am i being taken advantage of? per diem vs q status

hi! essentially i picked up a sub central assignment originally from 9/11-9/30 at a high school in district 7. the first day, the ap told me that it was extendable since it was a vacancy, but after doing a mini interview, confidently told me he thinks i'm the best they're going to get. he told the principal he found someone for the year, the principal also had a chat with me welcoming me to the community, and i've been teaching chemistry for the school since that time.

i'm under the impression that since i started within the first 2 weeks of the school year, i should be eligible for q status (full benefits, salary pay, etc.) by this point. i bring this up because my grandmother suddenly passed in the middle of the night yesterday. i was still a bit shaken up friday morning, and asked to speak with someone regarding bereavement since i would have to travel for her services by the end of the month at some point. one of the other ap's and the payroll secretary gave me their condolences, told me to go home for the day, and said they would speak with hr about how to process everything because i'm a sub.

i called them back a couple hours later and the payroll secretary told me that i'm not eligible for q status until i work at least 60 days at the school, and because i left early on friday (at their command) the clock will now reset and i have to wait another 60 days. mind you, this whole time, they've added me to their school roster, i have attended afterschool pd, planned for the curriculum, graded student work, decorated the classroom, etc. i asked if this meant my employment at the school was at risk, or if they didn't need me for the whole school year since i keep being told i'm just a sub, and she immediately said no. however, if i needed to leave for my grandmother's services, i just wouldn't be paid for those days.

for added context, i asked about the status of my employment at the end of september since it still didn't change in subcentral, and all i had was verbal confirmation. the next day (10/1), i saw it was changed to the full school year, and the payroll secretary told me the ap changed it. she also gave me a timecard with my own printed name and slot number on it. i asked this past wednesday (literally the day before my grandmother passed) when my q status would process, and the payroll secretary claimed she didn't know i was staying for the whole year... she said she would call hr, and repeated the 60 day rule. she said it's only immediate / within a couple weeks if i started on 9/8, but since i started on 9/11 i have to wait 60 days.

so i'm just wondering if she's actually correct because to my knowledge, the uft says that you only have to wait 60 days if you started work after the first 15 days of the school year. i haven't been able to get in touch with a salary specialist yet, but when i called the uft and spoke with a general rep, they did repeat the 60 day rule thing the secretary talked about.

if anyone has any advice for how to navigate this, i would greatly appreciate it. i would totally understand if this is quite literally the salary rules and procedures, but i'm just not certain that's the case. for context – i'm 24f, this is my 2nd year teaching, and should have my transb by next semester (which i communicated to them). thank you!

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u/Cautious_Nectarine75 — 5 days ago

ISO Harlem lease, lease takeover, or sublet

Hi everyone 💗 My name is Makala, I’m 24 and work full time in education. I’m looking to rent a room and/or be added to a lease with 2 other roommates (preferably women). I’m also open to apartment hunting with 2 other roommates! My move in date is flexible between September 1 - October 31st, but the earlier the better. My budget is max $1300-$1500 and I’m interested in Harlem, preferably between 120th - 130th st.

I would love to be friends with my roommates, and at minimum want to foster a space that truly feels like a home. I’m very clean, communicative, and respectful of shared spaces. I love exploring the city and going out, and also like to have cute movie nights or chill nights in with friends.

If anyone is looking for a third roommate or would want to apartment hunt together, please feel free to DM me here. If anyone has any leads they could point me to, that would also be amazing!

Thank youuu 💗

u/Cautious_Nectarine75 — 2 months ago

ISO Harlem lease, lease takeover, or sublet

Hi everyone 💗 My name is Makala, I’m 24 and work full time in education. I’m looking to rent a room and/or be added to a lease with 2 other roommates (preferably women). I’m also open to apartment hunting with 2 other roommates! My move in date is flexible between September 1 - October 31st, but the earlier the better. My budget is max $1300-$1500 and I’m interested in Harlem, preferably between 120th - 130th st.

I would love to be friends with my roommates, and at minimum want to foster a space that truly feels like a home. I’m very clean, communicative, and respectful of shared spaces. I love exploring the city and going out, and also like to have cute movie nights or chill nights in with friends.

If anyone is looking for a third roommate or would want to apartment hunt together, please feel free to DM me here. If anyone has any leads they could point me to, that would also be amazing!

Thank youuu 💗

u/Cautious_Nectarine75 — 2 months ago

iso september lease, sublease, takeover in harlem!

Hi! My name is Makala. I’m 24 and work full
time in education. I'm looking for a sublease/sublet/lease takeover with a September or October move-in (the earlier the better).

I'm looking in:
Harlem, preferably between 120th-130th st on either side (west, central, east)

My budget is max $1500. If anyone knows of anything available or is looking for someone to take over their space ASAP, or looking for a roomie to add to a lease, please message me!

Thank youuu

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u/Cautious_Nectarine75 — 2 months ago

iso september lease, sublease, takeover in harlem!

Hi! My name is Makala. I’m 24 and work full
time in education. I'm looking for a sublease/sublet/lease takeover with a September or October move-in (the earlier the better).

I'm looking in:
Harlem, preferably between 120th-130th st on either side (west, central, east)

My budget is max $1500. If anyone knows of anything available or is looking for someone to take over their space ASAP, or looking for a roomie to add to a lease, please message me!

Thank youuu

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u/Cautious_Nectarine75 — 2 months ago
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iso september / october lease, sublease, takeover in harlem!

Hi! My name is Makala. I’m 24 and work full
time in education. I'm looking for a sublease/sublet/lease takeover with a September or October move-in (the earlier the better).

I'm looking in:
Harlem, preferably between 120th-130th st on either side (west, central, east)

My budget is max $1500. If anyone knows of anything available or is looking for someone to take over their space ASAP, or looking for a roomie to add to a lease, please message me!

Thank youuu

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u/Cautious_Nectarine75 — 2 months ago

ISO FEMALE ROOMMATE by July 1st

hiii! my name’s makala, i'm looking for 2 roommates to sublease a room from, join an existing lease, or apartment hunt with by july 1st!!!

location: brooklyn (preferably bed stuy, crown heights, atlantic terminal, etc)
budget: $1700

about me:
i'm 24 and work full time in-person in education
love going to museums, exploring new restaurants in the city, and also have cute movie nights or chill nights in w friends
I'm very clean, respectful of shared spaces, communicative, and looking for roomies to share a happy homey apartment with
would also loveee to be friends w my roomies as well

i also have a very sweet affectionate loving 3 year old esa cat named draka who would also be coming with me! she's my daughterrr and super playful and loves meeting new ppl <33

plsss Imk if you have something available or would like to facetime/call to talk more! thank youuu 💗

u/Cautious_Nectarine75 — 4 months ago

best brooklyn neighborhood for new york summer??

hiii im 24f and and have been in nyc for a couple years, but have lived in harlem. i want to sublet in brooklyn for this summer (july - september) to see if i like it or not, since im considering moving there this fall!

i feel like everyone keeps saying this summer is going to be crazyyy good.... any opinions on what neighborhood is the littest place to be? would love some opinions since im gonna start looking today!!

im also (b)ipoc and would loveee some good block parties and community events <333 but also not a terrible commute to manhattan for fashion events that might be there. any help would be sooo appreciated tyyyybest brooklyn neighborhood for new york summer??

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u/Cautious_Nectarine75 — 4 months ago

best brooklyn neighborhood for new york summer??

hiii im 24f and and have been in nyc for a couple years, but have lived in harlem. i want to sublet in brooklyn for this summer (july - september) to see if i like it or not, since im considering moving there this fall!

i feel like everyone keeps saying this summer is going to be crazyyy good.... any opinions on what neighborhood is the littest place to be? would love some opinions since im gonna start looking today!!

im also (b)ipoc and would loveee some good block parties and community events <333 but also not a terrible commute to manhattan for fashion events that might be there. any help would be sooo appreciated tyyyy

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u/Cautious_Nectarine75 — 4 months ago

best brooklyn neighborhood for new york summer??

hiii im 24f and and have been in nyc for a couple years, but have lived in harlem. i want to sublet in brooklyn for this summer (july - september) to see if i like it or not, since im considering moving there this fall!

i feel like everyone keeps saying this summer is going to be crazyyy good.... any opinions on what neighborhood is the littest place to be? would love some opinions since im gonna start looking today!!

im also (b)ipoc and would loveee some good block parties and community events <333 but also not a terrible commute to manhattan for fashion events that might be there. any help would be sooo appreciated tyyyy

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u/Cautious_Nectarine75 — 4 months ago

tldr: subleased from this guy who was staying at this apartment for free at the help of his family friend. subleased ended early bc he never got permission, but was charging me $2200 per month. do i have any legal standing to get some money back since i’ve been unable to secure new housing?

so in early february 2026 i signed a sublease agreement w this guy who claimed that he had been leasing at this apartment for a couple years. the agreement was from feb 15 - may 1st (today). the reason he was subletting was to visit family in tx and get out of nyc for the winter.

around 10 days ago i got locked out and asked him for some help. he gave me the landlords number. i texted her saying i was locked out. he said what i texted her caused an issue, and she wanted both of our things out the apartment by the next day. i texted her i had a sublease agreement ending may 1st, and if that was fine with her, she said yes.

so fast forward today and i still have no new place lined up… reason being he told me the sublease was extendable to 6/1, but he hadn’t given me a formal sublease agreement to sign for that, it was just over text :// since 4/17 i’ve been scrambling to find a new place, have been unsuccessful, and am going to a hotel for the next couple weeks since i have a cat and can also not afford cat boarding or find a foster this last minute… i’ve been looking at going to a shelter after since i’m a teacher and literally have no money 😭

today i just found out from the actual tenant at the apartment that the guy is a family friend, and she was just “helping him out” and letting him stay there for free… meaning i’ve been giving him $2200 each month and he’s just been profiting.

given that i’ve been put in this predicament, do i have any legal recourse for the money? i’ve also attached pictures of the apartment to show the size vs what i’m paying.. its located at 30 e 127th st (east harlem). have i been successfully hoodwinked or is there any possibility of at least getting ANY amount to avoid going to a shelter?

u/Cautious_Nectarine75 — 6 months ago

tldr: subleased from this guy who was staying at this apartment for free at the help of his family friend. subleased ended early bc he never got permission, but was charging me $2200 per month. do i have any legal standing to get some money back since i’ve been unable to secure new housing?

so in early february 2026 i signed a sublease agreement w this guy who claimed that he had been leasing at this apartment for a couple years. the agreement was from feb 15 - may 1st (today). the reason he was subletting was to visit family in tx and get out of nyc for the winter.

around 10 days ago i got locked out and asked him for some help. he gave me the landlords number. i texted her saying i was locked out. he said what i texted her caused an issue, and she wanted both of our things out the apartment by the next day. i texted her i had a sublease agreement ending may 1st, and if that was fine with her, she said yes.

so fast forward today and i still have no new place lined up… reason being he told me the sublease was extendable to 6/1, but he hadn’t given me a formal sublease agreement to sign for that, it was just over text :// since 4/17 i’ve been scrambling to find a new place, have been unsuccessful, and am going to a hotel for the next couple weeks since i have a cat and can also not afford cat boarding or find a foster this last minute… i’ve been looking at going to a shelter after since i’m a teacher and literally have no money 😭

today i just found out from the actual tenant at the apartment that the guy is a family friend, and she was just “helping him out” and letting him stay there for free… meaning i’ve been giving him $2200 each month and he’s just been profiting.

given that i’ve been put in this predicament, do i have any legal recourse for the money? i’ve also attached pictures of the apartment to show the size vs what i’m paying.. its located at 30 e 127th st (east harlem). have i been successfully hoodwinked or is there any possibility of at least getting ANY amount to avoid going to a shelter?

u/Cautious_Nectarine75 — 6 months ago