Er her andre der har udfordringer pga sygdom/senfølger?

Først og fremmest, jeg er en ældre mand.
Jeg er ret nervøs ved at stille mig op i et forum der tilsyneladende primært består af unge sunde og raske mennesker med et sundt sexliv, ikke mindst fordi mine problemer i stor grad påvirker min selvopfattelse.
Jeg har flere gange haft kræft i området omkring underlivet, og de mange behandlinger og operationer jeg har været igennem har gjort et almindeligt sexliv samt solosex nærmest ikke-eksisterende.
Jeg kan ikke længere få rejsning, heller ikke vha diverse piller eller indsprøjtninger.
Sexlegetøj kan jeg heller ikke få det store udbytte af, det det ikke er lavet til den sørgelige størrelse diller jeg har at arbejde med nu. Ikke engang en penispumpe kan hjælpe synderligt - jeg har prøvet, men måske er jeg kommet for sent i gang til der er nogen særlig blodgennemstrømning.
Det skal siges jeg har en partner, men vedkommende kan slet ikke overskue situationen, og nægter at være med til at forsøge.
Jeg er så frustreret at savnet og tankerne om bare at kunne tilfredsstille mig selv fylder meget i mine tanker.

Håber nogen har evt erfaringer eller andet. Tak

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u/Bassitdeep — 2 days ago

Is intimate questions okay in here

Couple around 60, and we have some issues related to cancer and lon-term effects.
I just wanted to make sure if that would be okay to bring up in here, or there might be a better suited place?

Thanks

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u/Bassitdeep — 5 days ago

I miss support from my partner after cancer related ED

I had cancer first in the prostate, and had surgery, that didn’t do anything good for my manhood.
Two years later I had cancer again and was treated with radiation and hormones.

Shortly after my wife told me that she would no longer be intimate with me, and I just accepted it.
Here a few years later I really miss intimacy and sex, I can’t get an erection but sex and intimacy can be other things than intercource.

I would just like to hear your thoughts, and perhaps it’s normal for a woman not to want intimate relations with her husbond with a flaccid penis

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u/Bassitdeep — 5 days ago

Did you use smokeless Tobacco?

What kinds of smokeless Tobacco domyou have in your country, and did you ever try it?
Once I heard about dip and chew from the States, what is it, and do you have other stuff?

In scandinavia snus and vape is more popular than original Tobacco smoking

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u/Bassitdeep — 15 days ago

WHO don’t like getting oral?

some don’t like going down on a guy and some women won’t let a guy (or girl) go down on them. why is that, I find it amazing

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u/Bassitdeep — 28 days ago
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It’s great to be alive

Everyone has problems but never mind that, it’s better to be alive than being dead.
Sure, I can’t do certain things anymore, but I have found other things that matter to me.

Look for the good things, I bet things will feel better after a while

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u/Bassitdeep — 1 month ago

First try with a penis pump wasn’t that fun

I beat cancer twice, but ED was a thing I got instead, I guess because of surgery to many nerves were damaged in the proces.
After a couple of years dealing with no sexual life I bought a penis pump, to see if I could put a bit of life back into the little bastard.
It takes A LOT of lube and I tried a couple of times. No big result. The I thought I would give it a final try….and it actually sucked my balls into the pump. Not a funny experience.

How did your first try go?

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u/Bassitdeep — 1 month ago