Grand parents nowadays don't want to help with grand children. But it is a game changer if grand parents help. My mother died when my first child was 3 years old, she helped a lot and for me life was easy. I had my 2 other kids after and the in-law and my dad didn't help and I saw the difference.
What do you think?
Je vois beaucoup de posts d'africains se plaignant d'un racket de la france dû au franc CFA. Quelqu'un peut-il m'expliquer les mécanismes du franc CFA et pourquoi les africains se sentent floués. Si c'est un résidu du colonialisme, pourquoi ne le supprime t'on pas?
A personal family experience about life before women liberation.
Mysoginistic Incels who hate women have always existed but they were isolated and eventually married later (after all the good men were taken). Before women liberation, women had no choice but to marry these Incels.
Both my grandmothers married mysoginistic incels and their life was hell.
My first grandma was young after WW1 in France, and there was a shortage of men. She was still single at 25 in the 20's. She met my grandfather who was still single at 30 as no women wanted him. She didn't want to marry him as she thought he was too agressive and impulsive (despite having a good job). But she hadn't have a choice, her parents were pushing her to marry and there were no men left. So she married him and had to endure DV. The children also were beaten and raised in a mysoginistic education, my dad was very mysoginistic. The only daughter cut ties with the toxic family.
Second grandmother had a boyfriend and became pregnant. They decided to marry as they were in love, it was in the 30's. Shortly before the marriage, he died. She was a single mom and nobody wanted her. She found an incel man that nobody wanted who was ok to marry and take care of the child. Of course it didn't end well, he was a psychopath and beated the whole family to death taking pleasure in beating them (especially the first child who wasn't his, he almost killed him). This grandfather was way worst than the first grandfather. As the first grandfather was just agressive not a psychopath like this one.
Surprisingly the psychopath grandfather was less mysogynistic than the first and loved his mum and sister and wanted my mum to succeed academicly which she did.
Of course it was impossible to divorce.
So it is a good thing that these mysoginistic Incels that hate women and want them to be property and second class citizen, stay single now. They can't hurt their wife and children and especially daughters.
Of course I don't speak about the incels that aren't hateful and mysogynistic and just have no game. But they usually don't call themselves incels.
A personal family experience about life before women liberation.
Mysoginistic Incels who hate women have always existed but they were isolated and eventually married later (after all the good men were taken). Before women liberation, women had no choice but to marry these Incels.
Both my grandmothers married mysoginistic incels and their life was hell.
My first grandma was young after WW1 in France, and there was a shortage of men. She was still single at 25 in the 20's. She met my grandfather who was still single at 30 as no women wanted him. She didn't want to marry him as she thought he was too agressive and impulsive (despite having a good job). But she hadn't have a choice, her parents were pushing her to marry and there were no men left. So she married him and had to endure DV. The children also were beaten and raised in a mysoginistic education, my dad was very mysoginistic. The only daughter cut ties with the toxic family.
Second grandmother had a boyfriend and became pregnant. They decided to marry as they were in love, it was in the 30's. Shortly before the marriage, he died. She was a single mom and nobody wanted her. She found an incel man that nobody wanted who was ok to marry and take care of the child. Of course it didn't end well, he was a psychopath and beated the whole family to death taking pleasure in beating them (especially the first child who wasn't his, he almost killed him). This grandfather was way worst than the first grandfather. As the first grandfather was just agressive not a psychopath like this one.
Surprisingly the psychopath grandfather was less mysogynistic than the first and loved his mum and sister and wanted my mum to succeed academicly which she did.
Of course it was impossible to divorce.
So it is a good thing that these mysoginistic Incels that hate women and want them to be property and second class citizen, stay single now. They can't hurt their wife and children and especially daughters.
Of course I don't speak about the incels that aren't hateful and mysogynistic and just have no game. But they usually don't call themselves incels.
Women who were raised by a misogynistic father, how did you deal with it?
My father was misogynistic. My mother claimed not to be, at least in words, but her actions often told a different story. It was difficult for me because I never felt fully recognized as a human being in my own right. Even though my father would say things like, “You’re very intelligent for a woman.”
It didn’t stop me from becoming a feminist. What about you? Did you have to struggle with internalized misogyny? How has your upbringing affected the way you see yourself and other women?
Mon père était mysogyne, ma mère soit disant non dans les paroles, mais pas dans les actes. Ça a été compliqué pour moi car je ne me sentais pas complètement reconnue comme être humain. Même s'il disait 'tu es très intelligente pour une femme'. Ça ne m'a pas empêché de devenir féministe. Et pour vous? Avez-vous lutté contre une mysoginie intérieure ?
A personal family experience about life before women liberation.
A tale of the past before modern days.
My first grandma was young after WW1 in France, and there was a shortage of men. She was still single at 25 in the 20's. She met my grandfather who was still single at 30 as no women wanted him. She didn't want to marry him as she thought he was too agressive and impulsive (despite having a good job). But she hadn't have a choice, her parents were pushing her to marry and there were no men left. So she married him and had to endure DV. The children also were beaten and raised in a mysoginistic education, my dad was very mysoginistic. The only daughter cut ties with the toxic family.
Second grandmother had a boyfriend and became pregnant. They decided to marry as they were in love, it was in the late 30's. Shortly before the marriage, he died. She was a single mom and nobody wanted her. She found an man that nobody wanted who was ok to marry and take care of the child. Of course it didn't end well, he was a psychopath and beated the whole family to death taking pleasure in beating them (especially the first child who wasn't his, he almost killed him). This grandfather was way worst than the first grandfather. As the first grandfather was just agressive not a psychopath like this one.
Surprisingly the psychopath grand dad was less mysogynistic than the first grand dad and loved his mum, sister and wanted my mum to succeed academicly which she did.
Of course it was impossible to divorce.
Mysoginistic Incels who hate women have always existed but they were isolated and eventually married later (after all the good men were taken). Before women liberation, women had no choice but to marry these Incels.
Both my grandmothers married mysoginistic incels and their life was hell.
My first grandma was young after WW1 in France, and there was a shortage of men. She was still single at 25 in the 20's. She met my grandfather who was still single at 30 as no women wanted him. She didn't want to marry him as she thought he was too agressive and impulsive (despite having a good job). But she hadn't have a choice, her parents were pushing her to marry and there were no men left. So she married him and had to endure DV. The children also were beaten and raised in a mysoginistic education, my dad was very mysoginistic. The only daughter cut ties with the toxic family.
Second grandmother had a boyfriend and became pregnant. They decided to marry as they were in love, it was in the 30's. Shortly before the marriage, he died. She was a single mom and nobody wanted her. She found an incel man that nobody wanted who was ok to marry and take care of the child. Of course it didn't end well, he was a psychopath and beated the whole family to death taking pleasure in beating them (especially the first child who wasn't his, he almost killed him). This grandfather was way worst than the first grandfather. As the first grandfather was just agressive not a psychopath like this one.
Surprisingly the psychopath grandfather was less mysogynistic than the first and loved his mum and sister and wanted my mum to succeed academicly which she did.
Of course it was impossible to divorce.
So it is a good thing that these mysoginistic Incels that hate women and want them to be property and second class citizen, stay single now. They can't hurt their wife and children and especially daughters.
Of course I don't speak about the incels that aren't hateful and mysogynistic and just have no game. But they usually don't call themselves incels.
Pour moi j'ai été le mieux accueilli à Angers et dans le nord, à Lille et Dunkerque. J'ai été le moins bien accueilli dans des petits villages bretons qui détestent les parisiens. Après je connais pas toute la France. Étonnamment j'ai été bien accueilli à Marseille malgré le fait que je sois parisienne.
A part Gen X has failed at parenting a part of gen Z and early gen alpha
Some Gen X has failed at parenting some gen Z and early gen alpha
Gen X with helicopter and permissive parenting has failed their kids. Now we have a generation that is socially inadaptated, is entitled, is unable to party or have fun with friends, have mental illness, is obese (in the US not in Europe yet) and are cowards (men and women are too afraid of rejection). They also don't read books. Of course I speak only about a part of gen z but still. I am gen X myself and a mom.
Gen X has failed at parenting gen Z and early fen alpha
Gen X with helicopter and permissive parenting has failed their kids. Now we have a generation that is socially inadaptated, is entitled, is unable to party or have fun with friends, have mental illness, is obese (in the US not in Europe yet) and are cowards (men and women are too afraid of rejection). They also don't read books. Of course I speak only about a part of gen z but still. I am gen X myself and a mom.
Gen X with helicopter and permissive parenting has failed their kids. Now we have a generation that is socially inadaptated, is entitled, is unable to party or have fun with friends, have mental illness, is obese (in the US not in Europe yet) and are cowards (men and women are too afraid of rejection). They also don't read books. Of course I speak only about a part of gen z but still. I am gen X myself and a mom.
In the US, it seems that having children out of the wedlock is frowned upon while in Europe, it is completely ok. Why that difference?