u/Complete-Quantity360

Every time i see some people on the internet talking about a male character who is just a little effeminate they always call him gay, even when they are not all that effeminate and are just a bit eccentric, why do people do that? And is it offensive for actually gay men?

okay, so, there are many tv tropes that i don’t like but this one is particularly annoying, it usually goes like this: girl introduces her boyfriend to her parents, the mom is happy but the dad doesn’t like him. the most common reasons to why the dad doesn’t like him are usually about the boy being a bit of a loser, being clumsy or having a humble job, sometimes the dad doesn’t like the boyfriend because he’s like some weird guy with tattoos and with a motorcycle which is less irritating even tho it’s still annoying. in the first three cases the dad is just a jerk, i’ve seen like once this movie that i’ll never watch again about this man meeting his girlfriend‘s dad and he would always make him nervous and treat him like a loser and be mean to him because he wasn’t some super chad guy (my point was proven when later in the movie the dad seemed to like his daughter’s ex because he was more “man-like”) i know that it was supposed to be funny but it just pissed me off because i had to witness this poor guy who is also really sweet getting bullied by this asshole of a man who “doesn’t approve” of him. another thing that i don’t like but like about this trope is the fact that it sounds sexist, i don’ want to be the type of person who calls everything that involves a man not approving of a girl’s choice sexist but in most of these situations the daughter is an adult and she is old and mature enough to make her own choices, so it sounds just slightly sexist to me but tell me what you think. another case where it was really annoying was in “The Big Bang Theory” with Howard’s interactions with his girlfriend’s dad who is super fricking mean to him because he’s physically weak and bad at “man-stuff” and he doesn’t give a shit about the fact that he’s actually a really smart guy. anyways this trope is annoying because it always ends up being “dad doesn’t like daughter’s boyfriend because he’s not a real man and he doesn’t make lots of money” and because it’s basically portraying bullying as “funny”, it sometimes makes me think how would the dad react if his daughter’s got a “manly“ boyfriend who actually turns out to be a jerk, tell me what you think.

ok, so, the song itself was cute and it was very romantic for Adrien to do it, but it disappointed me so fricking much that i almost cried. first of all, let me give you an advice, go listen to Miraculous’ Italian Dub, if you think Chat Noir is hot his Italian voice actor, Flavio Aquilone, will make you loose your mind. that’s what i’m going to talk about, Aquilone is a PERFECT voice actor, he has a hot voice and he’s expressive and he’s a perfect fit for Adrien, and MY GOD his singing voice is so good (please listen to the movie songs with Chat Noir in them in Italian, you won’t regret it). i am Italian so i value my country’s voice acting a lot so i couldn’t wait to hear Aquilone absolutely OWNING that song because i knew it existed, so you can imagine how disappointed i was when i found out that they gave Adrien a different voice actor for the song… yeah, i was sad and i almost cried… well, at least they didn’t change the voice actor for the movie… but seriousl, listen to Adrien’s voice in Italian, it’s great.

what if we could sell pastries with coffee like: croissant, donuts, muffins or even cookies and macaroon/macarons?