What lessons you learned in your relationship that made your relationship better or even the best than before?

Sorry if my grammar is not right. As i tend to talk like how i speak.

I just wonder what lessons you learned in a hard way or was big enlightenment for you that you even thought “ohh so this is what you want me to understand father”.

Mine is, men and women differ psychologically. From understanding things to the process of logics.

And love is really patient like how God taught us. Love is patient, love is kind… like how God has always been patient to us, we cant set limit to someone we love on how much patience they can only get since even God doesn’t do that.

To show love in every way and to love others like how God loves us. I always say and think “ I learn my way of loving by God” and its an amazing way to give love. And made me understand more cause we love so much and then our SO will hurt us unconsciously or consciously and it hurt so much, but God always love us no matter how many sins we had. So, i love like that. And im glad im in a God centered relationship or it can be used against me.

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u/Cool_Committee_2064 — 5 days ago

Any one needs help?

Hi! If anyone needs help with your business this is what i can do:

  1. Bookkeeping quickbooks (accountancy graduate)

  2. Social media assistant (creating static images, carousel, simple video edits, scheduling and posting etc)

  3. Administrative tasks

I’m based in the Philippines so i accept range from 8-10 USD per hr.

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u/Cool_Committee_2064 — 6 days ago

Need assistant?

Hi! I’m looking for remote work here’s what i can do:

  1. Bookkeeping quickbooks (accountancy graduate)

  2. Social media assistant (creating static images, carousel, simple video edits, scheduling and posting etc)

  3. Administrative tasks

I’m based in the Philippines so i accept range from 8-10 USD per hr.

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u/Cool_Committee_2064 — 6 days ago

What Questions to ask my bf to know more about him.

Hi! What are the questions you wish you asked your bf/fiance before getting married? Or questions you asked during marriage.

My bf and I always ask questions on whatever there is. When we think of it, we ask immediately with no filter. We have talk almost everything, but i know it’s not everything. We talked about Finance, future dynamics, beliefs, traditions we want to keep or not, children, career, home, lifestyle, and even s*x questions we comfortable to do or not (we are waiting for marriage, but we both believe that knowing things can be helpful when we get married as we have ideas what to do and not to do). So far we are aligned on almost everything and we have met in between. We don’t compromise but we discuss and choose which is better.

So i am asking here just to know some questions i might not have asked my bf yet.

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u/Cool_Committee_2064 — 14 days ago

What men want to receive or feel with their gf?

Hi! I (25f) have an amazing bf (28m). I just wanna ask what things do you as a man or your bf/man likes their gf/wife do to them? Gestures, or gifts, or anything that they feel loved. My bf has always been amazing, very sweet and attentive to me. I have always been grateful to God and to him. And i always voice out my appreciation and try to show him love in any ways i can. Of course except for things that can only be done in marriage. I just wanna make sure he is appreciated, loved, and cared for.

Ps. I hope you don’t mind i have wrong grammar or the way i wrote is confusing. English is not my first language :)

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u/Cool_Committee_2064 — 24 days ago
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Constant disappointment

You keep telling me dates and time but you never do it. You constantly giving me hope and keep failing me again and again. I try to understand always, i always convince myself, it’s nothing its a small thing i should be more understanding. But it hurts, i feel low. I feel like im begging to be loved, im begging for time, im begging for future i am not sure if it will come true. My heart keeps hurting. I keep sleeping crying. I keep praying for God to comfort me me and take away negative things on me and give me more understanding and patience and strength. I’m just a girl. I always give my all when i love. I try to love you like how God taught me, selflessly. But it hurt. Now i feel sad for God, he love us so much but we keep disappointing him. But he still takes care and love us.

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u/Cool_Committee_2064 — 25 days ago

How do you handle desire in a relationship?

I’m 25F and in an 8-month LDR with my 28M boyfriend. We’re finally meeting for the first time this month after previous plans were delayed. We’re both serious about our relationship, talk about marriage, and are committed to waiting until marriage.

What surprises me is that I’ve never been someone who experienced strong lust or physical desire, even in past relationships. But with my boyfriend, I feel an intense desire to be close to him. My love language is physical touch, and sometimes I feel touch-starved from the distance. I find myself craving simple things like hugging, holding hands, and being near him.

The feelings become especially strong around ovulation, which is new for me and honestly catches me off guard. I have never felt this strong craving before for intimacy. Part of me thinks it’s because we’ve never even met or hugged in person yet, and maybe finally seeing him will help.

Is this normal? How do people who are waiting until marriage handle strong physical desire? And should I talk openly with my boyfriend about what I’m experiencing?

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u/Cool_Committee_2064 — 2 months ago

[Hiring] outsourcing my Canva Graphic task

Hi mga Mi! Di na kaya ng powers ko, need na mag outsource. I'm a VA and handling many clients, need ko lang ng help sa Canva Graphic tasks sa isang client $3/hr. Sorry if di malaki, hati lang ng kita ko, but graphic designs lang sa canva. Send me your portfolio ( shempre need ko din tignan kung sino yung kaya, i will send you message if ikaw napili) and let's discuss the set up.

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u/Cool_Committee_2064 — 3 months ago