Going on a 4 day trip with my partner next week. I am stressing and worried I will spiral badly. I’m worried what if the thoughts take over and then I still have to spend the other days with him. I was excited for the trip but now I’m stressed. This is the most days in a row I’ve spent with him.
I made a post in another sub about icks and someone commented saying they thought their exes haircut was an ick and then added “before I knew I was a lesbian” which now has me spiraling a bit. My bf got a haircut a few months ago and it was too short he looked bald, I did not like it. That has me spiraling after reading that comment.
My bf works full time and pays for every single date while I occasionally pay for drinks or dessert. I am a student and working part time (recently hours have been cut so making very little money) I feel so bad that he always pays and while he doesn’t complain I do wish I could contribute more. I do sometimes get him free stuff from my work and have baked him treats a few times so there’s that. I’m curious what do guys think about this and how would you feel if you and your partner were in this situation? How would you want her to contribute to make it feel equal if you’re paying for most of it?
I’m wondering if anyone else feels this way… haven’t seen him in 2 weeks and idk why I’m nervous to see him in person and worried if I will be second guessing…. I feel like a lot of times I see him im in my head questioning.
Not quite Vancouver but I assume many Vancouverans have taken a trip to Squamish before. Any good restaurants or recommendations in Squamish?
How do Americans and anyone outside of Canada tell someone is Canadian? People can tell I’m Canadian when I travel or even from Reddit posts. How do people even tell?
**plus hot dogs (not pictured as they will be in a cooler)
Also going to add fresh fruit
Yall the question was whether I’d survive, not if the items are healthy or not. No I don’t eat like this normally, yes I am an adult, no I’ve never gone camping before.
My 2 year old kitty has this weird obsession of stealing my hair ties (she will literally hunt around my room for them) and then she brings them downstairs to her water bowl and dumps them in there. Today there were 4 drowned elastics. To preface she has plenty of toys but for some reason al the hair elastics must be drowned. She has also dropped them into open cups of water. Why does she do this??!!
I go to the gym usually once a week for weightlifting (used to go 3-4x a week but work has cut hours by a lot so I can only afford to pay for drop ins occasionally) anyways.. when I’m not at the gym or hiking it would be nice to have some go to home workouts. My goal is to be healthy and strong and some solid abs would be nice too. Reccomend me some workouts you enjoy or do/ yt videos!
Just rewatched the entire thing. Such an amazing show but honestly was so confused by the ending. Was there supposed to be a season 5 or did they just not know how to end it? Also feel pretty bummed that’s there isn’t another season because I want to know wtf happened to everybody. The ending wasn’t even explained and I had to search on Reddit because it didn’t make sense to me. They don’t show why anything in the end happened.
His love language is physical touch and mine is words of affirmation. How do I get him to understand and reciprocate my love language better? It’s not that he doesn’t but I think he has a harder time expressing his love verbally to me. Like he compliments me and stuff but how do I get him to express deeper verbal love to me?
I feel like one big topic of rocd lately is that my bf and I have different love languages. His is physical touch and mine is words of affirmation. And tbh the words of affirmation doesn’t come easily to him so in my head I’m like oh well we should just breakup because of these differences
I am not even sure if this is rocd. I’ve only been with my bf for 3 months and I don’t think I’ve even felt 100% sure. I feel like I wake up and I’m not even sure about the relationship and it gets worse when I’m mad at him or convince myself that I can find better. He’s supposed to meet my parents this weekend and we’re going on a weekend getaway next weekend but I’m not even sure about it. I was the one who suggested he meet my parents but idk. Really the only reason is that I don’t feel sure and I also am getting hesitant about him meeting my parents because of that reason.
I saw the show and much to my surprise… I enjoyed it. I’m sure the books are great considering they made a whole show based on it but I’m wondering how the books compare to the show… considering giving the series a read!
I know this book was a bit popular on tiktok and just wondering what people think of it before I get it and what to expect. No spoilers pls!
I find myself spiraling whenever my bf is busy and not replying especially when he’s with friends or sleeping or on vacation. He’s currently on a weekend trip with his friends and while he is updating me here and there, I’m trying to not feel so alone. I feel like the rocd tells me worse things when we’re not in contact for some time especially because lately I’ve been staying up super super late and he sleeps kinda early which gives me hours longer to spiral alone while he sleeps.
Idk why but I was doing okay last night and then I wake up this morning like “should I breakup?” it feels calm I think… it’s just that there is literally no reason to other than I feel emotionally numb in the mornings and don’t feel anything at all for him.
I’ve noticed the last few weeks my armpits smell very bad. It smells like a very strong almost smoke/weed smell mixed with curry… it’s that strong. To preface I don’t eat spicy foods often and don’t smoke either. I shower daily sometimes twice a day and wear deodorant most of the time (with the exception of a house rot day) I don’t have any medical conditions so I’m not sure why I reek all of a sudden. My diet isn’t great tbh but it’s not any different than it was before. I do have a problem with sweating a lot in the summer but the thing is.. the smell is more than just regular BO smell.
I’m wondering what grown men think about matching couples jewelry, clothing, etc.. it seems very much like a high school thing but would guys wear something that matches with their gf and genuinely like it?