I don’t think my husband values our marriage as much as he’d like to think. I never get time to myself and he sits outside by himself every night and smokes his cigarettes and plays on his phone or lately the last 2 months he had to do stuff for work (can confirm). He’s always done this. I’m left inside with the kids and he gets to sit outside. I’ve been bringing this up to him but he doesn’t seem to care because he keeps doing it. At the end of the day I always want to spend time with him on the weekends so I guess it’s partly my fault I don’t get alone time but I’ve been telling him I need it and it never happens. We’ve been together nearly 9 years and we have 2 kids. I have my kids 25/8 I hardly ask him to watch them without me. The only time he does is if I go grocery shopping and that’s because he hates going grocery shopping and fusses the entire time. He’s even told me to take my 1 year old and he’ll watch our 4 year old (to get groceries). I refuse. It makes me feel like he doesn’t want to be around us. He says he’s stressed but so am I. I’ve gotten such bad headaches from stress that I thought I might have a stroke. Sometimes it seems like he’s only married to me for free childcare and someone to keep up with the house. I don’t know what I’m going to do because I love him and don’t want a divorce but this is killing me.
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Hi everyone, I’m having a hard time coming to terms with not having a third child. I want a third so bad but me and my husband have been talking about it and he said that the more he thinks about it, that two might be enough. I do agree my two boys are enough but I can’t help but feel extremely sad at the fact that I might not have another baby. I do get really stressed out most days because my oldest son is very difficult at times. It’s not his fault but I feel like that might be one reason why my husband has second guessed. I don’t want to be selfish by wanting another baby. I just feel so awful right now.
Hey moms!! On your birthday, do you like doing the choosing (where to eat, presents, etc) or do y’all like being surprised and having your spouse and or kids choose? I personally don’t like choosing lol I’m tired of choosing things every day if that makes any sense 😂
The fact that Kristen was 13 filming this movie and the Eric lively was 22 bothers me. Why was he allowed to kiss her since she was very much a minor at the time… also why would he say yes to that scene?!? Gives me the ick