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So I need to park my car on campus as I am driving back to home on Thursday around 3:30PM. But the problem is that I have permit for RR and not for any on campus spot. And bus always takes 30 min to reach to RR and then getting back to dorm picking up my stuff and then leaving university. Is there any spot on-campus where I can park tonight so that I can leave on Thursday afternoon without any hassle or getting any citations from transportation.

This might sound like a small problem to someone, but at this point my life is falling apart. And the reason behind that is I (23M) am currently a senior at UNC and actually running behind all of my colleagues. Being an international student, I have not finished my undergrad yet and my friends are done with their masters and doing job at this point.
Along with that they are doing really good socially and they have their life sorted out. Now even I don’t know what am I doing, because I want to go to my desired grad school and still I got to do 2 prerequisite before applying for grad school so 2 years of gap before starting my actual career I am passionate about. By the time I will be done, I might be 27 years old and I don’t think I will have anyone in my life as well. Because I am single for 4 years and in those years I faced countless rejections every single time I approach some one. And 90% of time they were single and choose others over me. Not that I look ugly or my clothes are dirty or I smell, but they can’t digest the fact that I am an immigrant. One girl just bitterly told me that she don’t like me because I am a FOB. At the end, what I have is over supporting family, who support me in every circumstance, and that had eventually gave me a feeling that I don’t worth their love because I am a failure in every situation and aspect of their lives. Their love is unconditional and I don’t blame them because they are my parents, but it just make me realize that I am nothing without them. After all of that, the most annoying thing is that people refuse to sit beside me. Even though the lecture is packed or bus is full, they prefer to stand instead of sitting beside me. Not because I am ugly but because I look different. I just started hating myself.

This might sound like a small problem to someone, but at this point my life is falling apart. And the reason behind that is I (23M) am currently a senior at UNC and actually running behind all of my colleagues. Being an international student, I have not finished my undergrad yet and my friends are done with their masters and doing job at this point.
Along with that they are doing really good socially and they have their life sorted out. Now even I don’t know what am I doing, because I want to go to my desired grad school and still I got to do 2 prerequisite before applying for grad school so 2 years of gap before starting my actual career I am passionate about. By the time I will be done, I might be 27 years old and I don’t think I will have anyone in my life as well. Because I am single for 4 years and in those years I faced countless rejections every single time I approach some one. And 90% of time they were single and choose others over me. Not that I look ugly or my clothes are dirty or I smell, but they can’t digest the fact that I am an immigrant. One girl just bitterly told me that she don’t like me because I am a FOB. At the end, what I have is over supporting family, who support me in every circumstance, and that had eventually gave me a feeling that I don’t worth their love because I am a failure in every situation and aspect of their lives. Their love is unconditional and I don’t blame them because they are my parents, but it just make me realize that I am nothing without them. After all of that, the most annoying thing is that people refuse to sit beside me. Even though the lecture is packed or bus is full, they prefer to stand instead of sitting beside me. Not because I am ugly but because I look different. I just started hating myself.

So this might sound bummer to a lot of people or people might relate to it. So I (22M) from few weeks have started accepting to my queerness and am quite sure now that I am bisexual. And I get it that some might say that it's not that deep but I find it cool to wear pride theme bracelets, bands and pins. Now the thing is that I am currently wearing a black bead bracelet and silver ring in one of my finger. I find it really pretty. If I will have the pin on my backpack and two more pride themed bracelets on my hand. Does it make me a performative queer who like to show world how much queer I am?

This is one of those post of mine in which I might receive large number of downvotes but I need opinion on this guys. Love y'all 🩷💜💙

So it was super nervous for me. I woke up and went to testing site. Everyone was nervous just like me and was practicing skills with each other. And I was so nervous that my blood pressure went to 140-98. I was so shocked and stressed out of it. I finally got my turn and I did a huge blunder in bedpan skill. I just forgot to empty bedpan content in toilet (which btw was empty but still I forgot to do it) and started rinsing it. And one mistake where I forgot to add gloves which I acknowledged and she said it’s okay.

However I managed to did all skills in time, but I feel like I might made a mistake and evaluator might fail me for that. And the most depressing part is that I missed 4 classes of my university just to get this skills exam done, and if I fail it then I guess it’s over for me. These 24 hours are most horrific hours for me. Any tips for people who had given CNA skills on second attempt.

I found this guy really cute. Based on his aesthetic he looks queer. How should I approach him? It makes me feel nervous and shy 🙈💜.

I (22M) was so confused from past 9 years that what is my sexuality. Cuz when I was young I used to have fascination that women really look cute in those dresses. And I was like why I am thinking like that I started suppressing those feelings until I found myself having a physical relationship with a guy whom I am thankful and hate him with bottom of my heart at same time. Thankful because he got me introduce to my unexplored homosexual side and hate him because he just used me because he couldn’t find girl and abused me at the same time for his needs and left me when he moved to different school and found a girl. I mean whatever you are doing currently, I hope you face rejection like I faced. Anyways after he left, I thought it’s over and maybe I should leave this idea of being gay and just start a straight life. I started talking to girls, I won’t lie I liked them but I can’t have romantic feelings for them anymore. Then this lead to a huge confusion in my mind about my sexuality like what is it. Until I came to resources like Trevor project where I knew about bisexuality as a sexuality. I started reading it and even thanks to Reddit LGBTQ Subreddits like this one and bisexual and askgaybros. It just made me realize it wasn’t that deep at all and I am bisexual. I started accepting this fact that I am bisexual and I love men more than women. And it is not necessary to choose any side, and it’s okay the way I am. I even don’t object she/her pronouns along with he/him, as I think it’s not that hard for me to accept who I am. So yeah it got really long but at the end it is really liberating to accept myself and I am planning to go to LGBTQ center of my university tomorrow to meet some cool people. I am kinda shy 👉👈 and nervous but it will be alright 🤗

Ok so let me build the context before telling my situation, which is that I was raised in the family(me, my sibling, mom and dad) in which there is no personal space granted and the personal space I got is when I moved to another town for my undergrad. After I moved here, my family decided that it will be better if we call each other every 2-3 hours so that we can know where are each other. The reason behind that is due to our conflicting schedules where we didn’t get chance to talk to each other. So it is better to know who is at work and who is at home. Now I don’t get that logic but it’s alright, as my parents are over possessive and over protective about me. They actually stop thinking more about my brother because he (34M) mature at this point. But with me they are highly skeptical because i had a weird history.

As I (21M) during my early teens (13M) got caught with one of my male friend in an inappropriate situation which made them hate me for at least month, they after knowing this slapped me and asked me to promise to not to do it again. I lied at that time told that I wont do any homosexual activity, but deep down I cried a lot for this. After that, every time I asked for my preference, I said that I don’t like boys anymore, I will marry a girl (Which is a lie). Then following 6-7 years, I went on the bi-curious stage where I wanted to know my sexuality experimented with various guys, where I spent great time with them, but it also made me disgust myself. So one day I decided to stop going out with boys and talking to girls. With girls, it has not been a good record in my case. I tried to talk to girls and got a deep humiliation from them, which made me more distant to girls. So at this point, I am really confused about myself that what should I do? It’s like every time I lie, it makes me hate myself even more.

(I have changed the age so that nobody can find my offmychest confession, and sorry for my grammar as I am from a non English country )