so my boss decided I resigned, so I'm temporarily unemployed. I'm in therapy currently to help with all of that.

School snuck up on me. I'm confident I'll get something, but I live in a college town and overestimated how ready that would be.

School starts next Thursday, and I'd love to not get a donation backpack, because my youngest deserves what she asked for this year, and it's my fault she can't have it, so I'm doing my best to fix that.

I made an Amazon Amazon List

I included some snacks and stuff, in case people felt like helping in that way.

u/DinahKarwrek — 4 days ago

Hoping it's not too late

Final update: there are really great people keeping watch on this sub, you saved our butts! (Doggo and myself) We're paid up and still have a roof thanks to you💜

Update: I sent what I received so far to the office. The manager said my balance is $106 (I guess they hit me with another late fee already). Really, anything will help! If there was a down-on-my-knees-begging emoji it'd be right here.🥺🙏🏼😩

Good morning!

I'm living in an extended stay hotel here and things had been going smoothly. I got a call from my bank on Friday telling me there was suspicious activity (it looks like someone tried to login to my account, thankfully they couldn't!), so they froze my account until I could verify that I'm me. They just need pictures of a valid ID, unfortunately mine expired last month so it isn't "valid". I went online and submitted pictures of it anyway, the representative said with that and a couple of security questions I might pass. Apparently that representative was misinformed because when I called to do the questions I was told that's not the procedure... I've been told that 3 times now.

Going off of the information I received first, I informed the office that I would be able to catch up my rent this morning. Although it was unintentional, I lied to them so they're not going to be happy today. My neighbor is going to take me to get a new ID when they get off work this afternoon, but with today I'm 3 days unpaid so they're going to set me out. So, I've got it solved going forward but I'm desperate for help to maintain. Once they kick me out I won't be able to come back, then me and my dog are on the street. And it's summer thunderstorming here to boot. As of yesterday I owed $122 and some change, then today is $57 (there are late fees on my past due days). I can probably get away with paying for today tomorrow after I get my account fixed. If anyone can please help with my past due I would be eternally grateful. I probably should have asked earlier but I was hoping I wouldn't need to ask at all.

If it's allowed I can just give you my hotel information and they can be paid directly. If not I've got Venmo and PayPal, and I can get an invoice from the office at 10 Eastern time if it goes that route. I don't have any family to ask for help and any assistance from my county wouldn't come in time. I was hoping I wouldn't have to beg for help again but this problem isn't something I could have planned for. Thank you so much for reading all that, I'm sorry it's so erratic

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u/NarfledGarthok — 4 days ago
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Running out of food and scared of losing my home, please help ❤️

I am moderate to severe with 10 years of ME/CFS, worked as long as I could and now barely surviving. I am scared of losing my home which is the only safe place for me and I have so little energy to do anything. If you could help it would mean the world to me. Thank you ❤️

https://whydonate.com/fundraising/help-me-survive-me-cfs

u/colorsoforchid — 4 days ago

Gofundme for vet debt

My cat Leander has had several health issues over the years (epilepsy, urinary blockages). For his last surgery I was able to create a gofundme that reached its goal- and I immediately closed it once I had enough to pay for his procedure and pay back the friends and family who lent me money too.

But I've been struggling with the mountain of debt from his previous vet bills.

If you look at my profile you can see pictures of my beautiful boy and his past medical history from December.

Any little donation would help. 

Thank you!

More info on his gofundme page

www.gofund.me/294ddf0b3

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u/FFVO — 3 days ago

Gas money help to escape the heat

So my daughter and I have been living this summer with no AC. The end of our 5th wheel is like a sunroom, so once the sun passes noon, it gets HOT inside. We have already had a few triple digit days, with more to come, and my entire disability pay has gone to our regular bills. I was just hoping maybe someone had a few extra dollars that you would otherwise never miss, and would maybe want to Venmo us so I can take her swimming at the lake to get out of the heat on those high temp days? Ok, and I'd enjoy it, too, I can't lie 😂 if you'd like to help, just message me and I can give you my Venmo. Thanks, everyone

Requesting: $20-40

Method: Venmo

Location: Arkansas USA

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u/Educational-Mood1145 — 4 days ago

Thank you!

I want to thank all of you for helping me out! I think it was a couple years ago, I was broke as shit and y'all helped me out with cat food, money, some of you even giving me money a few months in a row.

I couldn't get a job and tech project fell in my lap doing AI work and I decided to sell it to other companies and now I am doing very well! I'm coming back to help some other people who might need it!

Thanks Again!

edit - Any tips on giving? I am getting some DMs.

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u/geetarqueen — 6 days ago