u/Comfortable_Algae729

Anyone here who works PST timezone? Let’s talk and be friends as we work! I’m a nurse that works as medical coder. Let’s talk!

Life’s so hard and ang daming challenges. Gusto ko nalang mag apply as asukal de anak. Graduate and licensed na ko pero walang usad. Ang dami pang matapobreng pamilya.

To Love the Winner of the Bread 🥖

I just made the title funky haha but taena I’m so challenged. Is it worth it to love a breadwinner? I mean I can see him trying naman pero most the time me, the woman of the relationship ang gumagastos. Nanliligaw pa lang pero ako lagi gumagastos para makapag kita kami. Pero Hindi naman lagi, mostly talaga give and take kami. Example ako sa cinema tickets siya sa snacks. Pero you see, most of the time ako. Pero one time nag heart to heart talk kami. He cried saying na ang dami daw niya gusto ibigay sakin. Alam niya daw na sobrang deserve ko ng good things sa mundo. Pero as someone na breadwinner, hindi niya mabigay. Kaya whenever sinasabi ko na ako muna bahala sa dates namin, napapansin ko na para syang hindi excited. I asked him about it and he said nahihiya kasi siya.

I’m 24 and he’s 25, we’re both working na rin. Pero minsan naiisip ko rin na ano kayang feeling ng ako naman itreat? I mean yung lahat guy ang gagastos. Pero don’t get me wrong, I love giving gifts. I just want to experience the feeling of being a receiver.

Meron kaming relative na sobrang mapang mata pero di pinapahalata. Pero alam niyo yung kapag nagsalita siya, laging mag patama or laging may pino-point out.

So magkakapatid sila ng mom ko and we are not fortunate enough. Di naman kasalanan ng mom ko na ayaw siya paalisin ng parents niya nung matanda na sila. (At old age ng grandparents ko, ayaw nila umalis or mag work ang mom ko. Hanggang sa nawala na lahat nv opportunity niya mag abroad and magwork for our future) Pero sa lahat ng kapatid niya, may stable job and naging maganda buhay. Pero never nagpakita ng bitterness ang mother ko. Since di na siya nakapag work, tinuloy nalang niya ang pag alaga samin dito kasama yung cousin ko na anak ng kapatid niya.

So ako, I graduated with the little help of my mom’s siblings. Single mom kasi siya so thriving kami on our own and my brother works naman kaya nakakapag ambag pa rin kami. So fast forward, naka graduate ako and I found a job, 4months after my licensure exam.

Sa family namin, dalawa kami ng cousin ko na same program and same batch. Pero yung cousin ko na yun di pa naghahanap ng work (idk why baka dahil no pressure naman sa life?) pero same kami nagwawait ng call sa hospitals. Yes nurse kami. So nainip na ko sa pag wait, nag apply ako sa medical coder and fortunately natanggap ako.

For some reason, di talaga nawawala sa tita ko na to na ipag compare kami. Actually, silang mag asawa. I remembered her husband saying na “walang magandang future ang coding kasi AI lang yun, iba pa rin kapag ang nurse nasa hospital” or sinasabi niya na “makakalimutan ko na raw pinag aralan ko”. I mean, can’t you just be glad na may work na ako? Bakit itong isa di niyo ma-encourage mag work? Dahil hindi niya naman need? Sobrang nahuhurt na ako kasi I feel like I’m not doing enough. Lagi kong sinasabi sa mom and kuya ko na kaya ko lang pinasok ang mundo ng coding is because gusto ko na talaga makatulong sa kanila. Bakit ganon? Hindi ba enough?

Then yung anak kasi non nag move sa aus, to study. So ganon sila ka fortunate sa life. Tapos itong ka batch ko na pinsan ko, may bf na from US. So basically alam namin na sooner or later kukuhanin na siya ng bf niya. Tapos sabi ng mom ko “nakakamiss naman wala na si (anak niya) itong dalawa nalang naiwan” Bff kasi kaming tatlo. Sabi nung tita ko “Susunod na dyan papuntang US na si ano. Sabihan mo yang si (ako daw) na pag igihan ang pag hanap ng trabaho dito” Taena I just eavesdropped and para akong naiiyak. Alam ko sapak na naman sa ego ng nanay ko yun. Bakit? Hindi ko kaya mag abroad? Hindi ko kaya pagandahin buhay namin? Dahil wala akong bf na from abroad or di kami fortunate enough?

I remember sharing here dati na yung mag asawa na yan lahat napansin dito sa bahay. Since nakatira kami sa ancestral house and yung mom ng cousin ko na isa (single mom kasi sila both kaya sabi ng late mother nila dito nalang sila). To the point na pati color ng dishwashing sponge sinisita, bakit daw ganon ang doormat? Bakit daw hindi kami gumagamit ng magic sarap? Tapos alam niyo yung sobrang insulting kasi never yan umuwi nang walang napansin and nasabi. Not to mention na sobrang patapon ng anak niyang isa kasi ayaw mag work 30yrs old na, laging problema ang dala sa bahay. My point is, ang dami mong problema sa buhay why are you always peeking at what we have or what we are doing?

I’m planning to quit my job soon kasi gusto ko mag abroad. Kaso nalulungkot ako iwan ang mom and brother ko. Tatlo na nga lang kami aalis pa ako? Pero I’m planning to take NCLEX naman plus points sa magiging work ko, means more sahod. Pero sobrang bugbog na ang damdamin ko dahil sa tita ko na yun.

Hi! I’m here because… looking for someone to date? i guess? hahaha dm me if interested ka sa slow burn type of relationship. I don’t like rushing but I don’t like uncertainties, too.

Sooo sa chat na tayo mag get to know each other hehe

I’m very direct sa title. Yes, looking for someone to date hahahaha I’m from Rizal, a nurse and that’s basically it. I need a slow-burn-type of relationship. Someone who is within my age bracket, like 23-26yrs old. Let’s get to know each other if you want :>

I passed my PNLE last november 2025. I applied after passing and until March I was unfortunate to be contacted ng mga hospital. I tried medical coding and by then, I passed. Since March I was pursuing Medical coding and the pay was so good (esp for someone who have this as their first job). However, it feels like di enough. Ungrateful ba ako? Kasi napepressure ako sa mga classmate ko na sa hospital nagwowork. I mean even if the pay was not enough, feel ko mas maseserve ko purpose ko do’n. And I am planning to take NCLEX naman pero feel ko talaga I’m not who I am supposed to be kapag wala ako sa hospital.

I need your opinion po mga Ate and Kuya. Planning to leave medical coding after 1yr to apply sa hospital (if maging fortunate enough para makalipat).

LF a friend who’s willing to have chit chat with me during free time. Preferably low maintenance friend cause I’m usually asleep during the day (GY shift). We can get coffee soon along antipolo if we got close hehe

PS. 23-25yrs old sana so we can catch up sa life as newbie in the work field.😊