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I see lots of reels on this and found this to be true in real life as well lol. People born after 2000 are getting married and also seem to be very keen in marriage rather than career. Whereas people born between 95-00 don't seem to be interested in marriage and are more focused on building career and finding themselves. Some say it's because of Saturn debilitated but previous Saturn debilitated generation didnt face marriage scarcity. Only this generation seems to be mostly unmarried despite being 30 or near 30. Also, this generation is the one facing the most problems in career and instability compared to the next generation. They all seem very lost and not wanting babies mostly going DINK. But the next generation born post 2000 are already having babies like i see so many 21 years old couples with babies be it in india or foreign. Why does this generation not feel like proper grown ups? It seems they're still figuring out life and wasting their prime years. And i see this happening only with 95-00 borns.

What do you guys think?

I see lots of reels on this and found this to be true in real life as well lol. People born after 2000 are getting married and also seem to be very keen in marriage rather than career. Whereas people born between 95-00 don't seem to be interested in marriage and are more focused on building career and finding themselves. Some say it's because of Saturn debilitated but previous Saturn debilitated generation didnt face marriage scarcity. Only this generation seems to be mostly unmarried despite being 30 or near 30. Also, this generation is the one facing the most problems in career and instability compared to the next generation. They all seem very lost and not wanting babies mostly going DINK. But the next generation born post 2000 are already having babies like i see so many 21 years old couples with babies be it in india or foreign.

What do you guys think?

They had two summer coupons giving 300 off on 2000 and 500 off on 3000. But today it's gone. Should I wait till the end of the sale to get better discounts? Only 3 items alone in my cart is costing me 1500😭

I'm posting this discussion again because MOD removed it saying screenshot is not allowed.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXIndia/s/eSyCEDGZv7

So I'll just paste the text that was written in the image.

"many women speak passionately about their morals and political convictions yet share their lives with men who reject those same principles.. ideology is easy to publicly defend. intimacy is where it's compromised for a goodnight text"

My point –

Same goes for women who are feminists until marriage. It’s sad to see strong, smart, ambitious women leave everything behind just to desperately get married because they can’t stand being lonely. Suddenly, they stop posting anything about feminism or women’s rights. Some even start looking down on their single female friends for not yet being “claimed” by a man. Their bfs/husbands don’t even support their ideologies and have a rigid patriarchal mindset, yet the women are okay with following it. Some are even toxic yet they have no problem marrying them.

Men are more lonely but you'll never find them settling down with an open minded, independent, ambitious, opinionated women because they're fixed on marrying a traditional woman who will take on household chores and take care of in laws. They refuse to lower or change their standards or views. But women will drop their potential and career just to marry a deadbeat guy because they're nearing 30.

The whole “women support women” feels largely like an online wave, while offline it’s clearly the opposite. Even my married friends who used to bash men suddenly can’t stop praising their husbands once they get married. Their whole world starts revolving around their man. It's like they're biding their time until they find a man so that they can stop pretending to support feminism and bashing toxic men.

I feel if women continue dropping their standards to get married, we will never progress much and will be back to square zero which is patriarchal world. What's the use of all those education and degrees when you're never gonna join back the workforce after marriage? Such potential hugely wasted. We need more women in workforce so that men don't create a power imbalance and take advantage of women. More women in power will lead to more women safety. Less corruption and less abuse of power.

Like please don't get this post wrong. A part of me feels betrayed that I stand up for women everytime I see injustice happen, but most women just play safe and forget about feminism the minute they get married. Which is why we mostly see young and unmarried women being the most vocal on the internet on women's rights and safety issues. They're the ones calling out misogynistic men and challenging rules of patriarchal society. But most women over 30 hardly care about these issues.

Why can't women stand in solidarity the way men do? Why do most women settle for men with such opposite mindsets and stop supporting feminism? Why do they change their stance all of a sudden?

I see many people saying they reduced their hair fall and managed to reverse grey hair by incorporating all of these or either one of them. Either in powder form applied externally on hair or taken orally.

Have you guys noticed anything? Not just hair but overall health? And how long did you take it?

So I'm in my late 20s. I'm scared of marriage because in AM they usually want a submissive, modest bahu whereas my nature is independent and bold. I'm aware this will create friction even though I'm loyal to the T and that's why I'm not going the AM route. But I also have not found the right one. I kinda regret waiting all my life to find the right guy and now I'm realising just because you wait doesn't mean the right person is promised to you. Should've seen someone in college when there were plenty of options. I thought the one meant for me will come to me so I rejected all the guys because my heart said no. Never been in a relationship or even held hands with a guy.

Every single girl cousin of mine is married. They're all younger than me and some have kids now. This has made my family very sad because I'm not saying yes to marriage. I understand their concern that I'm getting old and will have trouble in pregnancies. But my heart just doesn't agree.

I get anxiety attacks randomly when I think how even my friends have gotten married and moved on. My relatives are toxic and think something must be wrong with me that I'm not getting married. They're also happy how their kids progressed far more than me and since they hate me because I'm opinionated, they are very secretly happy that I've not gotten any good rishtas like their daughters. This makes me feel like a loser in family functions. Every single girl there is married and way younger than me. I feel like a outsider and embarrassed that I've no life partner.

People talk behind my back and say 'that's what you get for being independent', that no man is ready to marry you. They think I'm progressive and have a mind of my own, is the reason no will take me as their bahu. And now I'm thinking what did I do wrong? Are there no men for women like us? My life is my own, why would I ditch my entire personality to fit according to what groom's family want?

This sucks even more as a middle class girl, where they only look for a woman who will do household chores, take care of in laws, only wear kurtis, no hanging out with friends or trips, no opinions, will have to bow her head infront of elders, stay home all day. This is not my personality and has never been.

But does it mean the cost of being authentic to your desires and will as a middle class girl will also mean being single your entire life? What should I do in this situation? Should I give in and get married because there's no guarantee I will get a genuine guy later when I'm already nearing 30?

I'm typing this with tears rolling down my face. Society is really cruel to single women who are old. They really make them feel undesirable like they're some defective products. Even the female friends after marriage suddenly stop talking with you and make their husbands their whole personality and world. They too start looking down on you for not having a partner. It's only online where I see lots of unmarried old women but in real life everyone's getting married one after another. I don't know how girls are ok with losing their careers and personalities and being a domesticated housewife. Sometimes I feel am I doing something wrong? Is being independent and living your own way, a disadvantage to girls?

I’ve never felt any pull toward marriage or motherhood. I’ve never wanted to be a wife, and I’ve never had a natural desire for love or romance. Even now, those ideas feel foreign to me. I’m physically and mentally healthy, with no history of trauma or abuse, and I don’t have trouble attracting men, I just choose to reject them. I’ve never been in a relationship and don’t feel the need to be in one. I’m not asexual, and I’m not a tomboy either. Also, I'm straight. I’m quite feminine in my personality and appearance, though on the inside I've masculine traits like strong career ambitions the kind that men have, enjoying adventure which are risky, dominant, etc.

What confuses me is that almost every other woman around me seems interested in relationships, marriage, children, and romance. I find myself wondering what’s different about me, or if something is wrong with my femininity. It sometimes feels like I don’t relate to a core part of what most women experience. Most women seem wired for relationships, while I’m not. They talk about love, marriage, and kids like it’s a given. I don’t relate at all.

I feel like a complete outsider when they talk about their dream weddings, wanting to wear Sabyasachi or whatever bridal lehengaa, being in the arms of their man. Even online I see women posting relationships quotes, wanting their man to be obsessed with them, creating his babies, etc. And I'm like why do these thoughts never occur to me? Why do I never crave wanting my own cute kids with the love of my life? Am I some rare species who is not meant to have a partner and are their own better half?

In school, girls would have bfs, and I used to think is this natural? Are we meant to have bfs? I didn't know it's natural to feel attraction towards opposite gender and come into a relationship. Like how bizarre I am. I used to find it repulsive when a guy would like me. I don't why I'm like this or feel this way. Why do I reject masculinity? I should've dated atleast once like people naturally do but even that was a foreign concept to me.

It feels like it's my first birth on this planet. Why do I not crave a partner or true love like everyone else? Why are these concepts alien to me?

I’ve tried to understand this through frameworks like Jungian psychology and ideas like yin-yang balance, but nothing really explains it. Sometimes I think am I cursed for not having inherent feminine traits. Because people say as a woman not having those feelings of love, marriage or motherhood, means something is deeply wrong or unhealthy.

I’ve also noticed that many women are attracted to traditionally masculine traits, like tall men with beards, while I tend to prefer clean-shaven men. That makes me question whether my preferences are somehow “reversed,” or if I’m drawn to more feminine men.

Overall, I keep coming back to the same question: if my patterns are so different from the majority of the women, does that mean something is wrong with my feminine energy?

Lately, I’ve noticed that almost every dress or top I buy, whether it’s from a premium brand or not, is thin and see-through, so I have to wear something underneath. Few years ago, I didn’t even need to wear a bra at home because the fabric was thick enough. Now, everything shows through, including my nippl*s. It feels like either quality has dropped significantly to cut cost or some sort of perversion has took over. If I'm paying so much, then atleast make it thick and durable. We really need to start calling out brands for this. Sometimes i just want to relax at home in my pyjamas but I cant because I've to wear a bra in this heat as the cloth is so thin that my nippl*s are poking through.

Are you guys facing the same issue?

Astrologers say any connection between sun and mars in D1 or D9, gives physical or mental abuse especially in a woman's chart especially in marriage. Basically a domestic violence conj. I found this to be kinda true but then again I don't know many people who are victim of abuse or ready to share it in real life. I was looking into Aishwarya Rai's chart and she was physically assaulted by Salman. She has sun-mars mutual aspect in D1. I know few guys with this conj who were physically assaulted.

Can people share their experiences? Also, would be helpful if you could tell in which dasha or transit it happened, so it becomes helpful in warning someone to take precaution.

Also, note Dasha and transit activates events, so you might not have experienced it till now but there's a chance later in life this could get activated.

I expected Mycroft to at least intervene, or have instructed his men in advance to shoot if that woman ever aimed a gun at Sherlock. But when she actually did, he neither reacted nor showed any urgency about potentially losing his brother. Instead, Mary stepped in, not Mycroft. If he truly cared so deeply about Sherlock, why didn’t he step forward and take the bullet himself?

Guys please help where can I watch sherlock season 4 with English subtitles? I just finished season 3 and can't find season 4 anywhere😭