▲ 16 r/INTP

At what age did you stop asking questions to others?

As an Intp, I am always curious about many things. I often ask questions to others. Lately I am realising that other people's answers were not genuine/true/ correct. I am planning to stop asking questions to others.

At what age did you realise this and stop asking questions to others?

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u/Capable-Side-105 — 1 day ago

35 dumbbell press panna mudiyuthu aana biceb curl 15kg set complete panna mudiyala. What is the secret for biceb guys?.

Biceb potta forearms, shoulder ellam activate aaguthu aana bicep activation romba kammi ya irukura maathiri feel aaguthu.

hammer curl kuda okay nalla feel aaguthu.

I inclined curls is work to an extent.

is anyone like me?.

bicep gang, what variation should I use or what mistake am I doing?

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u/Capable-Side-105 — 2 days ago

urban square tonight at 10:00

Me (27) and my friend are visiting the urban square for the first time. it will be fun to meet new people and have fun. Let me know if anyone is interested to join.

what we will be doing:

no particular plan, have some food/ snacks and have some fun conversations.

Nothing much. if you have a plan share it. let's have fun

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u/Capable-Side-105 — 12 days ago

Aftr 25, Arranged & Love Marriage r basically the same thing

Think about how dating works when you're over 25: you meet someone, spend 6 months to a year getting to know each other, evaluate compatibility, and decide whether to marry.

Now look at how modern arranged marriage works when done correctly: the family introduces you, but you get a few months to talk and text before agreeing to anything. Once engaged, you get another multi-month buffer before the wedding to build a connection and see if you actually click.

In both scenarios, you are spending roughly the same dedicated window of time evaluating long-term compatibility before locking it in.

Assuming both are done right—where neither party is forced into anything—they end up looking identical in practice.

Is there actually a meaningful difference left at this age, or is it just a difference in how you were introduced?

edit: accidentally found a reel supporting that finding a partner after 26 is hard : [here](https://www.instagram.com/p/Da5isbvFCEF)

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u/Capable-Side-105 — 20 days ago
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After 25, Arranged Marriage and Love Marriage are basically the same thing. Change my mind.

Think about how dating works when you're over 25: you meet someone, spend 6 months to a year getting to know each other, evaluate compatibility, and decide whether to marry.

Now look at how modern arranged marriage works when done correctly: the family introduces you, but you get a few months to talk and text before agreeing to anything. Once engaged, you get another multi-month buffer before the wedding to build a connection and see if you actually click.

In both scenarios, you are spending roughly the same dedicated window of time evaluating long-term compatibility before locking it in.

Assuming both are done right—where neither party is forced into anything—they end up looking identical in practice.

Is there actually a meaningful difference left at this age, or is it just a difference in how you were introduced?

edit: accidentally found a reel supporting that finding a partner after 26 is hard : here

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u/Capable-Side-105 — 20 days ago

Even though I reduced 2% of my body fat in 2 months. my waist fat remains same. any advice on this

I have been going to the gym for 2 years. I stopped going to the gym for 4 months. hence I put on 5 kg of weight. Now, I am going to the gym for the last two months. trying to do body recomposition.

muscle building looks promising. But waist fat remains the same. I couldn't find time to do cardio. I will go to the gym by cycle that's only cardio (4km + 4km).

any advice on this.

u/Capable-Side-105 — 28 days ago

As a introvert in late 20's, arrange marriage work aaguma?

(27M) ipo veetla arrange marriage alliance pakuranga. I am scared to accept a stranger as life partner. Inimel love pannavum veetla time kudukala. pannavum Theriyala enaku. Naa konjam introvert 4 years ah chennai la iruken. last 2 years thaniya room eduthu naane cook panni thaniya peaceful ah irunthu pazhagiten. sometimes it will be like hell to be alone. most of the time I'll be in peace. Just completed my sister marriage as that's a biggest responsibility. Now when I tried to find love. I couldn't 🙃. the last option is arranged marriage. How are you finding a compatible partner in arranged marriage. What are the processes you follow? sonnenga na helpful ah irukum.

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u/Capable-Side-105 — 2 months ago
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Can Intp with good values suddenly become bad.

Like intp fed up with pretending to be nice to blend in the society. To prevent others from assuming they are crazy. Intp pretends to be normal. But all of a sudden they become fed up with it and want to be manipulative, selfish and money oriented rather than values. Can that happen?. have you seen anything like this ?

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u/Capable-Side-105 — 2 months ago
▲ 117 r/Chennai

Living alone is affecting my mental health

HI I am near Sholinganallur, software professional with hybrid work mode and I live in a rented house alone. As I live alone lately lack of interaction with people is taking a toll on my mental health and also being alone in the same room all week is like living in a jail. I planned to go to the library or some other place to read my book or do my assignment as I am studying for a course. But I couldn't find a proper place to do it. Are there many people facing the same situation like me?

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u/Capable-Side-105 — 3 months ago
▲ 8 r/INTP

I recently found out that most of the time I have been talking like a robot all my life without emotions. Except when there are strong emotions or curiosity. I am talking like a robot. now I am consciously trying to add emotions when I talk. Have any of you experienced this?.

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u/Capable-Side-105 — 4 months ago