Can you help, please?
I am an admirer, but not very knowledgeable in this context. I had some dishes in my sink this morning and washed out a cup, only used cold water. I noticed right after that there was a beautiful wolf spider in there. I very carefully removed any dishes and she/he was trying frantically to climb out, but couldn’t.
I put a large piece of cardboard next to her/him hoping it would climb on so I could then move it back outside to a safe area. It made a threat display (moving its abdomen up and down several times) and then went very still with its abdomen still upraised and its legs splayed. I thought it might be dead or playing dead at that point and left it alone for a couple of hours. I checked again after and it had moved its abdomen back down and brought its legs in to a more normal countenance and I was so hopeful.
I left it alone until dark knowing they’re nocturnal. It still didn’t move and didn’t react in the slightest to gentle stimuli (blowing on it, very delicately nudging a leg). I very sadly assumed it was dead and used paper towel rolled up to gently put each leg and then its torso carefully on the cardboard, in case by some chance it was still alive, and moved it outside. I put it in a very shaded, pretty hidden spot on a deck with a wide, opaque mug over it propped up on one side for airflow.
Then I read that they can go pretty much unresponsive when moulting and seek out humid places?? Legs were not curled in tight at all, just normal looking. Should I not have moved it? Should I move it back? Apparently it’s dangerous for them to move them when they’re moulting? It’s also quite humid outside. I just feel awful and don’t know what to do; if it is alive, I want to give it the best chance of survival.