▲ 8 r/story

I have a thing for women who seem completely at home in themselves. Yesterday, I met one.

The Woman in Red

I noticed her lipstick first. Red. Proper red.
She had silver hair, a long linen dress and a pair of sunglasses resting on top of her head.
In one hand, she carried a small paper bag of cherries.
We were standing next to each other waiting to cross the street, and I caught myself looking at her.
There was something about her. She looked like a woman who had lived. Loved deeply. Changed her mind. Taken chances. Probably kissed someone wildly inappropriate at least once.
And somehow arrived here, years later, buying cherries on a hot summer afternoon and wearing that fabulous lipstick as though Tuesday deserved it.
Then she caught me looking. I smiled. She smiled back.
Just before the light changed, she leaned towards me and said, “Wear the red lipstick.” II laughed.
She crossed the street, reached into the bag and ate a cherry as she walked away. I watched her disappear into the crowd.
This morning, I thought about her while getting ready.
I opened the drawer. Found mine. And yes.
I wore the red lipstick.

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u/An_Patt — 19 days ago

What would your ideal online space for creatives actually look like?

Hi, I’ve been thinking about this lately.
If you could create an online space from scratch for artists, photographers, interior designers, architects and other creatives, what would you actually want from it?
A place to show your work? Find other creatives? Collaborate? Get discovered by clients? Protect original work? Have better conversations?
What do you feel is still missing from the platforms we already have?
Genuinely curious what you would build differently.

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u/An_Patt — 19 days ago

The life I dreamt of was always hiding inside ordinary moments. One day, I simply began to notice them. 🌺

Choosing Beautiful
Every morning begins with a quiet conversation between me and the day ahead.
I choose a place that fills me with peace.
I choose moments that invite me to slow down.
I choose people who inspire kindness.
I choose thoughts that carry light.
Over time, those choices have become my favourite way of creating a beautiful life.
They shape the places where I feel at home.
They colour the memories I keep.
They bring remarkable people into my world.
Looking back, I can see how every gentle choice found its place in the life I live today.
Tomorrow offers another beautiful beginning.
And I already know how I want to greet it.

u/An_Patt — 20 days ago

I think every woman carries a thousand versions of herself. LG

u/An_Patt — 20 days ago
▲ 11 r/Art

Untitled, An Patt, Mixed media, 2022 [OC]

u/An_Patt — 21 days ago
▲ 10 r/Art

Untitled, An Patt, Mixed media, 2025 [OC]

u/An_Patt — 21 days ago

Some people leave without taking anything with them. They leave a version of you that never quite disappears.🌺

Someone walked past me today wearing a perfume I hadn’t smelled in years.
For a moment, the whole day shifted.
The scent carried me somewhere familiar.
I found myself remembering a version of me I hadn’t visited in a long time.
The way she laughed.
The dreams she held so close.
The quiet certainty that life was about to surprise her.
It’s fascinating how a fragrance can hold an entire chapter without saying a word.
Perhaps people do the same.
They leave with their footsteps.
A part of them settles into the smallest corners of our lives.
A favourite expression.
The way we reach for a coffee cup.
A song that still softens the air.
Some people become part of the atmosphere we carry within us.
Every now and then, a single scent opens the door, and everything feels close again…..

u/An_Patt — 21 days ago

Some people leave without taking anything with them. They leave a version of you that never quite disappears. 🌺

Someone walked past me today wearing a perfume I hadn’t smelled in years.
For a moment, the whole day shifted.
The scent carried me somewhere familiar.
I found myself remembering a version of me I hadn’t visited in a long time.
The way she laughed….
The dreams she held so close…..
The quiet certainty that life was about to surprise her….
It’s fascinating how a fragrance can hold an entire chapter without saying a word.
Perhaps people do the same.
They leave with their footsteps.
A part of them settles into the smallest corners of our lives.
A favourite expression.
The way we reach for a coffee cup.
A song that still softens the air.
Some people become part of the atmosphere we carry within us.
Every now and then, a single scent opens the door, and everything feels close again…..

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u/An_Patt — 21 days ago

I think we’re all carrying more than we let anyone see. Sometimes it takes only one smile to make the weight feel lighter 🌺

Today a stranger smiled at me. It lasted a second.
The feeling stayed much longer. I kept thinking about how easily we remember moments that ask for nothing.
A smile.
A quiet room.
Fresh flowers.
Warm bread.
Morning light finding its way across an old wooden table.
Perhaps life has always spoken this language.
Perhaps I have only just started listening….

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u/An_Patt — 22 days ago
▲ 3 r/ExistentialJourney+1 crossposts

Fragments Thoughts collected along the way.... Grace

For a long time, I thought life changed through big decisions. A new job. A new city. A new relationship.
A fresh start.
Now I think it changes much earlier. The moment you stop agreeing to the little things that quietly take pieces of you.
Another meeting you never wanted to attend. Another conversation that leaves you feeling smaller than when it began. Another "yes" that should have been yours to question. None of it looks dramatic. That's why it stays for so long.
One day you wake up in a life that makes perfect sense on paper. You just don't recognise yourself in it anymore.
Lately, I've been asking myself a different question.
Will this choice bring me closer to myself?
It's surprising how many decisions become simple once you stop trying to impress your past and start listening to the woman you're becoming.....

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u/An_Patt — 23 days ago
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Presence, An Patt, Mix media, 2025 [OC]

u/An_Patt — 23 days ago

I found a lipstick stain on my coffee cup. It made me smile. Some mornings deserve to stay exactly as they are 🙂🌺

I noticed the lipstick on my coffee cup before I noticed the sunrise. A soft rose-colored curve. Beautiful in its imperfection. I wrapped both hands around the cup and stayed there for a while. The room filled with golden light.
The flowers on the table leaned toward the window.
Everything felt unhurried. Days like this remind me that happiness rarely enters with noise. It slips quietly into ordinary moments and waits to be noticed…..

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u/An_Patt — 23 days ago
▲ 2 r/u_An_Patt+2 crossposts

Perhaps these words are looking for someone today 🌺

Coming Home

I kept looking for myself
in other people’s eyes,
hoping someone would recognise me
before I recognised myself.

I wandered through cities,
following light spilling across old streets,
collecting quiet moments
as though one of them
might become home.

Morning arrived gently.
Rain carried the scent of earth.
Colour found its way across the canvas,
and for the first time,
I was simply there.

Then something inside me
breathed my name
with the tenderness
of sunlight resting on an old wall.

“You’re here.”

The world remained the same.

I came home.

🌺

u/An_Patt — 23 days ago