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Hello everyone!

Whenever I record myself singing, I notice that my tone sounds noticeably heavy and thicker than I would like. I really want to train my voice to sound softer, lighter, and more calming/sweet.

What vocal exercises help reduce vocal weight and excess tension?

How can I balance my breath support and resonance (head voice/mix) so the tone sounds airy and gentle without straining?

For singers who naturally had a thicker tone, what habits helped you find a lighter, sweeter singing quality?

I would really appreciate any technique tips or warm-up routines!

Hey everyone,

I have an honest question for those who have been practicing manifestation for a while, especially if you were skeptical at the start.

Many people dismiss the Law of Assumption, EIYPO, and manifestation as simply cognitive reframing or self-improvement—meaning you improve your self-concept, so your behavior naturally shifts and you perceive life differently.

For those with real-life experiences:

1. Have you ever seen external situations or people shift in ways that defied logical probability—things you genuinely couldn't have influenced just through your physical actions or body language?

2. Do you view this as an actual metaphysical change in reality, or is it fundamentally subconscious reprogramming that alters how we experience the world?

I’m really interested in hearing your personal journeys, insights, and honest conclusions rather than textbook theory.

Thanks so much!

Hello everyone,

Most success stories shared here involve exes, past relationships, or long situationships. However, I rarely come across experiences where someone was directly turned down or ghosted early on and still managed to turn the situation around.

Right now, I am in a position where my SP rejected me, and we are currently in no-contact. I understand the concepts—self-concept, detaching from 3D circumstances, and living in the end. Still, working through the mental memory of a direct rejection feels like a specific hurdle.

For those of you who have experienced this and successfully manifested your SP:

1. How did you handle the initial sting and memory of the rejection in your mind?

2. Did your SP reach out on their own, or how did the dynamic eventually shift?

I am looking for your genuine personal journeys, constructive insights, or mindset shifts rather than textbook theory. Any real advice would mean a lot.

Thank you all!

Hi everyone!

I’m looking for genuine advice for my underarms.

My underarms are noticeably dark/pigmented and the skin texture isn’t as smooth as I’d like. I want to gradually improve the pigmentation and make the area look more even-toned and feel smoother.

I’m not looking for any instant “fairness” treatment or harsh DIY remedies. I’d prefer safe, dermatologist-recommended skincare that actually helps with pigmentation without irritating the area.

Could you please suggest:

What ingredients/products are actually effective for underarm pigmentation?

How should I build a simple underarm skincare routine?

Is exfoliation useful, and if so, how often?

Are there any ingredients I should completely avoid because they can worsen pigmentation?

If you’ve personally dealt with underarm pigmentation, what worked for you over time?

I’d really appreciate realistic advice and product recommendations available in India, preferably based on personal experience or dermatologists’ recommendations. Thank you!

I’m genuinely interested in hearing from people who have actually experienced something like this through the Law of Assumption.

Suppose someone had a past relationship with an SP/ex that ended because of serious problems, circumstances, incompatibility, or other major issues. Despite everything that happened, feelings for that person still remain.

What I’m curious about is the experience of intentionally assuming a different version of that person and a completely different relationship — rather than trying to recreate the old relationship.

For example, instead of focusing on how the person behaved in the past, someone assumes that their SP is now loving, consistent, emotionally available, committed, communicative, and that the relationship is healthy and fulfilling.

For those who have actually experienced something similar:

- Did your SP/ex return or reconnect with you in a noticeably different way?

- Did the specific qualities you assumed about them show up?

- Did problems that existed in the old relationship stop being an issue?

- What was your experience with changing your assumptions about the person?

- Did you use SATS, affirmations, self-concept work, living in the end, or simply change your inner assumptions?

- Most importantly, how do you understand free will in relation to this?

If everyone is you pushed out, how do you reconcile that teaching with the idea that another person has their own thoughts, choices, and free will?

I’m particularly interested in real experiences, not just theoretical explanations or quotes from Neville.

If you've experienced this yourself, I'd really appreciate you sharing what happened and what you personally believe about free will after going through it.

Different perspectives are welcome — I’m genuinely trying to understand the concept better.

I’m trying to understand something about myself, and I’d really appreciate honest experiences, especially from women who grew up with an absent or emotionally unavailable father.

I’ve been in two relationships so far, and unfortunately neither of them was healthy for me. Looking back, I’ve noticed a pattern in myself: whenever a guy gives me attention, talks to me nicely, appreciates me, shows interest in me, or makes me feel special, I can start liking him quite quickly.

Sometimes I take even a small amount of interest very seriously. If someone is just flirting, being friendly, or only temporarily interested, I don’t always recognize it early. I can start believing that the person genuinely likes me and become attracted to them before I’ve had enough time to understand their character or intentions.

I’ve also noticed that some people seem to naturally receive attention from others and can easily ignore people they aren’t interested in. For me, attention feels much more significant. When someone makes me feel appreciated or gives me emotional attention, I find it difficult to step back and objectively evaluate whether that person is actually good for me.

Because I grew up with an absent/emotionally unavailable father, I’ve started wondering whether this could be connected.

Could growing up without consistent emotional support, affection, validation, or a healthy example of male emotional availability affect how a woman experiences romantic attention later in life?

For example, can it make someone:

* become attached more quickly when a man gives them attention or affection?

* mistake attention or validation for genuine compatibility?

* overlook red flags because they’re already emotionally invested?

* feel unusually drawn to someone simply because that person makes them feel seen or appreciated?

* have difficulty recognizing what a healthy, emotionally available man actually looks like?

* become more vulnerable to people who give inconsistent attention?

And if you’ve experienced something similar, how did you eventually learn to recognize a genuinely good partner instead of choosing someone mainly based on how they made you feel initially?

What helped you slow down, observe someone’s character, recognize red flags, and avoid becoming emotionally attached simply because someone showed interest?

I’m not trying to say that having an absent father automatically causes unhealthy relationships. I’m trying to understand whether there can be a connection and, if so, how people have broken that pattern.

I’d especially love to hear from women who grew up with an absent or emotionally unavailable father and later noticed similar patterns in their dating life.

I’m looking for honest personal experiences and practical things that helped—not just general dating advice.

I'm specifically looking for Neville Goddard/Law of Assumption perspectives and personal experiences, not general relationship advice.

For the past few months, I've been consistently working on my self-concept, trying not to react to the 3D, practicing living in the end, and reminding myself that circumstances don't create reality. Even with that, I still struggle with triggers and uncertainty, so I'd really appreciate hearing from people who have been in a similar situation.

I still have feelings for my SP, but at the same time I've started questioning whether what I truly desire is my SP specifically, or simply the experience of being deeply loved, understood, emotionally safe, chosen, and someone's priority.

One circumstances that still triggers me is my driving anxiety (amaxophobia) Because of that, along with family restrictions and my own anxiety, we didn't meet very often. My SP once told me that he was always the one coming to see me, and I've carried guilt about that ever since. I'm learning to drive now, but I still catch myself wondering if I created that circumstance.

Another major trigger was a third person. I reacted emotionally instead of remaining faithful to my assumptions because I felt insecure and believed healthy boundaries weren't there. After the breakup, my SP eventually entered a relationship with that same person. During our final conversation, he admitted that he had been "toxic," which left me even more confused about how I should view the entire situation from a Neville perspective instead of through guilt or fear.

These experiences still trigger me sometimes. Some days I feel completely stable, and other days old memories, couples, or romantic content pull me back into the old story. I'm trying to return to the state of being chosen and loved instead of reacting to appearances.

I'm no longer looking for reassurance that my SP will come back. What I'm really trying to understand is how people who genuinely practiced Neville approached this crossroads.

My questions:

1.Did you continue assuming the end with your SP, or did you eventually become open to manifesting someone new?

2.If you shifted from your SP to a new relationship, what changed internally that made it feel natural?

3.If you manifested your SP back, what inner changes made the biggest difference?

4.Did focusing on self-concept naturally bring the right relationship into your life, regardless of who it was?

5.If you were in my position today, what would you focus on first from a Neville perspective?

I'd really appreciate hearing real experiences rather than just theory.

Thank you. ❤️

I've been practicing revision, self-concept, and trying not to react to circumstances. I was curious about something and wanted to hear personal experiences.

Has anyone here experienced a situation where a 3P naturally faded out of their SP's life after consistently changing their assumptions?

I'm not asking whether it's possible or looking for dating advice. I'm only interested in hearing experiences from people who have applied Neville's teachings in a situation like this.

Hi everyone,

I've been reflecting on EIYPO and something I've noticed in Neville discussions. Many people say that once they stop identifying with a story of fear, comparison, or feeling replaced, the outer world eventually reflects a different reality.

I'm curious about the experiences of people who have consistently applied Neville's teachings.

* Have you ever seen an unwanted relationship dynamic resolve after changing your assumptions?

* Did you mentally revise the situation, or did you simply stop giving it meaning?

* What inner shift happened before the outer world changed?

* Looking back, what assumption do you think was keeping that dynamic alive?

* Which Neville lecture or principle helped you understand this the most?

I'd love to hear personal experiences and different perspectives based on Neville's work.

"I've been practicing revision, working on my self-concept, and trying to stop reacting to circumstances. That's what made me curious about how others have experienced this principle."

Hi everyone.

I genuinely want honest and unbiased opinions because I've been blaming myself for this breakup for a long time.

I have a fear of driving (something similar to amaxophobia/vehophobia), and my ex knew about it because I told him many times. We didn't meet very often because of it. He once said something like, . "I'm always the one who comes, and I'm always the one who picks you up."Ever since then, I've felt like maybe my inability to drive was the main reason the relationship failed.

From my perspective, I wasn't avoiding him. We could have met halfway or somewhere convenient for both of us. Sometimes he was busy with work, and other times I couldn't leave home because I had to make excuses to my family. I'm also introverted and felt anxious traveling alone. I was trying my best.

Now I've started driving again and I'm improving, although I'm still not fully comfortable on busy main roads.

Another major issue was that he kept bringing up his childhood crush/friend. She became a constant third person in our relationship. If he couldn't set boundaries with her, I felt like talking to her directly myself. Was that wrong?

He later said things like:

"You knew I liked her, yet you wanted to remove her from my life and take her place."

"Don't blame her. She did nothing wrong."

"I knew I was wrong, that's why I left you."

"I thought you were a much better person, but now I understand."

"You only thought about yourself and never considered anyone else."

One thing that shocked me even more: after an argument, he blocked me and changed the password to one of his accounts. Earlier, it used to include my name. Out of curiosity, I first tried my name as the password, but it didn't work. Then I randomly tried his childhood crush's name, and it actually worked.

That made me question everything.

So I want brutally honest opinions:

Am I blaming myself too much by thinking my fear of driving caused the breakup?

Was I wrong for wanting to contact the third person because my ex wasn't setting boundaries?

Looking at everything together, what do you think was the biggest reason this relationship failed?

Please don't sugarcoat it. I genuinely want an unbiased perspective.

Hi everyone.

I can ride a scooter, but I don't ride often because I feel very anxious, especially on crowded roads. Before I even leave the house, my mind starts imagining worst-case scenarios, and I become extremely nervous.

Another thing that affects me is people's comments. Whenever someone finds out I don't ride much, they say things like, "You still don't know how to ride?" or make me feel like I'm behind everyone else. Even if they don't mean to be rude, it makes me lose confidence and doubt myself even more.

I'm interested in Law of Assumption, SATS, visualization, and subconscious mind techniques. Has anyone genuinely overcome this kind of fear and self-doubt using these methods?

I'm looking for real experiences, not just theory. What worked for you, and how long did it take?

Thank you.

Hi everyone.

I can ride a scooter, but I don't ride often because I feel very anxious, especially on crowded roads. Before I even leave the house, my mind starts imagining worst-case scenarios, and I become extremely nervous.

Another thing that affects me is people's comments. Whenever someone finds out I don't ride much, they say things like, "You still don't know how to ride?" or make me feel like I'm behind everyone else. Even if they don't mean to be rude, it makes me lose confidence and doubt myself even more.

I'm interested in Law of Assumption, SATS, visualization, and subconscious mind techniques. Has anyone genuinely overcome this kind of fear and self-doubt using these methods?

I'm looking for real experiences, not just theory. What worked for you, and how long did it take?

Thank you.

Hi everyone.

I took an entrance exam today, and honestly, I don't feel very confident about how it went. However, I've been reading about robotic affirmations and how some people use them to manifest their desired outcomes regardless of circumstances.

I'm considering doing robotic affirmations for my selection result, such as repeating "I am selected" or "I got the admission." I'm curious if anyone here has personally used robotic affirmations after taking an important exam, especially when you thought the exam didn't go that well.

Did you continue affirming despite doubts and anxiety? What affirmations did you use, how often did you repeat them, and what was the final outcome?

I'm genuinely interested in hearing real experiences and advice. Thank you.

Hi everyone.

I took an entrance exam today, and honestly, I don't feel very confident about how it went. However, I've been reading about robotic affirmations and how some people use them to manifest their desired outcomes regardless of circumstances.

I'm considering doing robotic affirmations for my selection result, such as repeating "I am selected" or "I got the admission." I'm curious if anyone here has personally used robotic affirmations after taking an important exam, especially when you thought the exam didn't go that well.

Did you continue affirming despite doubts and anxiety? What affirmations did you use, how often did you repeat them, and what was the final outcome?

I'm genuinely interested in hearing real experiences and advice. Thank you.

I'm curious if anyone has consciously used the Law of Assumption to create a reality where a third party (3P) never enters their SP's life at all.

What assumptions, affirmations, self-concept work, or mental practices did you use? Did you assume things like "my SP only has eyes for me," "our relationship is always protected," or something else?

I'm specifically asking about preventing a 3P from ever appearing, rather than manifesting after a 3P situation has already happened. I'd really appreciate hearing your experiences, techniques, beliefs, or success stories.

I'm curious if anyone has consciously used the Law of Assumption to create a reality where a third party (3P) never enters their SP's life at all.

What assumptions, affirmations, self-concept work, or mental practices did you use? Did you assume things like "my SP only has eyes for me," "our relationship is always protected," or something else?

I'm specifically asking about preventing a 3P from ever appearing, rather than manifesting after a 3P situation has already happened. I'd really appreciate hearing your experiences, techniques, beliefs, or success stories.

On Saturday, April 11, 2026, I finally talked to my ex. In the end, he actually got into a relationship with the third person (3P) he had mentioned before during our last conversation. I was shocked because this was exactly what I had been afraid of. When I asked him how it happened and whether it was serious or about the future, he didn't really give a clear answer and just said, "I don't know."

What keeps bothering me is this: if he really felt guilty about everything that happened between us, then why did he move on? When I asked him why he never seriously tried to fix our relationship, he said that whenever he tried to talk to me, I behaved rudely and spoke rudely. But is that really a valid reason? Couldn't he have waited? He disrespected me many times, I tolerated so much from him, and yet I'm the one who stayed emotionally stuck. I understand that he wanted emotional support and someone who would listen to him. He even told me that his friends didn't support him. I tried to understand his situation because I'm not perfect either, but now he has moved on.

He also told me that the third person (3P) had already been physically intimate with her ex twice, and he knows about it. When I asked him whether his relationship with her was serious or casual, he again gave an unclear answer. But when I asked him whether what he and I had shared was serious or casual, he simply called it "casual." That hurt me deeply, and now my mind is filled with questions.

One thing that hurts me the most is that when I needed clarity during our relationship, he never gave it to me. At that time, he couldn't communicate properly. But later, when I talked to his childhood love/crush and he found out that I had spoken to him, he reacted strongly and said many things. Yet when I recently went to him only to get closure and clarity, his current girlfriend called him during our conversation. He told me that he had informed her that he was coming to meet me and even said, "She must be wondering what we're talking about."

This hurts because he is now giving someone else the transparency and honesty that I had desperately wanted from him. He also told me that his current girlfriend still talks to her ex sometimes. When I asked why, he said that it just happens. Then why does it suddenly matter now? Why say these things if he himself doesn't know how serious the relationship is?

Even if I was rude or distant at times, I wasn't always like that. He would disappear for days, block me without explanation, and still I would eventually return and talk to him again. I was trying to create some emotional distance and space because I wanted him to realize my value. Couldn't he understand that? Couldn't he have tried harder? If I was acting distant, couldn't he have waited? I wouldn't have stayed that way forever. Eventually, I would have softened.

Meanwhile, I was deeply in love. Even when I pretended to ignore him, I still secretly checked his social media and wanted to see him. I had opportunities to move on too. I could have said that he was toxic and found someone else for emotional support. Instead, I got support from friends and from others, support that I had hoped to receive from him. Yet despite everything, I stayed and tolerated so much. Sometimes I feel like I was foolish.

He told me that his friends never encouraged him to fix things with me. They simply told him to forget his ex and move on. I understand why people might say that, especially because he hurt me. But what hurts is that no one encouraged him to genuinely try to repair what was broken. If he had sincerely tried to fix things, I honestly believe I would have come back.

Now this experience has become another emotional trauma for me. I feel afraid that if I ever ignore or create distance with someone again, they might leave me too. I feel like I should never ignore anyone in the future because I don't want to experience this kind of pain again.

He also told me that I was actually a good person and that he himself was the toxic one. Hearing that hurts because if he knew he was toxic, then I also had every reason to walk away. Yet I stayed, tolerated everything, and continued caring about him. Even after everything happened, I still thought about him many times every day.

There is also something else that keeps bothering me. On February 28, when he first told me about the third person (3P), I became extremely anxious and desperate. I started talking to many friends about him and about her. I constantly discussed the situation and couldn't stop thinking about it. Now I wonder whether my own fear, obsession, and constant focus on that possibility somehow contributed to him actually getting into a relationship with her.

I had previously learned about the Law of Assumption and how people say that if someone wants to remove a third person from their ex's life, they should stop giving attention and energy to that third person. I did think about her sometimes, but most of my attention remained on my ex. Recently, one of my friends told me that the my ex posts, stories, and highlights had disappeared and that even her second account had been deactivated.

Because I was always the one chasing and trying to fix everything, a part of me wanted him to be the one who would finally fix things for me and change himself for me, even if we never got back together. I wonder whether something like that could happen through the Law of Assumption.

I also keep wondering whether, through the Law of Assumption, it is possible that he never gets into another relationship in the future, that no third person ever enters his life again, and that even if we never get back together, he never becomes emotionally or physically involved with anyone else and somehow remains only mine.

At the same time, what hurts me the most is that I was the ex everyone told him to leave behind—the person they told him not to go back to because he would only hurt her again. That ex was me. And despite everything that happened, a part of me still wanted him to sincerely try to fix what he had broken, because if he had truly tried, I believe I would have given us another chance.

Hi everyone,

I’ve been diving into the Law of Assumption, and I’m really inspired by the idea of shifting my self-concept to embody an "irresistible" and "radiant" version of myself.

I’m not just looking for minor physical changes; I’m interested in manifesting a complete glow-up—a magnetic presence where I feel and look absolutely stunning to myself and others.

For those who have successfully shifted their self-concept to feel "irresistible":

How did you change the way you looked at yourself in the mirror?

What mental affirmations or "living in the end" techniques helped you the most to sustain that feeling of being naturally beautiful?

Did you notice a change in how people treat you or perceive you as you shifted your internal state?

How do you handle the "3D" when you don't feel like your ideal version yet?

Would love to hear your personal journeys and any tips on how to stay consistent in feeling this way! Thanks in advance.

"I recently went through a really messy breakup. My ex was dismissive, gaslighted me, and eventually ended up with someone else while labeling our time together as 'casual.'

I have taken the step of blocking him everywhere because I know that’s what I need for my mental health. However, I’m stuck in a mental trap. Even though I don't want to go back to that toxic dynamic, I still find myself wanting him to realize what he lost. I catch myself wondering if he feels my absence, or if he’s 'tadping' (yearning) for me.

I know this is a sign that I haven't fully let go. I don't want to be the person who is obsessed with his regret or waiting for a 'revenge' reaction.

I have a few questions for those who have been through this:

1.How do you stop the 'wait for their regret'? I know it’s counter-productive to my own healing, but the thought keeps coming back.

2.How do I shift my focus from 'wanting him to miss me' to actually reclaiming my own peace?

3.Did you ever reach a point where you genuinely stopped caring if your ex noticed your absence or not? If so, how did you get there?

I’m tired of giving him rent-free space in my head. I want to feel like myself again, not like a spectator in his life."

"Looking for success stories regarding 3P removal using Law of Assumption. How did you stay disciplined?"