u/Coffeeforlifeyay

Okay so like.. Seriously. How do you get friends who are also trans?? I have one friend I’ve been friends with since we were about 1 and 2, but that’s about it.

How do you find trans people irl??

All the places around me (I live in Sweden) are usually 13-18. I’m 19 so… I can’t join them.

Sure pride events exists but like- do I just walk up to random people and talk to them??? QwQ

Help.

Okay so like.. Seriously. How do you get friends who are also trans?? I have one friend I’ve been friends with since we were about 1 and 2, but that’s about it.

How do you find trans people irl??

All the places around me (I live in Sweden) are usually 13-18. I’m 19 so… I can’t join them.

Sure pride events exists but like- do I just walk up to random people and talk to them??? QwQ

Help.

Okay so like.. Seriously. How do you get friends who are also trans?? I have one friend I’ve been friends with since we were about 1 and 2, but that’s about it.

How do you find trans people irl??

All the places around me (I live in Sweden) are usually 13-18. I’m 19 so… I can’t join them.

Sure pride events exists but like- do I just walk up to random people and talk to them??? QwQ

Help.

Basically as the title says.

Whats even the point? My email address that’s linked to my account is confirmed to be 18+

So why does Reddit need my ID verification?? Shouldn’t they be able to see that my email is 18+

Whats even the point of having a verified 18+ email then? Can they fix this because I genuinely see no reason to give them my ID if my email is already verified.

Ya’ll most likely know of the chat history thing.

But like, now the bots aren’t even showing up (which I really hate cuz like.. How am I supposed to remember every single bots name???)

So, there was a few specific ones I really wanted to keep the story with, so ofc I continued to chat with them to keep it.

Its just that.. Even though I literally sent a message to the both the day before yesterday or so its still gone today?

That shouldn’t happen right??? Like… I hates the chat history being gone. That sucked. But at least I used to be able to see every single bot Ive chatted with.

Now I cant do that. Genuinely whats the point? Does it really cost that much? If it does then I can never see them ever making any profit.

If just displaying the bots name in your history and their opening message is that expensive then they should just shut down or like- idk give the company to someone else who has more finances.

Soo.. Hellu! Is there any other trans people here whose from Sweden who have been on the wait list? Specifically for KIM (köns mottagningen i malmö).

I got a letter home about a year ago telling me Im on the list. From what I’ve heard it can take 1-3 years before you get called in ._.

So.. If anyone is from Sweden and has been on the waitlist, how long did it take you? Also, is there anyway to actually check where I am on the list?

(Ahem I can feel my dysphoria getting worse ._.”)

Thank you!!

Long version:

Hi!! So I hope this kind of post is allowed..

I also don’t know if I worded it correctly in the title, so sorry about that!

Okay, so let’s get to what I need advice/help about…

Basically I graduated last week, and I plan on continuing my education next year.

A bit of backstory: Originally I wanted to do it after the summer but I’m diagnosed with Autism and to get approved at the schools I wanted to apply to I needed to have my paper where a Doctor diagnosed me (makes sense).

What’s incredibly weird is that it seems like that specific paper is just- gone. We’ve literally emailed the place where I got my diagnosis but they sent back the wrong paper. And we genuinely can’t find the paper where I got diagnosed by a Doctor (only from a psychologist or psychiatrist, idk the difference).

Even though we’ve found on another paper that it *should* exist.

Okay so that’s why I already haven’t applied to school.

What I need help with: So basically my mom’s bf recommended that I keep studying but at home so my brain is already used to studying when I do get into school again.

The problem is that I genuinely don’t know how to do this? Like, okay math is a bit easy. I’ve downloaded some math apps and they should work as good as school (if not better cuz my math teacher wasn’t the best).

But of course I need to study other things.. I also absolutely sucked at school and genuinely want to get better.

So, how am I supposed to like.. Make a school plan? If that’s even the name. How do I make a schedule that’s realistic to an actual school plan?

If I pick to study on History how do I know *what* to study on History?

Can anyone give me advice on this?? If you didn’t understand what I meant I’m so sorry and feel free to ask me so I can explain it better!!

Thank you!!

Short version: While I wait to apply for other schools after graduation I want to keep studying at home. Though I don’t know how to make a school plan or a schedule as realistic as an actual school schedule.

How do I know specifically what to study and how do I know if it’s affective? Anyone got any advice on how I’ll do this? Thank you!

Hii! I don’t fully know if I should post this on here or on piercings.. I’ll do it here cuz there’s a bigger chance people can help me here.

So, in the future I want to get my nipples pierced (if I have the correct anatomy of course), though something I’ve been thinking about is the fact that I want to have top surgery.

So.. How does this work exactly? If I get my nipples pierced before top surgery I assume I’ll have to take them out. Will I have to re-pierce them?

Is it better to wait until after top surgery? Is there a risk I have the correct anatomy now but after top surgery I don’t have the anatomy anymore?

Thank you!

(Mods, if this post isn’t allowed please take it down!)

I miss roar, dynamic and brainiac (I think it was called) the most.

I genuinely can’t stand the new ones. They make the app unusable.