u/Alvinthechipmunke

For context, we both turned 18 recently. We were together for 9 months. Before we got together, ive heard about him being a player from a mutual friend, but I still decided to give him a chance. We lived in different cities, 20/30 minutes by car, but I moved to his city about a month ago. We were both really excited and we finally wont be long distance.

I met a group of girls in my now city that I like a lot. Yesterday, one of them called me and showed me another girls phone; they had been talking for 3/4 months and even met up, and I feel sick even thinking about what happened. I met him, told him, and we broke up. Today, I found out even more. He made out with a girl he told me was his cousin, and another one that was his ex. Im sure ill find out even more soon and it shatters me.

He was the first guy I slept with, and from what he told me, I was his first too. Im not sure if I even believe that anymore. We stayed skin to skin for hours, and talked about everything. Was it not that serious fot him?

Even tho people were telling me hes a player, I refused to believe. He constantly posted me, gave me two gold bracelets, a perfume I really wanted and more. I dont think you do that for a person you dont care about. I had his location and access to his phone anytime I wanted, but I never checked it. I believe a relationship should be built by trust and respect, and I dont want to control my boyfriend. He thought that because I lived in a smaller town, id never find out.

I feel like I just met a completely different side of him, and I dont know what to do and how to feel. Im angry, disappointed and sad. How can a person fake all those moments and memories he had? We talked everyday, and met up nearly everyday.
How can some people do that? He showed me he loved me so many times by things he did, and now I dont think that was real. We are also classmates, and will be for two more years.

I want to understand why he did that and how can I get over this, advice would be appreciated, thanks!

For context, we both turned 18 recently. We were together for 9 months. Before we got together, ive heard about him being a player from a mutual friend, but I still decided to give him a chance. We lived in different cities, 20/30 minutes by car, but I moved to his city about a month ago. We were both really excited and we finally wont be long distance.

I met a group of girls in my now city that I like a lot. Yesterday, one of them called me and showed me another girls phone; they had been talking for 3/4 months and even met up, and I feel sick even thinking about what happened. I met him, told him, and we broke up. Today, I found out even more. He made out with a girl he told me was his cousin, and another one that was his ex. Im sure ill find out even more soon and it shatters me.

He was the first guy I slept with, and from what he told me, I was his first too. Im not sure if I even believe that anymore. We stayed skin to skin for hours, and talked about everything. Was it not that serious fot him?

Even tho people were telling me hes a player, I refused to believe. He constantly posted me, gave me two gold bracelets, a perfume I really wanted and more. I dont think you do that for a person you dont care about. I had his location and access to his phone anytime I wanted, but I never checked it. I believe a relationship should be built by trust and respect, and I dont want to control my boyfriend. He thought that because I lived in a smaller town, id never find out.

I feel like I just met a completely different side of him, and I dont know what to do and how to feel. Im angry, disappointed and sad. How can a person fake all those moments and memories he had? We talked everyday, and met up nearly everyday.
How can some people do that? He showed me he loved me so many times by things he did, and now I dont think that was real. We are also classmates, and will be for two more years.

I want to understand why he did that and how can I get over this, advice would be appreciated, thanks!

For context, we both turned 18 recently. We were together for 9 months. Before we got together, ive heard about him being a player from a mutual friend, but I still decided to give him a chance. We lived in different cities, 20/30 minutes by car, but I moved to his city about a month ago. We were both really excited and we finally wont be long distance.

I met a group of girls in my now city that I like a lot. Yesterday, one of them called me and showed me another girls phone; they had been talking for 3/4 months and even met up, and I feel sick even thinking about what happened. I met him, told him, and we broke up. Today, I found out even more. He made out with a girl he told me was his cousin, and another one that was his ex. Im sure ill find out even more soon and it shatters me.

He was the first guy I slept with, and from what he told me, I was his first too. Im not sure if I even believe that anymore. We stayed skin to skin for hours, and talked about everything. Was it not that serious fot him?

Even tho people were telling me hes a player, I refused to believe. He constantly posted me, gave me two gold bracelets, a perfume I really wanted and more. I dont think you do that for a person you dont care about. I had his location and access to his phone anytime I wanted, but I never checked it. I believe a relationship should be built by trust and respect, and I dont want to control my boyfriend. He thought that because I lived in a smaller town, id never find out.

I feel like I just met a completely different side of him, and I dont know what to do and how to feel. Im angry, disappointed and sad. How can a person fake all those moments and memories he had? We talked everyday, and met up nearly everyday.
How can some people do that? He showed me he loved me so many times by things he did, and now I dont think that was real. We are also classmates, and will be for two more years.

I want to understand why he did that and how can I get over this, advice would be appreciated, thanks!

He cheated. Im si confused and angry. Half the relationship he cheated, but I know he loves me?? Fuck I miss hugging him how do I do this

We never have unprotected sex, and he always pulls out even with a condom. My period was supposed to come 6 days ago, but then again my cycle is irregular. I have been using a tracking app for a few months now and its always been 1/2/3 days late, but never 6. Last week I also got about 6 hours of sleep per night because i had to move homes. Im really stressed, I would appreciate some advice

We never have unprotected sex, and he always pulls out even with a condom. My period was supposed to come 6 days ago, but then again my cycle is irregular. I have been using a tracking app for a few months now and its always been 1/2/3 days late, but never 6. Last week I also got about 6 hours of sleep per night because i had to move homes. Im really stressed