u/Automatic-Term-3997

After ~15 years of blissful peace, the egg donor dropped me an email…

I thought when I sent my NC email all those years ago that I listed two conditions for reconnection: a six-month AA coin (since her alcoholism was the primary cause of her abuse) and to be a better grandmother to her grandchildren (since with my kids she was always distant, at best), but I was wrong. I only listed the be a better grandparent. To date, none of the now adult grandchildren have heard from her.

Typical narc response, exactly what I expected from a first contact in more than a dozen years. Hopefully the next one is in 15 more years.

I have to say, this really doesn’t make me feel anything but pity and sadness for the mother I should have had. I think maybe, just maybe, more of me has healed than I thought.

Trying to find the correct string height over P90s. The Google machine says 1/8” (3.2mm) but that seems close. Anyone have any input? Thanks?

Had her for 3 days now, fit and finish are excellent and this is at *least *the equal of my Gibson’61 SG, but with SS frets. Highly recommend.