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I am visiting Jodhpur city and the state of Rajasthan for the very first time. What are the food items I should try and from which places so they won't be too far away or on the way to major tourist places since I will be in Jodhpur for only 1.5 day?

Few places that I have note down are:

Surya namkeen near jodhpur railway station

Mishrimal lassi and shahi samosa near clock tower

Chaturbhuj mithai near navchokiya

I also want to try the most famous chaat which I have only seen on reels and they look mouthwatering but not sure where i can find them.

I recently found videos and photos of my bf's ex after 2 years of dating and I have been feeling uneasy ever since. A month ago, I received intimate pictures of the same ex from an anonymous account and that was when I found out that my bf and his ex's pictures were leaked. He also lied about not having her over at his home. Is this a pattern or am i overthinking? Please help me out.

As an acne prone girly, I don't think so my face can bear the load of moisturiser, sun cream and then makeup on a daily basis.

So can a tinted sun cream give me an even skin tone with the help of some concealer?

Also if I use a primer, should I use it before or after applying tinted sun cream?

And any recommendations that would suit my skin type?

I have one and only friend true friend left in my social circle (it's more of a point now though).

We have been friends for 4 years and lately, when I started socialising with her again(I gave up my mobile phone for a while), I noticed how she tends to bring the fact that she is a brahmin in many conversation. To be fair, she is having a bit of a boy problem and when they(my friend and her ex now) were in a tough spot, she repeatedly kept saying how brahmin's curse would ruin his life and she said that so many times that it started to get on my nerves. Later, when I told her about my future plans, she said her blessings is with me and that's a very big thing in itself because guess what? She is a brahmin! She is now talking to a new guy who is a brahmin and she keeps mentioning that thing all the time. And mind you, this all has happened within a span of 1 week.

So should I tell her or just bear with it? I genuinely don't like her casteist attitude. We are literate and I find it infuriating that a well educated girl like her is making such a thing a part of her identity.

I bought a real pretty dress but I got no one who I can go out with and play dress up for a while. It makes me sad that for the past one week i am making plans but every plan turned out to be dead end. But I really wanna enjoy my moment in that dress and click some good pictures. I needed this because I have become a homebody for past 2 years which means I have also lost a bit of my confidence. So are there any such suggestions girlies that I can follow?

I am attending a concert for the very first time in my life and that too alone. WHAT SAFETY TIPS I SHOULD KEEP IN MY MIND???

PLEASEEEE HELP ME. I am nervously excited.

I wanna attend the concert. Is there anyone willing to sell it?

Are there any people here from talegaon? Especially GIRLS!!!!!!!

I am dating my boyfriend(21m) for past 2 years. He had an ex prior to me and somehow, their intimate pictures got leaked and I am guessing some anonymous person has it. That anonymous person tried to blackmail them when they broke up, but his ex blamed it on my bf and later moved on. I am not aware how things actually went at that time but they are no longer in contact and things were okay between us. Not okay per se, but my bf and I are trying to make it work. We have our own issues to deal with. The issues we faced were mainly about how he doesn't know how to make me feel seen or heard or how i have to request him to put some bare minimum efforts.

Today, an account with her profile pic texted us on our couple's page and I replied to that dm because the profile pic was of his ex. Upon conversing, the person sent me nudes of his ex, the ones which they clicked together except they cropped out my bf. I was furious at that time and disgusted by my bf, but later when i thought about it, we don't really know how the photo got leaked. It might have been from his ex's phone as well. But this all thing left me feeling overwhelmed.

He also lied that they never did it in his house, but clearly these pictures were from her house. I don't mind the past, but the fact he lied makes me feel restless. There might be 1000 different things he might have lied about, which I might not know. He has lied earlier as well and was caught and this is the second time.

And I am an insecure girl. His ex was really pretty and upon seeing nudes and seeing their intimate pictures knowing that he was also there is making me feel more insecure and giving me the urge to pull away from this relationship.

I got a dm from an anonymous account who was using the picture of a girl I have seen in my college. When I replied, the account send me some nudes of her on view once. I immediately registered a complaint on cybercrime portal and the account was taken down. But that means whoever was operating account still has her nudes.

Same as the the title!

I did find a timetable on the web, but I don't know if it's still operating and is reliable.

Sorry for this long rant.

I(22f) am dating my boyfriend(22m) since past 1 year and 10 months. My parents are a bit strict so I don't get to meet him that much or we don't get to hang out like normal lovers. But things have been more complicated than that for us.

Recently, my great aunt passed away and my parents had to leave suddenly. So I asked him to come over and I was hoping I would get some emotional support from him. I am having a tough time since past 2 weeks and on top of this all happened, so I was already kinda overwhelmed. And during these two days, he was literally sleeping 12-14 hours a day. I know he works hard, but when I specified I need emotional support and some princess treatment, he said he does not know how to console me and that is his issue for everything. He barely helped me with chores, he came to my house for the first time and I can't just ask him to do it. We aren't married yet for me to do that. Apart from this, he was lost in watching his anime. All this left me feeling unseen and when he went home, I cried a lot and conveyed him that I need a break. But we have an intense discussion after that where he confessed he doesn't know how to do anything in a relationship and he does not know whether will he be able to change. My soul was shattered. And after than night

I feel like i am stuck in an emotional hellhole, I really love him a lot. But I have to fight for a lot of things. Two weeks ago we were fighting how everytime I bring up my emotional problem, he diverts the topic thinking that it will distract me without even acknowledging. Before that, we had fights about him taking on a date. He has taken me on a date only once. On our first valentine, I had to request him multiple times to come on a date with him and then too he showed up late, smelling like cigarettes. His friend was going through a tough time, but what about me? For my first birthday with me, he send me 50 rupees to buy a chocolate. The amount does not matter but it made me feel weird. On my second birthday, he did buy me gifts and wished me as if I am just a friend to him, and nothing more than that and that made me cry a lot. There are a lot of things and I just can't explain this to anyone or him.

I can't break up with him so what else can i do?

Sorry for this long rant.

I(22f) am dating my boyfriend(22m) since past 1 year and 10 months. My parents are a bit strict so I don't get to meet him that much or we don't get to hang out like normal lovers. But things have been more complicated than that for us.

Recently, my great aunt passed away and my parents had to leave suddenly. So I asked him to come over and I was hoping I would get some emotional support from him. I am having a tough time since past 2 weeks and on top of this all happened, so I was already kinda overwhelmed. And during these two days, he was literally sleeping 12-14 hours a day. I know he works hard, but when I specified I need emotional support and some princess treatment, he said he does not know how to console me and that is his issue for everything. He barely helped me with chores, he came to my house for the first time and I can't just ask him to do it. We aren't married yet for me to do that. Apart from this, he was lost in watching his anime. All this left me feeling unseen and when he went home, I cried a lot and conveyed him that I need a break. But we have an intense discussion after that where he confessed he doesn't know how to do anything in a relationship and he does not know whether will he be able to change. My soul was shattered. And after than night

I feel like i am stuck in an emotional hellhole, I really love him a lot. But I have to fight for a lot of things. Two weeks ago we were fighting how everytime I bring up my emotional problem, he diverts the topic thinking that it will distract me without even acknowledging. Before that, we had fights about him taking on a date. He has taken me on a date only once. On our first valentine, I had to request him multiple times to come on a date with him and then too he showed up late, smelling like cigarettes. His friend was going through a tough time, but what about me? For my first birthday with me, he send me 50 rupees to buy a chocolate. The amount does not matter but it made me feel weird. On my second birthday, he did buy me gifts and wished me as if I am just a friend to him, and nothing more than that and that made me cry a lot. There are a lot of things and I just can't explain this to anyone or him.

I can't break up with him so what else can i do?

I have been preparing for government exams from home ever since I graduated, but lately I feel like I need to get back into a work environment.

Staying at home for so long, and being an introvert on top of that, has slowly affected my confidence. Not being able to clear the exams has also been pretty demotivating.

A little about me: I have a BA in Geography. I know there may not be a huge number of jobs directly related to the field, but I’m good at managing things, quite comfortable with computers, creative when needed, and a quick learner.

As a fresher, what kind of job roles should I realistically explore? I’m open to both geography related work and other entry level roles where my skills could be useful.

I’m curious about unconventional weight loss hacks that actually helped you.

I used to be around 51 kg. Then life got happier, I got comfortable, and my weight went up to 60 kg. I’m currently around 56 kg, so some of it has come off, but I still don’t feel like myself.

The hardest part honestly isn’t even the number. It’s that I’ve lost confidence, and a lot of my old clothes don’t fit the way they used to. If buying a whole new wardrobe were easy, I’d do that but it takes time, money, and effort. I really loved the clothes I already had, and I miss feeling good in them.

I’m not really looking for the usual eat less, move more advice. I’d love to hear the small weird things that genuinely helped you.