u/Cringe_Username69

What would be the determinants of success in life?

I have no college, BUT i have a good, full time job.

I have a daughter, BUT no husband.

I am 23, I am doing good, but I would like to do better.

I (23, F) want to reach the upper class. I am european, I've went from lower class to almost middle class in 13 months, I have to reach

- middle class

- upper middle class

- upper class

I 100% believe it's possible, but as I can see not some of you guys. Why do I want to do it? For me, social class is a symbole of success. I wanted to improve my life OVERAL and I didn't know how should it look like,

my biggest motivation is my ex who said there's no point. There is a lot of points, I am not talking about wealth, money, freedom. I am talking about looking beautiful, being a very good person, acting like a lady, having stable and good situation with finances, being educated, living in a good environment and beautiful space. Being skilled, fullfilling my talents. Having a good well mannered husband. Who wouldn't want it? I do want it. But I know the path is going to be hard. I have to upgrade myself to set myself in.

And I am looking for tips how to do it.

I am living in Poland, most of the tips that are helpful in the US, are not working here.

Initially, when I was 19, I wanted to turn my life around. Figured out it's easier to do it together. Had my partner in crime. NOPE.

This gentleman turned out to be a jealous mf. We had to break up, leaving our daughter without full family.

How do I finish my plan? I know that social norms of the upper class are very different from my life experience. What would be the way to uplift my appeal?