Today is the day I stop with maladaptive dreaming

I am starting to notice that the only thing that is stopping me from achieving the things I want is the dreaming. I am going to start treating my dreams into ideas. For example, I want a job, I am going to apply for it and keep applying to similar positions. I am no longer going to live in my head. Every positive dream will be fulfilled one by one. I will get married, I will travel, I will get my dream job, I will start my business, I will grow my social circle and I will win. I will start living in the present because nothing will ever change unless I change within myself. I am so tired of pretending like I have the stuff that I always wanted or that somehow magically it will happened. The only true barrier between achieving my dreams with my reality is that I am comfortable living in a made up dream world and it will only stop once I start to live in the moment.

It’s about time things change around here and I am going to change by letting go of something I have dealt with and lived with for so long. I know it’s not going to be easy and I know I will be letting go of a version of myself I created, but the only way to become the person I want to be is to let go of the maladaptive daydreaming.

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u/Any_Try_1585 — 3 days ago

27F

Age: 27
Location: Ontario, Canada
Education: Bachelor’s Degree
Occupation: Customer Service Representative
Interests: Journaling and traveling
Deen & Character: Practicing Muslimah, thoughtful, family-oriented, and grounded. Never married
Looking For
A serious, practicing, and God-fearing Sunni Muslim man ready for marriage. Looking for someone who’s never been married and has no kids.
Someone who is kind, honest, respectful, and values clear communication.
Open to candidates located in Canada or North America

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u/Any_Try_1585 — 22 days ago

27F

Age: 27
Marital Status: Single / Never Married / No kids
Faith: Sunni Muslim
Citizenship: Canadian
Education: Bachelor’s Degree
Occupation: Currently working in Customer Service
Faith: A practicing Sunni Muslim who strives to balance Deen and Dunyah.
Marriage Timeline: 12-18 months
Age Preference: 26 to 30 years old
Location: Preferably settled in Canada

I love journaling to document my thoughts and life experiences. I have a deep love for traveling, exploring new places, and learning about different cultures. I have an open minded approach to life and am always excited to try new things, activities, and cuisines. I do pray 5 times and fast during Ramadan.

Looking for someone who is kind hearted, ambitious, and values open communication. A partner who is excited to travel the world, try new experiences, and grow together both personally and spiritually.

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u/Any_Try_1585 — 1 month ago

Zero motivation and goals

I have zero motivation and do not know what to do with my life anymore. Can someone please advise me on what to do, thank you.

I am not depressed and I can have multiple goals but don’t know how to achieve them. I need help and advise on how you manage to achieve your goals.

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u/Any_Try_1585 — 2 months ago