u/Angry_Birdyy

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Hi, I am currently 33.5 weeks pregnant and today we did doppler scan where my baby’s abdomen circumference is 276.3 mm and my baby weight is 1.95kg. Is it concerning? My radiologist mentioned in his report that the growth is marginally slow. Chatgpt is showing the AC is 2 weeks behind the usual growth. Need your thoughts and experience if any? Thankyou

I am just fed up. Since 5 years, my in laws both are in 60s , visit us thrice a year for like 20-25 days. For first 15days they live happily and in later days they just confined to their room. Everytime they visit us they have their long shopping list. My MIL retired in 2020 and since then made a pact k we will buy them gold whenever they visit us and we pay 50% and 50% they will
Pay for their jewellery and mind you they have multiple piece of jewellery.Apart from gold, if my husband bought some gadget either headphones / hi tech mouse/ phone/ iwatch they want the same(
My husband is gadget freek and they want to have the same.

Everything was fine till 3yrs i was like its fine if they don’t have earrings or want some ring but now they multiple peices of everything and their list are never ending.
Above all of this, my thoughts changed towards them when i delivered my first child in 2024. I had risky pregnancy and my baby is born with congenital issue but in my postpartum they went their hometown when my baby was just 14 days old saying they miss their home and shit. Since then I am not normal with them. I tried hard but now everything seems fake and I feel like they arr just greedy and self centred and now I don’t respect them at all. Me and my husband usually fought a lot over this because he never say no to them. Last month they visit us and saw spare macbook and phone and they just ask their son that they want that phone and laptop and mind you my FIL has 4 monitors installed in his bedroom because he is into stocks and plays chess and do Facebook whole day.

I just don’t know how to cope up with them they used to instigate me to get my reaction and they know I am irritated with their nuance. Also in these years they never bought any gold or anything for my daughter when they himself are gold obsessed.
I am pregnant right now and this time I just don’t want to have them near me . I just loose myself and I recall everything they did so far. In my first pregnancy they took us to tanishq i thought they are buying me something but instead they ask us to get kangan😞😞 for my MIL since then i loose myself. I can’t be myself in front of them. I don’t know what to do. My husband told me if I continue behaving like this they will stop visiting us because of me.

Hey Everyone, I am 20 weeks pregnant with the second child. Me and my husband with our toddler is living alone without any extra help and My husband’s job requires frequent travel. I am thinking to hire a 24/7 househelp so that i can manage my office work along with my ongoing pregnancy. Looking for your suggestions where can I find 24hrs househelp.

Hey Everyone, I am 20 weeks pregnant with the second child. Me and my husband with our toddler is living alone without any extra help and My husband’s job requires frequent travel. I am thinking to hire a 24/7 househelp so that i can manage my office work along with my ongoing pregnancy. Looking for your suggestions where can I find 24hrs househelp.

Hi All, I am looking for urgent help. I am a working mom having a 2.5 year toddler and currently pregnant with second. I am looking for your genuine help. I am not able to manage my toddler, my office work and my pregnancy exhaustion. I am thinking to hire a 24hrs househelp, please suggest some platforms/ agencies where I can find the honest reliable help.
Location-Pune