u/Average-Bomber

What are the potential areas where students in IT related fields can be posted for three whooping months in Kisumu?

Stipend or no stipend, as long as I get to learn something new for my career growth, I can be able to bear it.

But isikue ati I have to pay to come and work for free. Ukiskia hivo unajua tu the company is also trying to find its way out of the trenches kama tu wewe.

And within those three months utapata kazi yako ni Kuamka tu asubuhi, kungara na kutoka nje... doing nothing!

Kama ni story ya kulipana it has to be them giving me something not the other way around. It ain't easy surviving when you're in your 20s.

Back in my days, they said Kisumu had the best hoes. All services from finest hoes and for a fine price.

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Ever since I moved from Nairobi to the west side, all I see is washed up ugly hoes on the side of the road talking about "kuona ni bure". Still yet to find out where the premiums are.

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Kitu inanishangaza ni in a city with the alias "City of hoes" it's actually very difficult to locate them. Mnaongea vizuri on phone but when it comes down to the serious meetups unaskia some distasteful stuff like "Nataka ulipie vc kwanza ndio nijue kama uko serious". No, Fuck that!

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Hapa Kisumu mmejificha wapi? Dm!

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21M here. Sadly, when I'm sober I don't feel the drive or the motivation speaking to me. I have things that I have to do and need to do but I stay stuck on my phone doing nothingless things over the weekend.

I have a Corporate job but it doesn't allow me to focus on building myself, so weekends are then only time I have to make up for it.

Even after waking up and saying "Wikendi isiishe kama hujafanya something that contributes to your better future" I still find myself drifting away from Discipline into Procrastination and overthinking.

But nikishika Jaba "khat" , things come back to me. I stop checking my phone kuangalia if someone has texted. I stop procrastinating and being pulled into meaningless scrolling. I get back on my feet and it gives me the dopamine to keep going.

So my issue is, people say khat makes you lazy. But for some reason it pushes me to add something to my portfolio instead of wasting away the weekend.

My question is, Is this good or is it bad?

What does it mean when a woman tells you to watch more porn and masturbate more? I just had sex with a married woman and a mother of one. She's happy with her marriage but she also wants us to keep doing whatever we're doing.

Purely coitus no love, no obligation, no responsibilities, no entitlements.

Though I do feel like I'm being moulded into a puppet. Wdym "watch porn, masturbate and hold it in" Hii ndio kusema nini wadau?

I mean, isn't porn supposed to be bad? In my defense, watching porn robs a man of his values and his aura. Sasa huyu anajaribu kusema nini talm' bout some "It increases the dick length"

Niko na swali...at 20+ years kusimp ni kitu huwa unafanya willingly? Nimeenda kujaribu kusimpia a hun anaeza simamisha dunia yake akuje anipee hii kitu lakini ikabidi nijiite ka AGM kwanza. For the men doing it... How do you do it without feeling small?

As for me I know I can't text a woman lying to her that I love her and deep downI know I couldn't give two fucks about how she slept or how bad her day was.