u/Blueberrymuffin999

Hi hoping someone has an answer for me. i live in Santa Monica. My question is about what happens if 2 of the 3 board members have a conflict of interest regarding a voting issue. i read somewhere that if all 3 attend the meeting to create a voting quorum that the 2 can recuse themselves and the one remaining remember can make the decision? is this true? this is regarding a reimbursement for an HOA responsible mold remediation where they refused teh reimbursement however there is zero question whether this is legal. it isnt. we have endless evidence of why they are responsible to reimburse for the PRV testing. i am writing a demand letter and i am pointing out how two of the 3 board members cant even vote given one has displayed clear bias and breach of fiduciary duty (he based his initial refusal on his own past personal grievance and he articulated this clearly in multiple emails (saying he didnt get a PRV test and went on and on about how its unfair even thou he never asked for one) and the other member is the owner of the unit whose balcony leaked into our unit and it is still possible the HOA could go after him for responsibility so he has a vested interst in keeping costs low. what will happen if i point out both cant vote? can the one remaining memebr make the decison? do i need to read through the CC&Rs (waiting to ge them form property manager should have them today) to see what happens when there are not enough voting parties?

what scene makes you yearn to be a teen again. for me it’s episode 2 when Seth, Ryan and Marisa are riding down the pier and caught by the river is playing. its like almost painful how bad I want to be young again! (49 yrs old)

I already have a serious chronic illness . I simply can not get Lyme or any disease that ticks carry. I don’t know what to do. I have 2 dogs and I can’t spend my life constantly worrying about this. I love the outdoors. I dont want to be living in a place that I am always afraid. we live in Los Angeles now and I never ever worry cause I don’t go hiking. I mean i only use a flea and heartworm for my dogs . that’s how unconcerned I am . I don’t even use tick stuff, we only walk in our neighborhood and there are no ticks. I can’t f’in live in PA the lyme capital of the USA. I don’t know what to to do. he doesn’t get it. I simply can’t risk another disease and I feel like I will be terrified all the time.

I moved here six years ago. I’m 49 , I am married no kids. Just 2 perfect fur babies. I have made extensive effort to try to develop friendships with women since moving here and every single woman I’ve tried to develop a friendship with essentially just disappears. They make zero effort to continue the friendship and I just don’t get it. I’m certainly not a perfect person but I am a therapist and I do understand how to be a good friend. I’m an active listener, i offer support And space to share. I am authentic so I do share what’s going on in my life so sometimes things can be heavier, but I certainly make an effort to share the good stuff and make things light as well. I definitely manage what I do share and I’m very aware of keeping it light at least more than half of the time. I make a lot of effort when I have a new friend. I will reach out ask for plans. I will respond to any effort made by the other person. I’m very polite. I am sure to get back to people when they do reach out. People are so incredibly rude. I mean they don’t even return text messages, they cancelled plans and then they disappear. I recently became friendly with a woman in my neighbourhood and she reached out and asked me for plans the night of, and unfortunately, I wasn’t available so I responded to her, thanked her for the invitation and said I wasn’t free, but I was free during the following week and I’d love to do something one evening that was five days ago and she never responded. It’s honestly so rude and disheartning in my opinion. What the hell is wrong with people?

i am looking for comfortable side sleeping earphones that are NOT Bluetooth and that I can play white noise on because sadly i have mild tinnitus. please help. I haven’t slept properly in months as I have an sweet elderly dog that snores so loud and she won’t sleep in the other room as she has anxiety :(

so I am assuming recurrent vs chronic is different? I got one uti in 2019 and it’s never gotten better. it’s enterococcus F . I’ve had many many microgen dx tests sometimes it’s positive and sometimes negative. I go through periods with zero symptoms then I flare and I’m miserable for a period of time. I assume it’s because the bacteria escape from the biofilm. the dip stick is always negative. I take desert harvest aloe (I know this gives the bacteria even more places to hid behind but I can’t live without it and also prelief with all acidic food (also know this makes urine better for bacteria growth) but if I didn’t I wouldn’t be able to eat anything acidic ever . I take Myhrr. if I use a biofilm buster then I feel horrible. I’ve been taking lactoferrin and it was going well for a while I had zero symptoms and then my guess is it busted up the biofilm and now I’m dying in pain. I have never done antibiotics cause I am terrified they will make my already disastrous gut worse. I can’t even fathom taking them for months and months. to me that is insanity! Love to hear thoughts and experiences. I am considering phage therapy. Hiprex confuses me because acidic urine would definitely cause me more pain. I don’t get how it helps others. I’m can’t even tolerate vit c unless it’s buffered. Pls shshare your thoughts and experiences!!! Is Georgia the only place for Phage therapy?

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I’m confused. it makes your urine acidic but the more acidic my urine is the more horrible my symptoms are. I can’t eat anything acidic without prelief. I can’t even do vit C unless it’s buffered. so those of you who take it who deal with worsening symptoms with acidity how do you do it?

hey all

i have straight limp hair! I need someone who knows how to create body. but I’m not down with paying more than 125. I don’t need a blow dry! thanks 🙏

this is insane and feels so freaking CRIMINAL . i sold my home in vancouver while i was considered a resident alien of the usa but also filed taxes in canada that year. i applied for my green card after the sale but in the same year. now i find out i have to pay tax on the so called PHANTOM gain (freaking criminal) i got from the CAD being stronger in 2013 when i borrowed the mortgage, then when i paid it off. its like approx $30,000 difference . this is FU^KED UP. how is this allowed. how is this legal. how is this allowed to be a rule. it’s freaking despicabl. i didnt have USD or pay in USD in 2013. i was a Canadian resident with a Canadian mortgage, i earned CAD and paid in CAD and paid off the mortgage in CAD and at the time of the disposition of the mortgage i had no USD income as i had no work permit. all my monies were in CAD. the loan was in Canada. it has NOTHING to do with the USA. this is utterly VILE that this is allowed.i dont even understand how this is possible, the logic behind it. it makes no sense. pls explain this to me. i dont get it. how can the IRS charge me tax on a phantom gain that never exists for me. I didn’t gain 30,000 in income because I paid off a mortgage with a weaker CAD

hi All my baby has been a tripod since he was around 1. we have had him 4.5 yrs and he is somewhere between 6 and 7. the last few months he began sitting on his walks so much more often. we have shortened his walks but it’s not helping. he takes several joint supplements and he gets body work once a week. he has no trouble getting up from lying down or using the stairs. sometimes he gets super excited and runs around the apt and seems just fine. but he used to walk 1.5 mile in the AM and a bit more in the afternoon. now we walk him about a mile or less AM an Pm and he is still constantly sitting. we are thinking of starting meds. I just feel so confused . is he is pain, is it behavioural , is he just tired. we have yet to do xrays and plan to this week. im not even sure what im asking for on here, but I just feel so upset. 😭 I don’t want him to be suffering and he used to absolutely love his walks. I just don’t know what’s going on.