u/Candid_Guest_863

I worked as office admin in corporate for several years every time I was in and out of jobs due to burn out I hated it but worst part was Sunday blues to the point I thought about it coming all throughout the weekend. Now that I took time off again I feel so much better and I’m so scared of Sunday blues. I feel it should be a lot less if someone is self employed of some sort?! I don’t know anyone can relate? Anyone ever was able to feel better with a different kind of job? I want to start working again but I’m disgusted by office corporate jobs and things I’ve already tried

Sorry Sunday scaries I meant

I start first mine is lack of clients at certain times of the year. Overall marketing is tough at times. What’s your top struggles? Also what’s the best thing about it? I love setting my own schedule

If you had a choice to choose another occupation what would have been?

Myself physician

Basically grew up with absent dad and neglected by mom but really want help to learn mothering myself! Whenever I look at others mother daughter relationship and I see mine it feels like a hole in my heart. So if you have any book recommendations about mothering yourself let me know

Just so confused and offended. I went to vv and filled a bag with baby clothes not to resell but this just for my baby and the employee went through the whole bag! I mean what does she think I was doing? Weird. I have to admit I look a bit unkept lol chasing a toddler all day not sure if that was the reason. VV has been my least favourite store the past two years anyway for the ridiculous price and other reasons and now this… anyone else feel the same?

There’s a section in baby clothes you can fill bags

I’m specifically frustrated with poop diaper. He doesn’t let me change. Hits me kicks me pushes my hand away trying to scape. It’s hard. I try to distract even giving him my electronic watch nope he just fight the whole time. I have to put him on the floor and restrain him still poop flying all over the place. He’s 18 months old so not ready for potty training What am I doing wrong?

He basically woke up went out to see his buddy then got me flower and a card came home and nothing. He’s been talking about going out for a while but when it comes to it he just brings excuses:( he just sat in front of the tv all day, had a couple of naps and I took care of house and kids. Im sad am I too much? What did everyone else do for Mother’s Day because this is what he does every year?

I told him I want to go out instead of usual dinner so we can spend time together. He loves sitting in front of the tv and eating dinner and I thought it would be a nice change but

We don’t because my husband likes to sit in front of tv eat while watching the news and I eat with kids at the table. Does anyone else have the same going? I’m not sure what’s normal because every guy I’ve seen in my life including my own dad wants to sit in front of the tv and eat dinner.

For reference i have middle eastern background and moved to US in my early 20s and was fascinated by how my life changed in a positive way. I don’t associate with my background culture, I’m Christian and truly dislike my ethnic. When I moved to US I went to university and made white friends, and loved how things are so much more easygoing so my life is now 100% westernized, met my husband (white guy) we got married and have kids, I don’t know why he constantly complain that we’re different and I don’t see it! I don’t see it. I have no association with my background and he still doesn’t stop criticizing. He’s republican and lives a country lifestyle and I am too but his family constantly criticize him for getting involved with someone from different background. We have kids and this really hurts me. Why people can’t be nice and stop judging others without knowing them. It makes me feel isolated :( what social skills can I improve to make myself clear that I’m not my background culture?

I don’t like my background culture and has nothing to do with him. It’s not something we usually see but that’s how I feel.

Not saying I want to be white. I’m just saying people are more than their race. Their interests, hobby, life experience, career, how they treat others and themselves, there’s so much to life more than just race. And all I’m saying is a lot of things I like and interest me is non existent in my background culture! It’s not about a certain race or white or non while or whatever. They’re from different cultures and I don’t care about it i just like it and that’s enough!!!

From these comments seems like one has to just stick to their background culture even if they absolutely hate it and move to get away from it!!!! That’s why I moved. See how terrible it sounds. Like do you see freedom in this? I don’t. Some immigrants don’t see how radical they are. Crazy world we’re living in crazy.