Admin Thoughts

Hello Friends…

I have received several private messages with requests to get involved with concerns over rule changes going on in the /cavaliers subreddit. I need to address these here to be clear for all.

First off-I speak for myself only. Let me be clear that in no way am I trying to start a conflict with the leadership of the other group.

I respect their right to exist as I believe they respect ours. I am in that group as well and have made my thoughts known on a different rule change from a couple of weeks ago. They denied my request for reconsideration pretty quickly and that is their right.

Allow me to say that our two communities seem to have differing philosophies. They, by my observation, tend to be more strict in what they do/do not allow and again that is their right. They are also quick to ban or suspend where I believe in looking more into what happened and why (not that it works every time).

I can tell you that our community will always lean towards being more open and willing to consider how we can keep being so.

Our Co-Admins Humble and TheyAllKnowMe will vouch when I say that we discuss our rules often between us and look at tweaks to make sure they are not penalties necessarily but more like housekeeping procedures. Keeping the floors and furniture clean and tidy leads to better living.

They will also tell you how very seriously I take owning this community and what all your opinions mean to me.

We have often texted late into the night discussing various issues.

Thank you for those who wrote to me but I cannot have any role in changing another community’s rules.

Thank you,
Pete
Community Owner

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u/BeffasRS — 26 days ago

One Year Ago…

So, one year ago, on my 56th birthday, Suzicavmom and I were still pretty down from losing our Callie two months before. The house was too quiet-it was only us.

Then I got the best birthday present EVER when a truck pulled up on the driveway, Stella jumped out and immediately told us she was here to stay.

We went in the house with the breeder to finalize the deal.

Stella jumped into our arms and pretty much said we’re stuck with her no matter what. We’ve had some challenges with her but they’re working themselves out over time.

The biggest thing is noticing how quickly and hard she bonded to us. It was literally from the moment she jumped out of the truck.

We love her to pieces!!

Happy Gotcha Day, Stella!!

u/BeffasRS — 1 month ago
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Stella’s Mother’s Day Pics

Stella’s Mother’s Day pictures in a Bills outfit and a cute sweater.

u/BeffasRS — 1 month ago

Hi all…

Question please.

I took over a sizable Community about 6 months ago.

Cleaned it up-growing like a weed.

Why can’t I get any of the Community Achievements?

Thx

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u/BeffasRS — 1 month ago

So I think it’s a good idea to check in from time to time and let members know how we’re doing.

We’re pulling a lot of daily visits, 17,000+ members and lots of comments.

A funny story-I was at our local Farmer’s Market today. I saw a woman with a handsome, young Black n Tan boy so I introduced myself and we chatted a bit. Ended up giving each other our contact info and I sent her a link to our community. I hope she will join.

Please comment with any thoughts or ideas you have to continue growing our community.

Thank you
Pete Boulay
Community Owner

u/BeffasRS — 1 month ago

Hi all…

Just curious where everyone is located?

If you don’t want to say-please don’t feel pressured to say.

I’m in Upstate NY.

Where are you? Ever think of a Cavalier Tea-Pawty?

Not sure we could go because Stella is extremely protective, but I’d love to hear if others do.

Thx

Pete

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u/BeffasRS — 2 months ago