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Partner bit my labia and it got inflamed

Hii, apologies for anybody who seen me post this a couple of times.

I was having intercourse earlier today it lasted quite long 30-45 minutes (2 rounds) I’m sore down there from that. Anyways my partner gives me oral and he bit one of my labia and it got inflamed compared to the other one. It also started irritating me. I’m wondering if I should get this checked out? ASAP or am I overreacting.

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u/Big_Answer_3329 — 16 hours ago

My hooha hurts after intercourse..

I had intercourse with my bf earlier today we went two rounds first round about 30-40 minutes second round 25 minutes. This is my second time having intercourse. We did it unprotected for a split second and then back to protection. I shortly took the pill later on. Anyways my entrance feels sore it’s been a couple hours since sex are there any remedies for this? Additionally, bf was giving me oral and bit one of my flaps and it got inflamed I think it has stop swelling? Should I get this checked out?

Anyways should I go see a gynecologist????

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u/Big_Answer_3329 — 16 hours ago

How might working 3 jobs this summer affect my relationship? 18f& 18m

Hey 1 18f have around 3 jobs now, I work at Chick-Fila, (12 an hour) a hospital (18 an hour) and a remote internship(15 an hour)

Here's my schedule, Chick-fil-A is night shifts/ evening shifts, hospital morning shifts starting 9am ending 3pm. The issue is I feel like this may affect my relationship with my boyfriend (18m) since I will be working 9am-11pm which means no texting or calling during these hours.

On top of this I have a non-profit to cater too, but the time is flexible. My idea is we meet up twice a week to make up for the lost time. We have been dating for almost 3 months. I'm worried that this may cause a strain on our relationship

TL;DR could working three jobs impact my relationship negatively?

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u/Big_Answer_3329 — 2 days ago
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Mom is restricting my time because I refuse to pray with her.

I 18f has been restricted by my mother this summer. By “restricting,” I mean it’s currently summertime, I just graduated high school & earned my associates; I am starting at a 4-year later this fall. I have been stuck in the house for days, and I’m miserable. I ask her if I can go to the library or any other place, and she says no everytime. When I ask why, she never provides a reason, but today she told me to “search myself for what I’m doing that is displeasing her.” Anyways, my house has always been a strict prayer zone since I was a child. You have to pray every night and every morning. If you don’t, she will call you several times until you come or ask for your phone so she can take it and then it’s silent treatment for a while.

Around 6–7 months ago, I began feeling forced into being a Christian, and after a lot of thinking, I started pondering whether I am truly a Christian if it wasn’t for the constant expectations. We are Protestants, and she claims to have visions where she can see the future or what’s ahead. Many times, her visions have been wrong, and she blames it on the devil. Anyways, I started to doubt her a lot, so as a result, I slowly stopped praying. Anytime prayer comes up, I say I’m studying or doing homework, which is true. Eventually, about a month ago, I just said I didn’t want to pray anymore. Now I can’t go out anywhere.

I need some advice should I just forcefully pray with her? Even though I physically feel my blood boiling. I tried having a talk with her. Any other ideas will be helpful. I have the next 3-years under her roof unless I save money and rent an apartment with my bf or a friend.

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u/Big_Answer_3329 — 6 days ago

Partner is worried my dispensary edibles could be laced, advice?

Alright, so recently I bought edibles and they’re arriving tomorrow night. I’m not an avid user, this is basically my first time trying them in years. I tried them once like 3–4 years ago and that’s pretty much it.

The issue is that my boyfriend has been acting really weird about the whole thing. I jokingly call them “my drugs” sometimes because, I mean, technically they are drugs, and he gets super bothered by it and tells me to stop calling them that.

He’s also started worrying that they could somehow be laced with fentanyl even though they’re from a reputable/regulated distributor. He’s worried about drug testing too and keeps bringing up “what if” scenarios.

I honestly can’t tell if I’m being too dismissive about his concerns or if he’s overreacting, because to me it feels like he’s treating this way more seriously than I am. I’m not trying to become a heavy user or anything, I was just curious and wanted to try them occasionally.

At this point I genuinely can’t tell if this is about safety, anxiety, the wording I’m using, or just different views on weed in general.

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u/Big_Answer_3329 — 9 days ago
▲ 1 r/ABA

Hello, I'm really looking for an RBT job that will be willing to pay for my training and have a BCBA supervision avalible to me (same like the easiest way) I'm graduating with my associates in biology (I took a few psych courses for what it's worth) & earning my highscool diploma soon... This summer I'm trying to build/ apply to experiences that can make the job hunt a bit smoother. Currently I have 2 internships one as a grant writer for a non-profit (remote, and I work at my own pace) and a clinical researcher for a health care company.

I turn 18 later this year and I will be edible to apply to RBT jobs in my area. I have worked with kids before for 2-3 months as a volunteer teaching assistant so that's a good experience I think? Besides working for other people I do have a non-profit dedicated to helping special education students i don't know if that helps, since it's more of a leadership thing. I'm looking at volunteering at a non-profit that works with kids with down syndrome as a tutor for them.

However, I'm not sure l'm looking at the right volunteer opportunities nor paid opportunities.
If anybody has a name in mind for a job or volunteer activity that I can try to do it will be so helpful.

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u/Big_Answer_3329 — 18 days ago