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How do you all deal with heartbreak and sorrow?

Dear fellow highly guarded, nerdy and thoughtful INTJs..: What have your experiences using dating apps?

Edit:::::: I am not accepting any Dms and not looking for it. Thank you 🤗

Help a girl out please!

I currently have mid length hair and have not done anything since i have shaved it 4 years ago( never had real shape growing) . Lately, every time when i open up social media that song, and reel pops up on my feed. I am so tempted... Have any of you have gotten the bob, and regretted it?

What are the movies that lifted your mood up and made you laugh start to finish? The ones that make you question some, but overall light and funny?
Any movie genres are appreciated. Preferably made after 2002,
Thank you!

I translated to English to understand, and thought better to share it because how amazing it is! Please enjoy

My Youth
Over the mirror of my tipsy heart,
Stumbling amidst the life of this earthly soil,
Passing over like a bird's swift shadow—
My bright crimson youth!
Without tasting the flavor of every sweet thing,
My youth, spilled along the way,
Without pondering the hues of every bright color,
My youth, squandered along the way.
Heedless of sleep on summer nights,
Yearning for a hundred and three romantic encounters,
Colliding with picture-like girls like a heavy cart,
My youth, which flared up so fleetingly!
Heedless of the biting cold of winter's nine frosts,
Casting my heart toward another man's wife,
Fluttering like the flap of a yurt's felt door,
My hardy, foolish youth!
Ah, but you did not last long;
Like my cloth jacket and leather gloves,
Like the long braided hair I once grew fond of and parted from,
Left behind on the paved road—my youth!
Along the stone pavements of Ulaanbaatar,
North and south, to the west and the east,
Wearing down heavy factory boots
To bare soles in just a single week...
Never dreaming of the good or evil in people,
My youth, grown up like a child,
Never discerning the true beauty of women,
My youth, flying high like a lark!
In the evening hours with rowdy comrades,
My youth, stampeding like a herd of horses,
Shattering neighbors' streetlamps with thrown stones,
My reckless, unruly youth!
Slapping the coral-red cheeks
Of other men’s sons,
Making the blood pour from the noses
Of my own equal friends—my youth!
Forgetting what I saw, not holding what I heard,
Wildly reveling as if time were eternal,
Passing right by my faithful soulmate—
Never to be found again in this chaotic world—
Tricked by the surface charm of city women,
Pairing up for merely a few short days,
Spilling my pure blood for their sake—
My youth, squandered away!
Swelling with the romantic poetic inspiration
And wild spirit of my student years,
Falsely believing I had solved
The intricate mysteries of the universe—
My purest of pure youth,
Our companionship lasted barely ten short years.
My hottest of hot young days,
Your time was limited, just like a spring flood.
Ah, poor human youth!
Which cannot be taken, nor given away,
Is it merely a short-lived reward granted
By the silent decree of mute nature?
Scattering this reward at others' counters
Like loose pocket change,
Until suddenly, in this cold world,
A child of man finds himself stripped bare.
Just as one grieves, longing deeply
After parting from a good companion,
So one sits in deep regret, looking back
Once youth has passed and gone.
Goodbye, my young and vibrant age!
If this was a wrestling match, I have been thrown.
If this was a race, I have fallen behind.
Yet if this was a trade, a bargain made:
I gave away the health of my untamed body,
And took in return your fame and your poetry!
Over the mirror of my tipsy heart,
Stumbling amidst the life of this earthly soil,
Passing over like a bird's swift shadow—
My bright crimson youth! Goodbye!

What is the most deeply sentimental movie you've ever seen that kind truly touched your inner self and made you view life differently?

My personal all time fav is "Sixth Sense".